I'm Going To Get My Ass Kicked. *8-18-09: Mods, Can I Get A Lock On This?*

Why the hell were you talking to her like that in the first place anyway?rockguy92

The kid is three years older than you, a full foot taller than you, probably much better built than you are, and definitely knows how to fight if he's been to jail. On top of all of that he's extremely emotional right now since he thinks you're trying to steal his girlfriend. Ignore people's advice on here to "be a man" and fight, that's the dumbest advice that could be given to you right now. If you two do fight, chances are very good you will wind up in the hospital, no joke. Your best bet is to alert the school and your parents. I doubt they're going to get upset since it's pretty obvious that what you said was a joke.

gameguy6700

listen, what you should do is let him start the fight in school while there are adults around. This way someone will break it up before you get seriously hurt and then you can press charges and he'll go to jail.

i know the majority of OT will tell you to tell the cops or something, but don't do that. it's cowardly, nerdy, and you'll get a bad rep and more people will pick on you/kick your ass. also, don't worry too much about him kicking your ass, he could just be bluffing. his insecure about himself so he picks on others i'm guessing. i've dealth with bullies before through fighting and even if you win, they're still gonna talk all the crap they want. sorry bro, but you're gonna get your ass kicked. just try to avoid him as much as possible.

[QUOTE="gameguy6700"]

The kid is three years older than you, a full foot taller than you, probably much better built than you are, and definitely knows how to fight if he's been to jail. On top of all of that he's extremely emotional right now since he thinks you're trying to steal his girlfriend. Ignore people's advice on here to "be a man" and fight, that's the dumbest advice that could be given to you right now. If you two do fight, chances are very good you will wind up in the hospital, no joke. Your best bet is to alert the school and your parents. I doubt they're going to get upset since it's pretty obvious that what you said was a joke.

Razor-Lazor

[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"][QUOTE="gameguy6700"]

The kid is three years older than you, a full foot taller than you, probably much better built than you are, and definitely knows how to fight if he's been to jail. On top of all of that he's extremely emotional right now since he thinks you're trying to steal his girlfriend. Ignore people's advice on here to "be a man" and fight, that's the dumbest advice that could be given to you right now. If you two do fight, chances are very good you will wind up in the hospital, no joke. Your best bet is to alert the school and your parents. I doubt they're going to get upset since it's pretty obvious that what you said was a joke.

LeGoofyGoober

His safety is more important than his reputation in middle school.

i know the majority of OT will tell you to tell the cops or something, but don't do that. it's cowardly, nerdy, and you'll get a bad rep and more people will pick on you/kick your ass. also, don't worry too much about him kicking your ass, he could just be bluffing. his insecure about himself so he picks on others i'm guessing. i've dealth with bullies before through fighting and even if you win, they're still gonna talk all the crap they want. sorry bro, but you're gonna get your ass kicked. just try to avoid him as much as possible.

LeGoofyGoober

Exactly. Or do what that other guy said and make sure there are witness' around.

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[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"] This is probably the smartest advice I've read in this topic so far.ghoklebutter

His safety is more important than his reputation in middle school.

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[QUOTE="LeGoofyGoober"]

don't do that. trust me. you're gonna be billed as a coward and a nerd for the rest of your middle school years. middle school was the roughest period for me. i fought like 7 times. high school every one is more mature. trust me, don't snitch.

LeGoofyGoober

His safety is more important than his reputation in middle school.

That's a good point I guess...

[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"][QUOTE="gameguy6700"]

The kid is three years older than you, a full foot taller than you, probably much better built than you are, and definitely knows how to fight if he's been to jail. On top of all of that he's extremely emotional right now since he thinks you're trying to steal his girlfriend. Ignore people's advice on here to "be a man" and fight, that's the dumbest advice that could be given to you right now. If you two do fight, chances are very good you will wind up in the hospital, no joke. Your best bet is to alert the school and your parents. I doubt they're going to get upset since it's pretty obvious that what you said was a joke.

LeGoofyGoober

Also if people ask you about it just explain in logical terms that getting into a fight with that guy would mean you would get in trouble regardless of how much the guy deserved a beating from you. However you want to eplain it just be logical and slant the story somewhat in your favor.

Get your older brother to toss him.aRE-you-AFraid

[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"][QUOTE="gameguy6700"]

The kid is three years older than you, a full foot taller than you, probably much better built than you are, and definitely knows how to fight if he's been to jail. On top of all of that he's extremely emotional right now since he thinks you're trying to steal his girlfriend. Ignore people's advice on here to "be a man" and fight, that's the dumbest advice that could be given to you right now. If you two do fight, chances are very good you will wind up in the hospital, no joke. Your best bet is to alert the school and your parents. I doubt they're going to get upset since it's pretty obvious that what you said was a joke.

LeGoofyGoober

Yeah, because the alternative is so much better. Why did I even think that having several broken bones and possible brain damage/coma would be worse than getting teased a little bit? Silly me, we all know that in middle school popularity > your life.

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[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"] This is probably the smartest advice I've read in this topic so far.gameguy6700

Yeah, because the alternative is so much better. Why did I even think that having several broken bones and possible brain damage/coma would be worse than getting teased a little bit? Silly me, we all know that in middle school popularity > your life.

You actually think he would do that to TC?

Even WHEN they are people around?

Get your older brother to toss him.aRE-you-AFraid

Shoot him

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[QUOTE="LeGoofyGoober"]

don't do that. trust me. you're gonna be billed as a coward and a nerd for the rest of your middle school years. middle school was the roughest period for me. i fought like 7 times. high school every one is more mature. trust me, don't snitch.

Crazyguy105

Yeah, because the alternative is so much better. Why did I even think that having several broken bones and possible brain damage/coma would be worse than getting teased a little bit? Silly me, we all know that in middle school popularity > your life.

You actually think he would do that to TC?

Even WHEN they are people around?

Considering he's already been to jail once, yes, I'd say that this kid probably isn't the most restrained person in the world and is liable to go overboard and not care.

It doesn't take very much to do serious damage to a person. I'm a pretty skrawny guy but even I've made people cry in fights before even when I thought I was going easy on them. To be honest, all it takes to kill a person is one well landed punch to the back of the head. Hit hard enough and you can dislodge the brainstem. A few good jabs to the gut can cause internal bleeding. Some kicks to the spine can bruise it causing temporary or permanent paralysis. Humans are quite frail creatures and if you're a big guy pounding on a child and you just go all out, you can easily do some serious damage.

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[QUOTE="gameguy6700"]

Yeah, because the alternative is so much better. Why did I even think that having several broken bones and possible brain damage/coma would be worse than getting teased a little bit? Silly me, we all know that in middle school popularity > your life.

gameguy6700

You actually think he would do that to TC?

Even WHEN they are people around?

Considering he's already been to jail once, yes, I'd say that this kid probably isn't the most restrained person in the world and is liable to go overboard and not care.

But he's going to be called a wuss if he doesn't fight! How can he POSSIBLY go through middle school being teased from time to time? :roll:

*sigh* Stay away from him and apologize again to the girl. Perhaps she'll talk to her boyfriend for her. You shouldn't have said what you did in the first place. And having a weapon is the worst advice I've seen in this thread.LJS9502_basic

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]*sigh* Stay away from him and apologize again to the girl. Perhaps she'll talk to her boyfriend for her. You shouldn't have said what you did in the first place. And having a weapon is the worst advice I've seen in this thread.Razor-Lazor

[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]*sigh* Stay away from him and apologize again to the girl. Perhaps she'll talk to her boyfriend for her. You shouldn't have said what you did in the first place. And having a weapon is the worst advice I've seen in this thread.LJS9502_basic

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[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"] It's hard to stay away from him when we go to the same school, and go along the same bike path. I have apologized to the girl, and she was never offended by it. She says she thought it was funny so she told him. She's not mad, he is.Razor-Lazor

Where do you live. I'll gladly help you out in fighting him if you live close to me. But if you want to report it, just report it. There is always somebody out there is bigger, badder, and tougher. kool-aids

[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Then tell her to talk to him.

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[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"] I did. She did. He won't listen.Razor-Lazor

You can always use your face for his punching bag, or you can be a man and fight back. Either way, if I were you, I'd let him initiate the fight so that I know he's being serious. That way if I kick his ass, at least I know he wanted it....

Or you can tell your teacher or his parents about the misunderstanding and maybe they can work something out, assuming he has parent....

[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"][QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Maybe she just told you she did. If he's her bf she should be able to persuade him.;)

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[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"] I tried telling her that she should be able to, and she got pissed. :|Razor-Lazor

She's been unbelieveable since she told him. She keeps blaming me for being a dumbass and making the joke in the first place, even though she admitted she didn't care.Razor-Lazor

[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"]She's been unbelieveable since she told him. She keeps blaming me for being a dumbass and making the joke in the first place, even though she admitted she didn't care.LJS9502_basic

keep your stance low and charge at him. Then grab his lower legs and trip him over as fast as you can then clinch his ankle/feet with your arms and hands and then tell him that if he doesn't surrender, you'll break his ankle.

You said he has beaten up a lot of people. Well, you should all come together and kick his ass. I bet he won't do it again. He is only thriving on you all being afraid individually.

If that is not an option, then just face him without fear. That will upset him as well. He wants to see you afraid. Don't show it. And fight dirty. There are no "rules" in a fight.

And lastly, he will not kill you. A few wounds will heal quickly. Wounded pride takes longer.

keep your stance low and charge at him. Then grab his lower legs and trip him over as fast as you can then clinch his ankle/feet with your arms and hands and then tell him that if he doesn't surrender, you'll break his ankle.

Trinners

Also TC just remember: even if you do get your ass kicked there's nothing wrong with that. You made a mistake, said something you shouldn't have and you'll get a life lesson from it. ;)zero9167

I don't usually make topics with personal problems in OT, but I'm running out of people to go to, and I figured I'd come here.

I'm in seventh grade, and I'm thirteen. There's this guy named Cole, and he's in eighth grade, but he should be in tenth grade. He abuses drugs, and is 6'3. I'm about 5'3. He beats up lots of people, just because no one can stop him from doing it. He's been to juvenile prison before.

Anyways, I was talking to his girlfriend from another town on Facebook. We were joking around, and we started talking about his drug abuse. I came up with this sort of funny, joke advice to her about stripping until he gets rid of all the drugs. She laughed, and we kept talking about it. Then I said something like, "And when it's all done, send me pics lol jk." She thought I was serious for a second, and I told her I was joking, and she laughed and we talked a little more until she logged off.

So yesterday, I got a text from a number I didn't know that said I was going to get my ass kicked. I asked who it was and it was Cole. He thought I was serious about her sending me a picture, and I tried to tell him it was a joke but he didn't listen. He said next time he sees me, I'm ****ed. :|

Now, I'm scared. People are telling me I'm going to die. I can't tell my parents, because of the fact we were talking about sexual stuff like that and if I tried to explain this to them they would think I was serious about the picture. I could call my 30 year old cousin and tell him to fight for me, but then Cole would just get more pissed at me. I could call the cops and report a threat, but I don't know if this counts as a threat, and once again, Cole would just get more pissed.

So OT, what should I do?

Razor-Lazor

1.Grow a pair

2.Do some push-ups

3.Fight him back

[QUOTE="zero9167"]Also TC just remember: even if you do get your ass kicked there's nothing wrong with that. You made a mistake, said something you shouldn't have and you'll get a life lesson from it. ;)Razor-Lazor

Ok listen to these 3 steps 1.Grow a pair

2.Do some push-ups 3.Fight him backx8VXU6

[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"][QUOTE="zero9167"]Also TC just remember: even if you do get your ass kicked there's nothing wrong with that. You made a mistake, said something you shouldn't have and you'll get a life lesson from it. ;)chrisrooR

[QUOTE="zero9167"]Also TC just remember: even if you do get your ass kicked there's nothing wrong with that. You made a mistake, said something you shouldn't have and you'll get a life lesson from it. ;)Razor-Lazor

[QUOTE="x8VXU6"]Ok listen to these 3 steps 1.Grow a pair

2.Do some push-ups 3.Fight him backRazor-Lazor

yeah you gotta tell someone that can intervene before this fight happens. That way if it does still happen (you should still fight back obviously) you can say you knew it was going to happen and tried to get help to prevent it.alibys are really a good thing.