Will Pedophilia ever be accepted like H0m0sexuality here?

After what I suffered at the hands of a paedophile when I was 5, I will never, ever accept such monsters. Anyone who harms and/or kills a child for their own sexual satisfaction isn't a person, not even an animal, they're the worst example of life.
Children should be allowed to have their innocence, not have it ripped away from them before they even know that they're truly alive. If I weren't so determined to be more than people think I should be because of all that I've suffered in life, from having so very little and having my childhood taken from me by a vile, uncaring thing like the person who sexually and mentally abused me, I would hunt her down and make her pay for what she took from me.

But if I did that, then I would be just as vile and degraded as them. Unlike them, I have my heart, my soul and my morals. To harm a child like those things do is to murder in a way that goes beyond the physical, it takes a victim of those...those things a lot to not become like them.

Homosexuality is harmless, it's only two people of the same sex with deep feelings and sexual interests in one another, paedophila is nothing like that.

R/T

I highly doubt it. Actually we are moving away from being able to marry the younger generations. At the birth of modern time people would routinely marry at the yougn age of 13 because their life expectancy was quite a lot lower than it is today and those were the years of female 'coming of age'. With life expectancy growing so greatly you'll probably see more and more people moving toward a greater age bracket.

Edit: over reacted a little

No because 2 adult gay men can fall in love with each other. A 10 year old well never really fall in love with a 30 year, especially in sexual sense. For it to be accepted the 10 year would have to consent and I rarely doubt anyone would let a 10 year old consent

Unlike them, I have my heart, my soul and my morals.Smokescreened84

Pedophilia is against the norm. People hate what's not the norm, so of course it's not going to be accepted. A long time ago, it wasn't weird at all. It wasn't weird to see a 30 year old man marry a 14 year old girl. People can't choose what they're attracted to. That's why we have homosexuality. If people are attracted to younger children, then it's not their choice. If you've read Lolita, you can see how the protagonist's lust for Lolita develops and how it destroys him. Very good read. I see no difference in homosexuality or pedophilia. Now acting upon those desires is another thing. Big difference between a pedophile and a child molester.the_foreign_guy

I agree with this. If you are attracted to younger people, then it's okay, just as long as you don't let your attraction get to you and molest a child, try to have a relationship with a child, or look at child pornography. There are just some things you cannot control about yourself, and what you are attracted to is one of those things.

[QUOTE="the_foreign_guy"]Pedophilia is against the norm. People hate what's not the norm, so of course it's not going to be accepted. A long time ago, it wasn't weird at all. It wasn't weird to see a 30 year old man marry a 14 year old girl. People can't choose what they're attracted to. That's why we have homosexuality. If people are attracted to younger children, then it's not their choice. If you've read Lolita, you can see how the protagonist's lust for Lolita develops and how it destroys him. Very good read. I see no difference in homosexuality or pedophilia. Now acting upon those desires is another thing. Big difference between a pedophile and a child molester.BiancaDK

But like I said, as long as they don't act upon their desires.

[QUOTE="the_foreign_guy"]Pedophilia is against the norm. People hate what's not the norm, so of course it's not going to be accepted. A long time ago, it wasn't weird at all. It wasn't weird to see a 30 year old man marry a 14 year old girl. People can't choose what they're attracted to. That's why we have homosexuality. If people are attracted to younger children, then it's not their choice. If you've read Lolita, you can see how the protagonist's lust for Lolita develops and how it destroys him. Very good read. I see no difference in homosexuality or pedophilia. Now acting upon those desires is another thing. Big difference between a pedophile and a child molester.DJ-Lafleur

I agree with this. If you are attracted to younger people, then it's okay, just as long as you don't let your attraction get to you and molest a child, try to have a relationship with a child, or look at child pornography. There are just some things you cannot control about yourself, and what you are attracted to is one of those things.

Pedophilia is illegal. Homosexuality, although immoral, was never a crime.

Homosexuality, although immoral, was never a crime.

wslacker2

I dont think it will ever be accepted...

Pedophillia is highly overrated in my opinion. I really dont remember being totally clueless at the age of 13. And really many men use flattery to get into the pants of women and even adult mature women fall for it and get dumped after the guy had enough pleasure from them.

I should bloody well hope not.

[QUOTE="wslacker2"] Homosexuality, although immoral, was never a crime.

AngelofDeath213

It also used to be listed as a mental disorder by the DSM, much like pedophilia is now.

Personally, I don't see the psychological, or political standpoints on pedophilia changing that much. Nor should they.

[QUOTE="DJ-Lafleur"]

[QUOTE="the_foreign_guy"]Pedophilia is against the norm. People hate what's not the norm, so of course it's not going to be accepted. A long time ago, it wasn't weird at all. It wasn't weird to see a 30 year old man marry a 14 year old girl. People can't choose what they're attracted to. That's why we have homosexuality. If people are attracted to younger children, then it's not their choice. If you've read Lolita, you can see how the protagonist's lust for Lolita develops and how it destroys him. Very good read. I see no difference in homosexuality or pedophilia. Now acting upon those desires is another thing. Big difference between a pedophile and a child molester.munu9

I agree with this. If you are attracted to younger people, then it's okay, just as long as you don't let your attraction get to you and molest a child, try to have a relationship with a child, or look at child pornography. There are just some things you cannot control about yourself, and what you are attracted to is one of those things.

And I agree. Adult shouldn't have any relationships with children (a husband and wife type relationship that is, a parent and child relationship is of course fine), nor should adults have sex with children. As long as these adults keep their attraction to younger people all in their head, and don;t try to have any sexual relationships to children or marriages or whatever, then it's all good.

And I agree. Adult shouldn't have any relationships with children (a husband and wife type relationship that is, a parent and child relationship is of course fine), nor should adults have sex with children. As long as these adults keep their attraction to younger people all in their head, and don;t try to have any sexual relationships to children or marriages or whatever, then it's all good.

DJ-Lafleur

That creates a bit of a problem, though. Most people WILL act on their sexual desires.

I think there needs to be some more prelevent forms of theropy for this kind of thing.

Is this a joke? I hope this is a joke. Homosexuality and pedophelia are two different things...

One involves two consenting adults, whereas the other is between one adult and a highly impressionably child...in a sexual relationship...never going to happen.

[QUOTE="DJ-Lafleur"]

And I agree. Adult shouldn't have any relationships with children (a husband and wife type relationship that is, a parent and child relationship is of course fine), nor should adults have sex with children. As long as these adults keep their attraction to younger people all in their head, and don;t try to have any sexual relationships to children or marriages or whatever, then it's all good.

effena

That creates a bit of a problem, though. Most people WILL act on their sexual desires.

I think there needs to be some more prelevent forms of theropy for this kind of thing.

Unfortunately, that is true, as well. :(

Pedophilia is against the norm. People hate what's not the norm, so of course it's not going to be accepted. A long time ago, it wasn't weird at all. It wasn't weird to see a 30 year old man marry a 14 year old girl. .the_foreign_guy

Dude those are two completely different things.

Homosexuals should be insulted for even having that compared to them.sSubZerOo

eventually you have to get over it you hear some form of hatred like at least once a weak:|...dumb stereotypes

I keep wondering about this. I don't know if it's just me or not but it doesn't seem impossible to me... Wasn't THAT long ago being gay was, like, the worst thing ever.

What do you guys think?
And I'm not talking about rape.

Edit: I'm not talking about molesting, either.

Tsimcluckis

Never.....

[QUOTE="Tsimcluckis"]

I keep wondering about this. I don't know if it's just me or not but it doesn't seem impossible to me... Wasn't THAT long ago being gay was, like, the worst thing ever.

What do you guys think?
And I'm not talking about rape.

Edit: I'm not talking about molesting, either.

bsman00

Never.....

[QUOTE="bsman00"]

[QUOTE="Tsimcluckis"]

I keep wondering about this. I don't know if it's just me or not but it doesn't seem impossible to me... Wasn't THAT long ago being gay was, like, the worst thing ever.

What do you guys think?
And I'm not talking about rape.

Edit: I'm not talking about molesting, either.

marluxia101

Never.....

R u talking about being gay or being a pedo?

[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="bsman00"]

Never.....

bsman00

R u talking about being gay or being a pedo?

Pedophilia obviously includes the desire to act upon that attraction. If pedophilia were to become accepted in the same way that homosexuality is today - the very premise in the title of this thread - then that would necessarily carry with it the acceptance of acting upon those desires.

Homosexuality is accepted because people have recognized that there is no harm whatsoever in having those desires or acting upon those desires. The same is not true for pedophilia. Acceptance that pedophiles exist and that they have these desires is not acceptance of pedophilia in the same way that homosexuality has been accepted; even the staunchest anti-gay preachers accept that homosexuals exist and have their desires.

Thus, everything I have said is perfectly relevant.

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[QUOTE="marluxia101"] there was nothing wrong with it people are just realizing thats its not a choice especially the new generation...arent we like the z generation or sumtin

marluxia101

R u talking about being gay or being a pedo?

[QUOTE="marluxia101"]

[QUOTE="bsman00"]

R u talking about being gay or being a pedo?

Andrew_Xavier

Why do I get the feeling that the OP and BucketsOfSpunk are gay pedophiles?

Pedophilia obviously includes the desire to act upon that attraction. If pedophilia were to become accepted in the same way that homosexuality is today - the very premise in the title of this thread - then that would necessarily carry with it the acceptance of acting upon those desires.

Homosexuality is accepted because people have recognized that there is no harm whatsoever in having those desires or acting upon those desires. The same is not true for pedophilia. Acceptance that pedophiles exist and that they have these desires is not acceptance of pedophilia in the same way that homosexuality has been accepted; even the staunchest anti-gay preachers accept that homosexuals exist and have their desires.

Thus, everything I have said is perfectly relevant.

There are no victims when someone is gay There are victims when someone is a pedophile.

If you engage in ANY form of sex, be it bisexuality, h0m0sexuality, or heterosexuality, you must still be AT LEAST 16 in most states.

Pedophilia requires boys and girls younger than that age group participating with an adult. This is a time period that most kids aren't ready for, mentally or physically. It leads to scarring and permanently negative views that stay with them forever, giving them a disjointed view on something that can be beautiful and loving if done right.

No state in the United States would or could allow such a thing. Not to mention the public outcry from such a thing.

If this ever became common legal practice, I'd leave this state.

As long as society values the safety of children then pedophilia will never be accepted.

[QUOTE="the_foreign_guy"]Pedophilia is against the norm. People hate what's not the norm, so of course it's not going to be accepted. A long time ago, it wasn't weird at all. It wasn't weird to see a 30 year old man marry a 14 year old girl. People can't choose what they're attracted to. That's why we have homosexuality. If people are attracted to younger children, then it's not their choice. If you've read Lolita, you can see how the protagonist's lust for Lolita develops and how it destroys him. Very good read. I see no difference in homosexuality or pedophilia. Now acting upon those desires is another thing. Big difference between a pedophile and a child molester.BiancaDK

Wait. How is a man that likes 13-14 year old girls a mental disorder and a man liking another man not a mental disorder? :?

People keep bringing up the fact that pedophiles are born with their sick desires. So are serial killers (with the desire to kill and maim, most get extreme pleasure from it) but that in no way makes the serial killers innocent.

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="the_foreign_guy"]Pedophilia is against the norm. People hate what's not the norm, so of course it's not going to be accepted. A long time ago, it wasn't weird at all. It wasn't weird to see a 30 year old man marry a 14 year old girl. People can't choose what they're attracted to. That's why we have homosexuality. If people are attracted to younger children, then it's not their choice. If you've read Lolita, you can see how the protagonist's lust for Lolita develops and how it destroys him. Very good read. I see no difference in homosexuality or pedophilia. Now acting upon those desires is another thing. Big difference between a pedophile and a child molester.Hungry_Jello

Wait. How is a man that likes 13-14 year old girls a mental disorder and a man liking another man not a mental disorder? :?