Would you date a virgin?

[QUOTE="cheese_game619"][QUOTE="omho88"]

even better .. I will marry one.

lightleggy

Yeah.  I don't really have a problem with it.

yes and I married a virgin (my first wife)

I remember our wedding night - the next morning she sat up and gave me a "sour look" and said:

"Well I hope you're happy now, you made me bleed!"

it was less than a year later she got an annulment while I was in the hospital after a car wreck.

If you like someone...date her. If you don't want a monogamous relationship...don't. It's up to which you prefer. LJS9502_basic

yes and I married a virgin (my first wife)

I remember our wedding night - the next morning she sat up and gave me a "sour look" and said:

"Well I hope you're happy now, you made me bleed!"

it was less than a year later she got an annulment while I was in the hospital after a car wreck.

iowastate

[QUOTE="MuddyMaestro"]

Heck, a partner who is a virgin is more of a positive aspect than a negative one in my opinion, since it suggests purity, and more likely to be loyal.

Aljosa23

 

yes and I married a virgin (my first wife)

 

I remember our wedding night - the next morning she sat up and gave me a "sour look" and said:

 

"Well I hope you're happy now, you made me bleed!"

 

 

 

 

it was less than a year later she got an annulment while I was in the hospital after a car wreck.

 

iowastate

Once you go raw there is no going back.MgamerBD

Some people do like it.lightleggy

[QUOTE="lightleggy"]Some people do like it.foxhound_fox

Of course I would date a virgin so long as I am attracted to her. Actually, it is probably a plus as she hasn't been slutting around for years.

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] How is it fcking stupid? :slightleggy

Yeah, you have no f*cking idea what you're talking about. Big surprise there.

I hate the prejudice against virgins. stonecold611

Hell Yea I Would Date a Virgin Because You Already Know your not going to caught anything 

Hell Yea I Would Date a Virgin Because You Already Know your not going to caught anything 

louisfoxton

don't see why not? you should actually try to be shooting for a girl thats untouched.

don't see why not? you should actually try to be shooting for a girl thats untouched.

Chris_Williams

[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"]

don't see why not? you should actually try to be shooting for a girl thats untouched.

Aljosa23

[QUOTE="Aljosa23"]

[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"]

don't see why not? you should actually try to be shooting for a girl thats untouched.

Chris_Williams

[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"][QUOTE="Aljosa23"]Spoken like someone who doesn't know what he's talking about smhShadowJax04

[QUOTE="ShadowJax04"][QUOTE="Chris_Williams"] what? Just my own personal preference, I been with all types of girls so I kind of know what i'm talking about buddy. I mean if i see a girl and we talk and I find she's a virgin or not, it really doesn't matter. But I kind of like virgins because theres alot you guys can explore with when the time comes. You mad bro?Chris_Williams

Me? Try you.

[QUOTE="Aljosa23"]

[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"]

don't see why not? you should actually try to be shooting for a girl thats untouched.

Chris_Williams

lol why I be mad? You're the one that replied all defensively.

[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"][QUOTE="Aljosa23"]Spoken like someone who doesn't know what he's talking about smh

Aljosa23

lol why I be mad? You're the one that replied all defensively.

Virgin: Yes.

Very religious: No. 

 

 

LordQuorthon

[QUOTE="lightleggy"]Some people do like it.foxhound_fox

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] How is it fcking stupid? :slightleggy

Here's hoping she doesn't have any fetishes

And not really, you find out what you enjoy through experimentation
You don't immediately enjoy what the other person is doing, just because they're the one doing it

[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"] Shit sex = shit relationship Better make sure you're compatible before you commit the rest of your lifechaoscougar1

Here's hoping she doesn't have any fetishes

And not really, you find out what you enjoy through experimentation
You don't immediately enjoy what the other person is doing, just because they're the one doing it

[QUOTE="cheese_game619"][QUOTE="lightleggy"]Sexual compatibility is completely false, there's a huge difference between that and getting used to another sexual partner. the concept of "Sexual compatibility" is none existant if both people are virgins as none of them have had anything to get used to, if you had a gf for 6 years who would give you a blowjob every morning, have sex every day with you and made some weird-contortionist position you really enjoyed, you're obviously not gonna feel as good with a girl who isn't like that, and it's not because "you were born to like those things" but because you were already used to having them. if both are virgins and know nothing, there is absolutely no issue.lightleggy

Sexual compatability is a real thing. Every person has their own turn-ons, their own buttons. They're not going to enjoy something simply because they've never had sex before and their spouse is doing it too them. Here's a good article on the subject.

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] RIdiculous? how is it ridiculous? There is absolutely no proof about "sexual compatibility" other than "You got used to what you were getting". If both of them are virgins how will they even know what they are getting? unless theres a fetish that not everyone will be able to deal with (Sadism, masochism to name a few). There is absolutely nothing to support it besides annecdotal evidence like "I had to dumb my GF because she wouldn't like doggystyle anal, you see my previous GF loved it and we did it every week so I couldn't stand being with that girl who never put up for it!!" that is everything you hear about it, there is no such thing, it's just people getting used to an experience and then claiming how toxic it is to date a virgin.lightleggy

I elaborated. Now respond to that.

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] RIdiculous? how is it ridiculous? There is absolutely no proof about "sexual compatibility" other than "You got used to what you were getting". If both of them are virgins how will they even know what they are getting? unless theres a fetish that not everyone will be able to deal with (Sadism, masochism to name a few). There is absolutely nothing to support it besides annecdotal evidence like "I had to dumb my GF because she wouldn't like doggystyle anal, you see my previous GF loved it and we did it every week so I couldn't stand being with that girl who never put up for it!!" that is everything you hear about it, there is no such thing, it's just people getting used to an experience and then claiming how toxic it is to date a virgin.lightleggy

Where to begin?

What proof are you looking for?
Because people know what they like and what makes them feel good. Fetishes, turn ons, positions, foreplay and generally the person doesn't matter
Yes, if you love the person it can enhance the sexual experience, but if they aren't getting the basics right...

Thats a fucking spectacular sentence "Anecdotal evidence is everything you hear about, but its all wrong"
Its funny how sexual experiences vary from person to person...

I am going to hazard a guess and say you are a virgin yourself

[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"] lolchaoscougar1

Where to begin?

What proof are you looking for?
Because people know what they like and what makes them feel good. Fetishes, turn ons, positions, foreplay and generally the person doesn't matter
Yes, if you love the person it can enhance the sexual experience, but if they aren't getting the basics right...

Thats a **** spectacular sentence "Anecdotal evidence is everything you hear about, but its all wrong"
Its funny how sexual experiences vary from person to person...

I am going to hazard a guess and say you are a virgin yourself

Oh well, we'll just agree to disagree, if you want to think that dating/marrying a virgin is stupid, go ahead and think it, I won't be able to change your mind so there is really no point in this. Good day chaos.

Here'sworlock77

Sure, but I only date girls around my age and I'd be pretty shocked to meet a 28 year old virgin.

Dating a virgin is a huge gamble. You might never get married and waste alot of time with no sex. Even worse you might get married and find out that she is no a very sexual person or is just into foreplay. Your wife might just be a great friend and that is cool but many virgins have problems. Some are porn addicts and have major emotional issues when they don't get their way.

[QUOTE="worlock77"]Here'sGTA_dude

I've alway believed there's much more to a relationship than just sex but to each his own I suppose.