I've had one girlfriend that was a virgin. I told her the first time would be awesome... well you can guess what happened next
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I've had one girlfriend that was a virgin. I told her the first time would be awesome... well you can guess what happened next
lol @ she would do anal.
who the hell would want to have anything to do with a person that lawyers up on god on the fine details of intent.
[QUOTE="rocinante_"]She's done oral, but not anal, which I'm ok with. We talked about that, she'll do everything but vaginal :lol: Apparently god is okay with anal sex before marriage. That is good to know.idk, date er for a bit n see if she could really be the one; you do have a lot in common, you say
plus, you can still do other stuff like oral n anal (unless that's against her religious beliefs as well?). maybe she'll grow out of her religious beliefs on that matter too
GTA_dude
lmao what a misogynist. Women aren't meant to be "conquered" but I guess that's why you're a virgin.I'd probably prefer it, knowing you're the first (and possibly only) person to go down under. Uncharted territory!
sune_Gem
[QUOTE="rocinante_"]She's done oral, but not anal, which I'm ok with. We talked about that, she'll do everything but vaginal Okay yeah she's not a virgin, I don't really care that technically virginity is gone when you have had true vaginal intercourse. Once you have had a genitals in your mouth the whole, "I'm a pure little virgin," argument doesn't really apply to you.idk, date er for a bit n see if she could really be the one; you do have a lot in common, you say
plus, you can still do other stuff like oral n anal (unless that's against her religious beliefs as well?). maybe she'll grow out of her religious beliefs on that matter too
GTA_dude
lmao what a misogynist. Women aren't meant to be "conquered" but I guess that's why you're a virgin. Some guys just want to plant their flag....[QUOTE="sune_Gem"]
I'd probably prefer it, knowing you're the first (and possibly only) person to go down under. Uncharted territory!
Aljosa23
No, had an awkward situation once.
Dated this girl that was a virgin, and we ended up having sex.
I have a big dick, and sex just seemed to be painful to her.
So in the future I'm gonna avoid that.
[QUOTE="rocinante_"]She's done oral, but not anal, which I'm ok with. We talked about that, she'll do everything but vaginal Then whats your problem?idk, date er for a bit n see if she could really be the one; you do have a lot in common, you say
plus, you can still do other stuff like oral n anal (unless that's against her religious beliefs as well?). maybe she'll grow out of her religious beliefs on that matter too
GTA_dude
If you like someone...date her. If you don't want a monogamous relationship...don't. It's up to which you prefer. LJS9502_basic
lmao what a misogynist. Women aren't meant to be "conquered" but I guess that's why you're a virgin.[QUOTE="sune_Gem"]
I'd probably prefer it, knowing you're the first (and possibly only) person to go down under. Uncharted territory!
Aljosa23
i don't think he means it in a misogynist way. He probably prefers that his girl hasn't had cum blasted all over her face by 5 different guys.
Unless you're an insecure little boy no one cares about that stuff. You'd be surprised how many women are sexually promiscuous in the real world and way more men (again, if you're not insecure) prefer and want someone with experience so you don't have to waste time making her learn stuff. Someone's past sexual history matters 0 in a relationship anyway unless she has a child or has STIs.i don't think he means it in a misogynist way. He probably prefers that his girl hasn't had cum blasted all over her face by 5 different guys.
nomsayin
It's fun in these threads how you can pinpoint which users are immature and which are not just by their posts.
it depends.
If I like her a lot and she is ok with oral sex, then yes I would be fine with dating her.
If she is the girl of my dreams, like "Oh my god, mutual love at first sight. I love her, she loves me, lets get married in a year blahblahblah" then sure, why not, I can rely on jerkin it for that long I guess.
Out of curiosity, where does the abstinence movement stand on oral sex? Is it ok? Does abstinence apply only to traditional penis-in-vagina sex?
are you sure she is telling the truth???? Maybe she thinks it will weed out guys who only want to hook up? Anyways I say get the head man. If you dont like it just leave it,
don't date a mormon bruh
personally i would only date someone who's waiting until marriage if we shared the same interests in pretty much everything (music, films, video games, anime, etc.).
otherwise nah
lolNo, had an awkward situation once.
Dated this girl that was a virgin, and we ended up having sex.
I have a big dick, and sex just seemed to be painful to her.
So in the future I'm gonna avoid that.
MakeMeaSammitch
Is this even a virginity issue?
Personally, I would'nt date a person, whoose beliefs supercedes our relationship.
Yes it is.. Anyone who says it's not is an idiot trying to look for a "loophole" in their beliefs.idk, date er for a bit n see if she could really be the one; you do have a lot in common, you say
plus, you can still do other stuff like oral n anal (unless that's against her religious beliefs as well?). maybe she'll grow out of her religious beliefs on that matter too
rocinante_
LMAOIs this even a virginity issue?
Personally, I would'nt date a person, whoose beliefs supercedes our relationship.
MlauTheDaft
good luck, man
Unless you're an insecure little boy no one cares about that stuff. You'd be surprised how many women are sexually promiscuous in the real world and way more men (again, if you're not insecure) prefer and want someone with experience so you don't have to waste time making her learn stuff. Someone's past sexual history matters 0 in a relationship anyway unless she has a child or has STIs.[QUOTE="nomsayin"]
i don't think he means it in a misogynist way. He probably prefers that his girl hasn't had cum blasted all over her face by 5 different guys.
Aljosa23
It's fun in these threads how you can pinpoint which users are immature and which are not just by their posts.
It does matter though. At least, if we're talking about her having done gang bangs and real extreme sexual acts...I don't know how great I'd feel about that. And couples should be open with the possibility of STD transmission if there isn't regular testing being done.
It does matter though. At least, if we're talking about her having done gang bangs and real extreme sexual acts...I don't know how great I'd feel about that. And couples should be open with the possibility of STD transmission if there isn't regular testing being done.chrisrooRSo if you really like a girl then a few months down the line she tells you something you're uncomfortable with would you just break up with her like that?
So if you really like a girl then a few months down the line she tells you something you're uncomfortable with would you just break up with her like that?[QUOTE="chrisrooR"]It does matter though. At least, if we're talking about her having done gang bangs and real extreme sexual acts...I don't know how great I'd feel about that. And couples should be open with the possibility of STD transmission if there isn't regular testing being done.Aljosa23
Depends how she feels about it. If she feels regretful, then I'll probably be okay.
Sure, I don't see why not date a virgin. Being a virgin myself it would be kind of stupid to judge a woman for laos being one. I don't know if I'd want to have to wait until after marriage though, but I suppose it may not be an automatic dealbreaker if I got to know the girl well enough and care about her. I really haven't thought about it much.
So if you really like a girl then a few months down the line she tells you something you're uncomfortable with would you just break up with her like that?[QUOTE="chrisrooR"]It does matter though. At least, if we're talking about her having done gang bangs and real extreme sexual acts...I don't know how great I'd feel about that. And couples should be open with the possibility of STD transmission if there isn't regular testing being done.Aljosa23
It really depends on what she did and how much I care for her.
So if you really like a girl then a few months down the line she tells you something you're uncomfortable with would you just break up with her like that?[QUOTE="Aljosa23"]
[QUOTE="chrisrooR"]It does matter though. At least, if we're talking about her having done gang bangs and real extreme sexual acts...I don't know how great I'd feel about that. And couples should be open with the possibility of STD transmission if there isn't regular testing being done.nomsayin
Depends how she feels about it. If she feels regretful, then I'll probably be okay.
Aren't you a virgin? I guess I can understand that if you feel your manhood is threatened by being with someone more experienced but again that goes back to insecurity. To each their own, though. I don't care because if I did I'd be a huge hypocrite and somewhat sexist because of dat double standard.LMAO[QUOTE="MlauTheDaft"]
Is this even a virginity issue?
Personally, I would'nt date a person, whoose beliefs supercedes our relationship.
Aljosa23
good luck, man
Religion is rather casual in large parts of the world, FYI.
I do prefer to not have to deal with "god" bull ofc.
[QUOTE="rocinante_"]She's done oral, but not anal, which I'm ok with. We talked about that, she'll do everything but vaginal 1 she's not a virgin and 2 if she'll do those then you should be good... better than getting some airhead pregnant...idk, date er for a bit n see if she could really be the one; you do have a lot in common, you say
plus, you can still do other stuff like oral n anal (unless that's against her religious beliefs as well?). maybe she'll grow out of her religious beliefs on that matter too
GTA_dude
A "very religious" girl would not date anyone outside of her religion to begin with. I wouldn't take what she says too seriously.
Why should she feel regretful about it?Niff_T
if she has an epiphany of some sort and realizes that it was a mistake.
Aren't you a virgin? I guess I can understand that if you feel your manhood is threatened by being with someone more experienced but again that goes back to insecurity. To each their own, though. I don't care because if I did I'd be a huge hypocrite and somewhat sexist because of dat double standard.Aljosa23
Yeah. It's not an issue of my manhood being threatened, it's just that I don't want to kiss someone that has had 5 other guys' things in her mouth. Some people are fine with things like that, I'm really not.
Eh...that's not entirely true.A "very religious" girl would not date anyone outside of her religion to begin with. I wouldn't take what she says too seriously.
Bubble_Man
Good point, although that actually varies based on the religion and specific denomination of the person. Some religions allow their members to date outside of their faith in certain situations.A "very religious" girl would not date anyone outside of her religion to begin with. I wouldn't take what she says too seriously.
Bubble_Man
[QUOTE="Bubble_Man"]Good point, although that actually varies based on the religion and specific denomination of the person. Some religions allow their members to date outside of their faith in certain situations. but a very religious girl wouldn't be okay with anal and oral because "it's not sex, derp"A "very religious" girl would not date anyone outside of her religion to begin with. I wouldn't take what she says too seriously.
ad1x2
DAMNOdd question. Where I live, most people would only date virgins.
Barbariser
That is a sweet deal.
[QUOTE="ad1x2"][QUOTE="Bubble_Man"]Good point, although that actually varies based on the religion and specific denomination of the person. Some religions allow their members to date outside of their faith in certain situations. but a very religious girl wouldn't be okay with anal and oral because "it's not sex, derp" Once again, depends on denomination. There are thousands of different denominations of Christianity alone, all of whom have different interpretations of the Bible from each other. Some denominations say you will go to Hell for popping a boner to a Maxim, others say you're good to go as long as you don't commit murder, and there are even some where you don't even have an afterlife.A "very religious" girl would not date anyone outside of her religion to begin with. I wouldn't take what she says too seriously.
lightleggy
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