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#51 Postal_Guy
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I've had one girlfriend that was a virgin. I told her the first time would be awesome... well you can guess what happened next

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#52 Riverwolf007
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lol @ she would do anal.

who the hell would want to have anything to do with a person that lawyers up on god on the fine details of intent.

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#53 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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Heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeell no.

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#54 Commander-Gree
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[QUOTE="rocinante_"]

idk, date er for a bit n see if she could really be the one; you do have a lot in common, you say

plus, you can still do other stuff like oral n anal (unless that's against her religious beliefs as well?). maybe she'll grow out of her religious beliefs on that matter too

GTA_dude

She's done oral, but not anal, which I'm ok with. We talked about that, she'll do everything but vaginal

:lol: Apparently god is okay with anal sex before marriage. That is good to know.  

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#55 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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I'd probably prefer it, knowing you're the first (and possibly only) person to go down under. Uncharted territory!

sune_Gem

lmao what a misogynist. Women aren't meant to be "conquered" but I guess that's why you're a virgin.

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#56 Serraph105
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[QUOTE="rocinante_"]

idk, date er for a bit n see if she could really be the one; you do have a lot in common, you say

plus, you can still do other stuff like oral n anal (unless that's against her religious beliefs as well?). maybe she'll grow out of her religious beliefs on that matter too

GTA_dude
She's done oral, but not anal, which I'm ok with. We talked about that, she'll do everything but vaginal

Okay yeah she's not a virgin, I don't really care that technically virginity is gone when you have had true vaginal intercourse. Once you have had a genitals in your mouth the whole, "I'm a pure little virgin," argument doesn't really apply to you.
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#57 LJS9502_basic
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[QUOTE="sune_Gem"]

I'd probably prefer it, knowing you're the first (and possibly only) person to go down under. Uncharted territory!

Aljosa23

lmao what a misogynist. Women aren't meant to be "conquered" but I guess that's why you're a virgin.

Some guys just want to plant their flag....
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#58 SolidSnake35
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Yes, I would if I really liked her.
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#59 Swanogt19
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If you like her go for it. Surely an actual relationship that grows into something special will be much more memorable and worthy than partying and sleeping with multiple females.
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#60 benleslie5  Moderator
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If they are very religous, the answer would be no

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#61 MakeMeaSammitch
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No, had an awkward situation once. 

Dated this girl that was a virgin, and we ended up having sex.

I have a big dick, and sex just seemed to be painful to her.

So in the future I'm gonna avoid that.

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#62 Rattlesnake_8
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[QUOTE="rocinante_"]

idk, date er for a bit n see if she could really be the one; you do have a lot in common, you say

plus, you can still do other stuff like oral n anal (unless that's against her religious beliefs as well?). maybe she'll grow out of her religious beliefs on that matter too

GTA_dude
She's done oral, but not anal, which I'm ok with. We talked about that, she'll do everything but vaginal

Then whats your problem?
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If you like someone...date her. If you don't want a monogamous relationship...don't. It's up to which you prefer. LJS9502_basic
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#64 nomsayin
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[QUOTE="sune_Gem"]

I'd probably prefer it, knowing you're the first (and possibly only) person to go down under. Uncharted territory!

Aljosa23

lmao what a misogynist. Women aren't meant to be "conquered" but I guess that's why you're a virgin.

i don't think he means it in a misogynist way. He probably prefers that his girl hasn't had cum blasted all over her face by 5 different guys. 

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#65 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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i don't think he means it in a misogynist way. He probably prefers that his girl hasn't had cum blasted all over her face by 5 different guys. 

nomsayin

Unless you're an insecure little boy no one cares about that stuff. You'd be surprised how many women are sexually promiscuous in the real world and way more men (again, if you're not insecure) prefer and want someone with experience so you don't have to waste time making her learn stuff. Someone's past sexual history matters 0 in a relationship anyway unless she has a child or has STIs.

It's fun in these threads how you can pinpoint which users are immature and which are not just by their posts.

 

 

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#66 mrbojangles25
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it depends.

If I like her a lot and she is ok with oral sex, then yes I would be fine with dating her.

If she is the girl of my dreams, like "Oh my god, mutual love at first sight.  I love her, she loves me, lets get married in a year blahblahblah" then sure, why not, I can rely on jerkin it for that long I guess.

Out of curiosity, where does the abstinence movement stand on oral sex? Is it ok? Does abstinence apply only to traditional penis-in-vagina sex?

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#67 consoletroll
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are you sure she is telling the truth???? Maybe she thinks it will weed out guys who only want to hook up? Anyways I say get the head man. If you dont like it just leave it,

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#68 KHAndAnime
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A virgin? Yes. A virgin waiting for marriage? No. I'm only 21 and have dated women who eventually told me to come out that they already have kids and are paying child support :| Honestly, I'd much rather meet a virgin than someone who's already seen much use. Having said that, my GF was far from a virgin when I met her (and she was only 16).
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#69 Shottayouth13-
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Did it once, and I don't think I'll do it again, especially with a Christian (I'm not working that hard for just p*ssy). The attachment rate after breakup is too high.
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#70 VanHelsingBoA64
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don't date a mormon bruh

personally i would only date someone who's waiting until marriage if we shared the same interests in pretty much everything (music, films, video games, anime, etc.).

otherwise nah

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#71 BossPerson
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No, had an awkward situation once. 

Dated this girl that was a virgin, and we ended up having sex.

I have a big dick, and sex just seemed to be painful to her.

So in the future I'm gonna avoid that.

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#72 ad1x2
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Virgins can be an unique experience. However, that whole looking for a pure virgin phase went away a long time ago when reality kicks in and you realize unless you're just starting high school you won't find too many your own age. Or the fact that they are usually clueless in bed compared to a woman who has been around.
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#73 MlauTheDaft
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Is this even a virginity issue?

Personally, I would'nt date a person, whoose beliefs supercedes our relationship.

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#74 MonoSilver
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Obviously yes. If I actually liked her and we got on. You know, get the basics sorted first.
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#75 lightleggy
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idk, date er for a bit n see if she could really be the one; you do have a lot in common, you say

plus, you can still do other stuff like oral n anal (unless that's against her religious beliefs as well?). maybe she'll grow out of her religious beliefs on that matter too

rocinante_
Yes it is.. Anyone who says it's not is an idiot trying to look for a "loophole" in their beliefs.
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#76 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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Is this even a virginity issue?

Personally, I would'nt date a person, whoose beliefs supercedes our relationship.

MlauTheDaft

LMAO

good luck, man

 

 

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#77 lightleggy
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OK if she's done oral and it's okay with anal, no, she isn't a "very religious" and it's actually pretty hypocritical.
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[QUOTE="nomsayin"]

i don't think he means it in a misogynist way. He probably prefers that his girl hasn't had cum blasted all over her face by 5 different guys. 

Aljosa23

Unless you're an insecure little boy no one cares about that stuff. You'd be surprised how many women are sexually promiscuous in the real world and way more men (again, if you're not insecure) prefer and want someone with experience so you don't have to waste time making her learn stuff. Someone's past sexual history matters 0 in a relationship anyway unless she has a child or has STIs.

It's fun in these threads how you can pinpoint which users are immature and which are not just by their posts.

 

 

It does matter though. At least, if we're talking about her having done gang bangs and real extreme sexual acts...I don't know how great I'd feel about that. And couples should be open with the possibility of STD transmission if there isn't regular testing being done.
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It does matter though. At least, if we're talking about her having done gang bangs and real extreme sexual acts...I don't know how great I'd feel about that. And couples should be open with the possibility of STD transmission if there isn't regular testing being done.chrisrooR
So if you really like a girl then a few months down the line she tells you something you're uncomfortable with would you just break up with her like that?

 

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Not if they were planning to stay that way.

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[QUOTE="chrisrooR"]It does matter though. At least, if we're talking about her having done gang bangs and real extreme sexual acts...I don't know how great I'd feel about that. And couples should be open with the possibility of STD transmission if there isn't regular testing being done.Aljosa23

So if you really like a girl then a few months down the line she tells you something you're uncomfortable with would you just break up with her like that?

 

Depends how she feels about it. If she feels regretful, then I'll probably be okay. 

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#82 DJ-Lafleur
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Sure, I don't see why not date a virgin. Being a virgin myself it would be kind of stupid to judge a woman for laos being one. I don't know if I'd want to have to wait until after marriage though, but I suppose it may not be an automatic dealbreaker if I got to know the girl well enough and care about her. I really haven't thought about it much.

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[QUOTE="chrisrooR"]It does matter though. At least, if we're talking about her having done gang bangs and real extreme sexual acts...I don't know how great I'd feel about that. And couples should be open with the possibility of STD transmission if there isn't regular testing being done.Aljosa23

So if you really like a girl then a few months down the line she tells you something you're uncomfortable with would you just break up with her like that?

 

It really depends on what she did and how much I care for her.
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#84 ninjastar
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Sure.
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[QUOTE="Aljosa23"]

[QUOTE="chrisrooR"]It does matter though. At least, if we're talking about her having done gang bangs and real extreme sexual acts...I don't know how great I'd feel about that. And couples should be open with the possibility of STD transmission if there isn't regular testing being done.nomsayin

So if you really like a girl then a few months down the line she tells you something you're uncomfortable with would you just break up with her like that?

 

Depends how she feels about it. If she feels regretful, then I'll probably be okay. 

Aren't you a virgin? I guess I can understand that if you feel your manhood is threatened by being with someone more experienced but again that goes back to insecurity. To each their own, though. I don't care because if I did I'd be a huge hypocrite and somewhat sexist because of dat double standard.

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#86 MlauTheDaft
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[QUOTE="MlauTheDaft"]

Is this even a virginity issue?

Personally, I would'nt date a person, whoose beliefs supercedes our relationship.

Aljosa23

LMAO

good luck, man

 

Religion is rather casual in large parts of the world, FYI.

I do prefer to not have to deal with "god" bull ofc.

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#87 Niff_T
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Depends how she feels about it. If she feels regretful, then I'll probably be okay. 

nomsayin

Why should she feel regretful about it?

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#88 jeremiah06
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[QUOTE="rocinante_"]

idk, date er for a bit n see if she could really be the one; you do have a lot in common, you say

plus, you can still do other stuff like oral n anal (unless that's against her religious beliefs as well?). maybe she'll grow out of her religious beliefs on that matter too

GTA_dude
She's done oral, but not anal, which I'm ok with. We talked about that, she'll do everything but vaginal

1 she's not a virgin and 2 if she'll do those then you should be good... better than getting some airhead pregnant...
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A "very religious" girl would not date anyone outside of her religion to begin with. I wouldn't take what she says too seriously.

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#90 nomsayin
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Why should she feel regretful about it?

Niff_T

if she has an epiphany of some sort and realizes that it was a mistake. 

Aren't you a virgin? I guess I can understand that if you feel your manhood is threatened by being with someone more experienced but again that goes back to insecurity. To each their own, though. I don't care because if I did I'd be a huge hypocrite and somewhat sexist because of dat double standard.Aljosa23

Yeah. It's not an issue of my manhood being threatened, it's just that I don't want to kiss someone that has had 5 other guys' things in her mouth. Some people are fine with things like that, I'm really not. 

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#91 LJS9502_basic
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A "very religious" girl would not date anyone outside of her religion to begin with. I wouldn't take what she says too seriously.

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Eh...that's not entirely true.
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#92 ad1x2
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A "very religious" girl would not date anyone outside of her religion to begin with. I wouldn't take what she says too seriously.

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Good point, although that actually varies based on the religion and specific denomination of the person. Some religions allow their members to date outside of their faith in certain situations.
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Odd question. Where I live, most people would only date virgins. 

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#94 lightleggy
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[QUOTE="Bubble_Man"]

A "very religious" girl would not date anyone outside of her religion to begin with. I wouldn't take what she says too seriously.

ad1x2
Good point, although that actually varies based on the religion and specific denomination of the person. Some religions allow their members to date outside of their faith in certain situations.

but a very religious girl wouldn't be okay with anal and oral because "it's not sex, derp"
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#95 GrannyGoat
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better a virgin than a sl*t like most women these days!

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#96 deactivated-5b1e62582e305
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Odd question. Where I live, most people would only date virgins. 

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That is a sweet deal.

 

 

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#97 Wolfetan
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Virgin: Yes.

Very religious: No. 

 

 

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I'd also say this..
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#98 Fightingfan
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I'm good with just oral - less work.
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#99 ad1x2
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[QUOTE="ad1x2"][QUOTE="Bubble_Man"]

A "very religious" girl would not date anyone outside of her religion to begin with. I wouldn't take what she says too seriously.

lightleggy
Good point, although that actually varies based on the religion and specific denomination of the person. Some religions allow their members to date outside of their faith in certain situations.

but a very religious girl wouldn't be okay with anal and oral because "it's not sex, derp"

Once again, depends on denomination. There are thousands of different denominations of Christianity alone, all of whom have different interpretations of the Bible from each other. Some denominations say you will go to Hell for popping a boner to a Maxim, others say you're good to go as long as you don't commit murder, and there are even some where you don't even have an afterlife.
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#100 RobbHunter
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If I was single and was interested in the girl, then I'd definitely date her. What does someone's sexual experiences (or lack thereof) matter? But if you're really interested in partying it up and dating/sleeping with other women, then just keep this girl as a very close friend -- that way, over time, you'll see how she both acts and reacts in and to a multitude of situations.