ofc I would.
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[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"][QUOTE="chilly-chill"]but that's just something you don't do. MrPralinelol @ deontology stupid kants LOL
Well if you're gonna pursue somebody that is spoken for, you better believe you're gonna be in for a world of pain.
The main problem with going after a girl that is taken is having to worry about her boyfriend beating you up.
I dont really have to worry about that anymore, back in highschool i defenetly did tho.
Doesnt mean its the right thing to do, its just acceptable in a small minority of situations.
There is nothing I hate more then a person who tries to get with a taken person after they know they are taken. It is beyond selfish and both parties should feel ashamed.
I feel if it is right and if I see that man is a good person for her. But I'm not the one to judge... unless it is obvious and apparnt to the point where you see that person as being inhumane to her.
No. I might have feelings for her, but I wouldn't want to ruin a relationship. Maybe I would try to flirt and get her to get with me after breaking up with the current BF, but I would not do anything while she was with someone.
No, if she accepts then she's disloyal and not worth it, and if she declines then there was no point.
then you are an idiot, and someone will take the girl from you. seriously I like to believe there is still such thing as honor between men. one should never try to mess with another man's woman.I used to think that trying to "get with" a girl that was taken already was a wrong thing to do. For awhile now I have changed my belief and decided that if you like a girl you should try to take her no matter what. The first reason is most of the good girls are taken. They're taken because their good. Also I think love can strike with anyone and you never know who it's going to be. Why ever risk a chance at love with a girl, just because shes taken?
I would definitly go for a girl thats taken.
Ugalde-
I used to think that trying to "get with" a girl that was taken already was a wrong thing to do. For awhile now I have changed my belief and decided that if you like a girl you should try to take her no matter what. The first reason is most of the good girls are taken. They're taken because their good. Also I think love can strike with anyone and you never know who it's going to be. Why ever risk a chance at love with a girl, just because shes taken?
I would definitly go for a girl thats taken.
Ugalde-
Taken as in married or just a girlfriend? I would not pursue somone who is married. I may persue someone who is just a girlfriend depending on whether or not I was persuing her long before she entered a releationship. I would not persue if her beau is a friend of mine or someone that I respect, unless that friend purposely moved in with no consideration for my feelings. There are many factors that I would have to consider before doing such thing. Besides, I'm already married.
[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]
I used to think that trying to "get with" a girl that was taken already was a wrong thing to do. For awhile now I have changed my belief and decided that if you like a girl you should try to take her no matter what. The first reason is most of the good girls are taken. They're taken because their good. Also I think love can strike with anyone and you never know who it's going to be. Why ever risk a chance at love with a girl, just because shes taken?
I would definitly go for a girl thats taken.
Snaptrap
Taken as in married or just a girlfriend? I would not pursue somone who is married. I may persue someone who is just a girlfriend depending on whether or not I was persuing her long before she entered a releationship. I would not persue if her beau is a friend of mine or someone that I respect, unless that friend purposely moved in with no consideration for my feelings. There are many factors that I would have to consider before doing such thing. Besides, I'm already married.
so I shall ask you the same question I asked TC. if the girl leaves her boyfriend for you, whats stopping her from leaving you for someone else?[QUOTE="Snaptrap"][QUOTE="Ugalde-"]
I used to think that trying to "get with" a girl that was taken already was a wrong thing to do. For awhile now I have changed my belief and decided that if you like a girl you should try to take her no matter what. The first reason is most of the good girls are taken. They're taken because their good. Also I think love can strike with anyone and you never know who it's going to be. Why ever risk a chance at love with a girl, just because shes taken?
I would definitly go for a girl thats taken.
lightleggy
Taken as in married or just a girlfriend? I would not pursue somone who is married. I may persue someone who is just a girlfriend depending on whether or not I was persuing her long before she entered a relationship. I would not persue if her beau is a friend of mine or someone that I respect, unless that friend purposely moved in with no consideration for my feelings. There are many factors that I would have to consider before doing such thing. Besides, I'm already married.
so I shall ask you the same question I asked TC. if the girl leaves her boyfriend for you, whats stopping her from leaving you for someone else?That would be one of my considerations. I would not persue someone who is just looking for a better deal unless she had good reason too. I would also take into account her relationship history. Does she move around alot? How long are the relationships? Are her flaws going to impose on creating a stable and lasting relationship? I would not just dive in as a love sick puppy.
if i'm stronger than the other guy or think i have more to offer, then it's fair game. :cool:ZumaJones07Captain America sig is making me lul
[QUOTE="chilly-chill"]I don't have a lot of morals but that's just something you don't do. Nine scumbags in OTMrPralineLol black and white thinking. Have fun spouting moral superiority never pursuing a girl trapped in a sh*tty or even abusive relationship. lol what? Its my fault there screwed oer because I cant save them? What kind of logic is that? Not everyone needs rescueing, and is a complete different situation. Point of the matter is, going after another dudes is pretty low, and I eould question her ability of being in a steady relationship if she just chases the next thing she sees.
Thats differnt though:/ If hse is an abusive relationship u should help her out as a friend.I feel if it is right and if I see that man is a good person for her. But I'm not the one to judge... unless it is obvious and apparnt to the point where you see that person as being inhumane to her.
Gaming-Planet
It depends. Not just any girl. I'd have to have strong feelings for them. I would not pursue them in hopes of developing those kind of feelings. Like you seem to suggest. and you're wrong about all the good girls being taken because they're good. there are plenty of terrible girls that are takenStRaItJaCkEt36A girl I was already in love with, that wouldnt be a deep love to motivate me to be a theif. I mean, IF i had the feelings for her that I had for my ex when we were golden, then....maybe, but that is still pretty scumy to me:/ If u have feelings for a girl, it would more then likely just be a crush. If u were friends, wouldnt u have already tried this pursuit?
I used to think that trying to "get with" a girl that was taken already was a wrong thing to do. For awhile now I have changed my belief and decided that if you like a girl you should try to take her no matter what. The first reason is most of the good girls are taken. They're taken because their good. Also I think love can strike with anyone and you never know who it's going to be. Why ever risk a chance at love with a girl, just because shes taken?
I would definitly go for a girl thats taken.
Ugalde-
No. I've been in these ugly situations before and it is absolutely not worth it. Also, have some respect for your fellow man, if nothing else.
and btw how the hell would a girl who accepts that be a "good girl"? if she leaves her guy for you, whats stopping her from doing the same thing to you? thats not a good girl at all.lightleggyWell I'm 19. A lot of people our age are in a dead relationship. They're most likely not in love, so their probably not going to get married. If I really like a girl I think I should go for her no matter what. If she leaves me for him just because, then your right shes no good. But if we both really feel something than her ending a relationship early for me is no big deal. If I had a girlfriend that I liked but I wasn't really in love with,and I met a girl that I really felt special about I would break up my current, going to end some day relationship, for the girl I really feel special about. If the girl leaves me for another guy than it wasn't meant to be. She wasn't special for me and that's the end of it.
[QUOTE="lightleggy"]and btw how the hell would a girl who accepts that be a "good girl"? if she leaves her guy for you, whats stopping her from doing the same thing to you? thats not a good girl at all.Ugalde-Well I'm 19. A lot of people our age are in a dead relationship. They're most likely not in love, so their probably not going to get married. If I really like a girl I think I should go for her no matter what. If she leaves me for him just because, then your right shes no good. But if we both really feel something than her ending a relationship early for me is no big deal. If I had a girlfriend that I liked but I wasn't really in love with,and I met a girl that I really felt special about I would break up my current, going to end some day relationship, for the girl I really feel special about. If the girl leaves me for another guy than it wasn't meant to be. She wasn't special for me and that's the end of it. dude I met a girl who was completly in love with her first boyfriend and they were doing good, then some douchebag friend of hers started flriting with the girl and ended up telling her he loved her, the girl rejected him and remained with her boyfriend but ever since that guy did that she kind of started doubting of her relationship and her current boyfriend until she finally stopped loving the guy and broke up with him. thats the kind of **** those things do, they confuse the girl and can even permanently **** her sh*t and turn them into girls who cant be in steady relationships. you are not a man seriously, only a coward goes for a taken girl.
[QUOTE="Ugalde-"][QUOTE="lightleggy"]and btw how the hell would a girl who accepts that be a "good girl"? if she leaves her guy for you, whats stopping her from doing the same thing to you? thats not a good girl at all.lightleggyWell I'm 19. A lot of people our age are in a dead relationship. They're most likely not in love, so their probably not going to get married. If I really like a girl I think I should go for her no matter what. If she leaves me for him just because, then your right shes no good. But if we both really feel something than her ending a relationship early for me is no big deal. If I had a girlfriend that I liked but I wasn't really in love with,and I met a girl that I really felt special about I would break up my current, going to end some day relationship, for the girl I really feel special about. If the girl leaves me for another guy than it wasn't meant to be. She wasn't special for me and that's the end of it. dude I met a girl who was completly in love with her first boyfriend and they were doing good, then some douchebag friend of hers started flriting with the girl and ended up telling her he loved her, the girl rejected him and remained with her boyfriend but ever since that guy did that she kind of started doubting of her relationship and her current boyfriend until she finally stopped loving the guy and broke up with him. thats the kind of **** those things do, they confuse the girl and can even permanently **** her sh*t and turn them into girls who cant be in steady relationships. you are not a man seriously, only a coward goes for a taken girl.Lol. If she stopped loving him because another guy stepped in then the other guy did him a favor. If she stopped loving him just because another guy loves her then "other guy" did "relationship guy" a favor. If I have a girlfriend and she leaves me for another guy than I would be crushed, I admit that. But he did me a favor. She's not my girl, if shes willing to leave me for someone else.
Lol black and white thinking. Have fun spouting moral superiority never pursuing a girl trapped in a sh*tty or even abusive relationship. lol what? Its my fault there screwed oer because I cant save them? What kind of logic is that? Not everyone needs rescueing, and is a complete different situation. Point of the matter is, going after another dudes is pretty low, and I eould question her ability of being in a steady relationship if she just chases the next thing she sees. How on Earth did you get that from my post? All, and it brings tears to my face that I have to explain this again, I said is that there's situations where it's not inherently immoral to pursue a "taken" girl.[QUOTE="MrPraline"][QUOTE="chilly-chill"]I don't have a lot of morals but that's just something you don't do. Nine scumbags in OTBardock47
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