Would you pursue a girl that is taken?

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#1 Ugalde-
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I used to think that trying to "get with" a girl that was taken already was a wrong thing to do. For awhile now I have changed my belief and decided that if you like a girl you should try to take her no matter what. The first reason is most of the good girls are taken. They're taken because their good. Also I think love can strike with anyone and you never know who it's going to be. Why ever risk a chance at love with a girl, just because shes taken?

I would definitly go for a girl thats taken.

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#2 Fightingfan
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No, not worth the drama, and besides my morals stand in the way of me doing that. I might tell her I have a crush on her though, but that's about it.

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#3 DJ-Lafleur
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No.

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#4 -Fromage-
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Well I used to think that the line: "I have a boyfriend" was pretty much the end of the conversation. But over time I learned it doesnt have to be, and you can still have a non-threatening conversation and get to know one another. So yes I would pursue, just in a more relaxed way than if she were single.
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#5 Just-Breathe
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no, not good to be messing with another dudes gril. best off leavign it until shees single
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#6 TheHighWind
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There are more women on the planet then men.

Do you know why? Well, wars, and men who go after taken women. (they die)

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#7 themajormayor
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Yes if hot

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#8 NiKva
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No, because I'm not patient.
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#9 Jackc8
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Oh heck yeah. I think every time I've been broken up with it was because of another guy. I'm certainly not going to abide by some morality that no one else pays any attention to.

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#10 eboyishere
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I did last night....i was partly drunk tho
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#11 lensflare15
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No. If I was sucsessful, that probably means she's not very faithful, so what's the point?

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#12 MrPraline
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I have before but wasn't aware of my competition at that point. Was fun times asking her out too. I've liked a few "taken" girls but never bothered much. Have enough of a headache and can't say I have the time to fight jock types atm.
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#13 -DirtySanchez-
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nope because whats to stop her from dumping you for the next guy like she did for you?
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#14 CycleOfViolence
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No.

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#15 michael_1234576
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Just because there's a goalie in net doesn't mean you can't score

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#16 Ugalde-
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Just because there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't scoremichael_1234576
OMFG awesome.
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#17 thriteenthmonke
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Well, based on historical evidence I wouldn't even pursue a girl who's single, so no.
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#18 one_plum
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Says something about the girl's loyalty if she dumps her bf for another.

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#19 King-Kai
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I personally think that anyone who tries to take another guy's girl deserves to be physically harmed. That's crossing the line.

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#20 eboyishere
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I personally think that anyone who tries to take another guy's girl deserves to be physically harmed. That's crossing the line.

King-Kai

Do you think most guys care if a girl is seeing someone?

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#21 ghoklebutter
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Why can't I just befriend her? It's not like every single woman in the world is a potential girlfriend to me.
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#22 MrPraline
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Why can't I just befriend her? It's not like every single woman in the world is a potential girlfriend to me.ghoklebutter
I'd befriend her day and ni-
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#23 Ugalde-
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Why can't I just befriend her? It's not like every single woman in the world is a potential girlfriend to me.ghoklebutter
I never said you couldn't. That wasn't the question.
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#24 deactivated-5806da829a153
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If I find her to be very pretty I would but I'd be worrying that her boyfriend will come and beat me up if I try to take his girlfriend so I'd rather not. Or worse, that her husband will report me to the authorities for stalking his wife. So I'd rather not.

What this reallyproves though is that natural selection really gets to decide which man gets the woman in the end.

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#25 King-Kai
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[QUOTE="King-Kai"]

I personally think that anyone who tries to take another guy's girl deserves to be physically harmed. That's crossing the line.

eboyishere

Do you think most guys care if a girl is seeing someone?

Of course they care. The girl's loyalty lies elsewhere and attempting to gain it is troublesome (unless you're rich and/ or famous).

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#26 TheHighWind
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It reminds me when I was in a bar, drunk, and some guy ways chatting up my girlfriend. I walk up to him and said: "Hey! You trying to steal my drink?" I picked my drink up off the table and walked away.

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#27 eboyishere
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It reminds me when I was in a bar, drunk, and some guy ways chatting up my girlfriend. I walk up to him and said: "Hey! You trying to steal my drink?" I picked my drink up off the table and walked away.

TheHighWind

even though that story sounds like I heard it somewhere else, it still made me lol

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#28 ArmoredCore55
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No, that would be wrong.
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#29 Commander-Gree
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No, I wouldn't. Plenty of other fish in the sea. Would you like somebody pursuing your girlfriend?
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#30 chilly-chill
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No way, that's against da rules.
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#31 ghoklebutter
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I'd befriend her day and ni-MrPraline

LOL

[QUOTE="ghoklebutter"]Why can't I just befriend her? It's not like every single woman in the world is a potential girlfriend to me.Ugalde-
I never said you couldn't. That wasn't the question.

Well, that's my answer; instead of pursuing her for a relationship, I'd opt for friendship.

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#32 chilly-chill
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I don't have a lot of morals but that's just something you don't do. Nine scumbags in OT
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#33 MrPraline
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I don't have a lot of morals but that's just something you don't do. Nine scumbags in OTchilly-chill
Lol black and white thinking. Have fun spouting moral superiority never pursuing a girl trapped in a sh*tty or even abusive relationship.
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#34 tomo90
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No, I'd get over it and move on. You could potentially ruin a relationship (and a friendship if your close friends with either of the people involved) and end up being in the same position as before. Not worth it.

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#36 Ugalde-
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I don't have a lot of morals but that's just something you don't do. Nine scumbags in OTchilly-chill
So you would give up the girl of your dreams just because someone found her first? What if him/her aren't even in a great relationship? I'm not saying that you need to get her to cheat on him. Just leave him for you.
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#37 chilly-chill
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[QUOTE="chilly-chill"]I don't have a lot of morals but that's just something you don't do. Nine scumbags in OTMrPraline
Lol black and white thinking. Have fun spouting moral superiority never pursuing a girl trapped in a sh*tty or even abusive relationship.

You know what I mean..
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#38 themajormayor
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I don't have a lot of morals but that's just something you don't do. Nine scumbags in OTchilly-chill
But what if she's hot??
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#39 chilly-chill
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[QUOTE="chilly-chill"]I don't have a lot of morals but that's just something you don't do. Nine scumbags in OTUgalde-
So you would give up the girl of your dreams just because someone found her first? What if him/her aren't even in a great relationship? I'm not saying that you need to get her to cheat on him. Just leave him for you.

Doesn't matter if she is or not. If it was meant to be then you can wait it out till the relationship is over..
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#40 Aquat1cF1sh
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That's a huge negative. If someone ever approached me that way knowing I was in a committed relationship I'd probably lose a good amount of respect for them.
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#41 MrPraline
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[QUOTE="MrPraline"][QUOTE="chilly-chill"]I don't have a lot of morals but that's just something you don't do. Nine scumbags in OTchilly-chill
Lol black and white thinking. Have fun spouting moral superiority never pursuing a girl trapped in a sh*tty or even abusive relationship.

You know what I mean..

Of course I did. Just saying I'm not too sure it's inherently immoral to pursue a girl that's "taken".
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#42 Ugalde-
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[QUOTE="Ugalde-"][QUOTE="chilly-chill"]I don't have a lot of morals but that's just something you don't do. Nine scumbags in OTchilly-chill
So you would give up the girl of your dreams just because someone found her first? What if him/her aren't even in a great relationship? I'm not saying that you need to get her to cheat on him. Just leave him for you.

Doesn't matter if she is or not. If it was meant to be then you can wait it out till the relationship is over..

Sorry, my bad. I don't believe in fate. I believe that you have to make things happen if you want them to happen. Things don't just work out for you. I believe that fully so if their was a girl I really liked someone else liking her first wouldn't stop me from trying.
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#43 Optical_Order
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No ring = she is available.

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#44 chilly-chill
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[QUOTE="Ugalde-"][QUOTE="chilly-chill"][QUOTE="Ugalde-"] So you would give up the girl of your dreams just because someone found her first? What if him/her aren't even in a great relationship? I'm not saying that you need to get her to cheat on him. Just leave him for you.

Doesn't matter if she is or not. If it was meant to be then you can wait it out till the relationship is over..

Sorry, my bad. I don't believe in fate. I believe that you have to make things happen if you want them to happen. Things don't just work out for you. I believe that fully so if their was a girl I really liked someone else liking her first wouldn't stop me from trying.

I think I worded that wrong, because I don't believe in fate either but there are certain ways you go about things...Surely you can wait it out.
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#45 BossPerson
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If I liked her and she is worth it, then yes

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#46 ghoklebutter
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but that's just something you don't do. chilly-chill
lol @ deontology
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#47 Ugalde-
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[QUOTE="chilly-chill"][QUOTE="Ugalde-"][QUOTE="chilly-chill"] Doesn't matter if she is or not. If it was meant to be then you can wait it out till the relationship is over..

Sorry, my bad. I don't believe in fate. I believe that you have to make things happen if you want them to happen. Things don't just work out for you. I believe that fully so if their was a girl I really liked someone else liking her first wouldn't stop me from trying.

I think I worded that wrong, because I don't believe in fate either but there are certain ways you go about things...Surely you can wait it out.

Maybe. This is a confusing topic to me, that's why I made it. I think my mind could change on this one in the future. For now though no one is going to stop me from getting the girl I want, not even the girl(just kidding).
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#48 eboyishere
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I don't have a lot of morals but that's just something you don't do. Nine scumbags in OTchilly-chill

The common guy is a scumbag tho, which is why you always have to guard your girl because i promise you someone else will be trying to make a move

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#49 MrPraline
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[QUOTE="chilly-chill"]but that's just something you don't do. ghoklebutter
lol @ deontology

stupid kants
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#50 Artekus
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I have in the past. But she came onto me first and I knew what a total tool her husband was. Abusive, controlling etc and I decided he didn't deserve her.

Wouldn't have done it under normal circumstances and in future wont do it under any circumstances.