Does anyone ever wish they were born a female?

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#101 BiancaDK
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the mere notion is absurd to me
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#102 branketra
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Not really.
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#103 comp_atkins
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nope
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#104 noxboxlive
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the mere notion is absurd to meBiancaDK

omg you got unbanned.

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#105 Baconbits2004
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[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]the mere notion is absurd to menoxboxlive

omg you got unbanned.

omg, you got unbanned

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#106 noxboxlive
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[QUOTE="noxboxlive"]

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]the mere notion is absurd to meBaconbits2004

omg you got unbanned.

omg, you got unbanned

omg, you stopped using the sig I made for you :cry:

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#107 deactivated-5c47d700b56ab
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No but I have came across a few male to female transgendered people in my life and I found all of them to be quite attractive.

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#108 BiancaDK
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[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]the mere notion is absurd to menoxboxlive

omg you got unbanned.

you knew they'd cave in eventually ;3 also hi :3
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#109 LostVoyager
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[QUOTE="LostVoyager"]

I do quite frequently but other times I am glad to be a male. I regard this as frequent among men. Women are really beautiful imo and that is probably why idk I feel bad looking at them not because jealousy moreso I hate the perception I am objectifying them.I hate that I am viewed as creepy.

Anyways enough about me, I would like to inquire what my friends on Off Topic feel and experience.

helwa1988

Oh quit complaining. I was born female and we got our issues too. Men still are getting paid more then women. Women are used constantly to sell things from cars to beer. women who sleep around are shamed. If a guy does the same he gets pats on the back by his boysv Female super heros in movies are always wearing sexed up attire. Usually in something short or latex. It is acceptable for a male star to gain weight but god forbid a female star gain 5 pounds. At least dudes aren't always getting objectifies. And bosses tend to have more respect and take male employees more seriously than females. even if the male is a total slacker.

I am not saying you all do not. I am sorry I gave you this perception but what you are experiencing is from a select few men (the alpha males), the betas too to a certain degree, however most men (the omegas like me ) respect women greatly even though we are least liked.

Men do not have a cake walk either though, I respect women have it a little harder and go through much more. I mean just today I learned more about discrimination of women in the workplace and was disgusted with myself for somewhat being a part of it. I think most men feel that way.

I understand you being upset at me for my claim and you perceived that I think women have it easier would be the reason but it is not. I understand if you are still disgusted at me wanting to have been born a female though.

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#110 noxboxlive
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[QUOTE="noxboxlive"]

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]the mere notion is absurd to meBiancaDK

omg you got unbanned.

you knew they'd cave in eventually ;3 also hi :3

hi

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#111 deactivated-6243ee9902175
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It pops into mind occasionally when I think of all the double-standards against men. It would make a lot of things easier, that is for sure. Either way though I try to go through life with the cards that were dealt to me instead of folding and trying to start a new round with different terms.

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#112 Articuno76
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It's an argument that can never be won and goes on indefinitely: would it be easier/better being a woman? One reason it can never be won is because often times the negative consequences of being a specific sex are mental barriers rather than problems that manifest in society. 1: Approaching the opposite sex What men think it is like: we often envy that women get approached and essentially have the entire mating process happen to them without having to take deeply emotional risks like attempting to initiate conversation, sex and the rejection that comes with. What women think it is like: They feel the have a lack of freedom to do the very things I just described. In their minds they imagine being a man and getting a woman is as easy as just walking up and saying hi...and then things just somehow happen... 2: Being respected What women think it is like: They lament that men have authority and are considered to be knowledgeable and respected. In their minds they imagine men who are in fact knowledgeable and respected but respected more so than their female counterpart. What men think it is like: Having to live with the expectations of being knowledgeable and honing traits that make us respect worthy or face feelings of crushing incompetence and inadequacy. ---------- I am not trying to make a point that men have life harder than women here...that argument as mentioned earlier, could never, ever be won. And even if it could it is not a constructive use of time. Say I win the argument that life is harder as man...am I in any a better position for winning that argument? Not really. Why would I, or anyone else try so hard to win the argument that their lives are harder than their counterpart? It doesn't appear to make sense. Well...I'll get back to that. At the end of the day people just want to be appreciated for being alive and bringing their sex specific talents for the table. Even if those talents are wholly expected of them...or maybe it is precisely because those talents are expected of them that they want to be valued for them. I said before 'why would I want to win the argument that being a man is harder than being a woman'. The answer to that isn't that I actually want my life to be hard, but rather that on some level I want to be appreciated and valued for all the efforts I make as man. Women I'd imagine are no different. They lament all the problems of being women not because life is necessarily as hard as they say it is (it isn't. A majority of our complaints revolve around imaginary problems and perceptions rather than the reality) but because they like any other person want to be valued and appreciated for just putting up with the difficulties in their life. Short version; People complain that their life is harder than those around them because they want their efforts to be valued. Harder = more effort = more value = more appreciation (in theory).
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#113 metroidprime55
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Not really, it seems like being a girl would have so many limitations.
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#114 GamerEye
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Nope.

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#115 YoshiYogurt
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Maybe try it for a week, but I'd never want to be permanently female
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#116 sune_Gem
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Maybe try it for a week, but I'd never want to be permanently femaleYoshiYogurt

Being the opposite gender for a week? That would be one... odd... week...

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#117 SirWander
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No, i'm comfortable with the way I am.

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#118 MrPraline
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Not really, it seems like being a girl would have so many limitations.metroidprime55
sexist
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[QUOTE="ShadowsDemon"]Can you be both. It's called a tranny. :PAussieePet
Confession :P ? rofl

How did you guess? :o
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#120 kweeni
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Being a guy seems to be a lot easier so no.
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#121 LostVoyager
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Maybe if you was born a female you'd have wished you was a male. I guess it's natural for certain people to be a little curious of such things.

sune_Gem

I hope not, I would hope I would be content, ugh you are probably right though, life is terrible. Its only fun if your rich or talented.

dont think such thingsplaymynutz

I am sorry for burdening you guys with my failures as a human being, I am completely normal though I do not need help. I need to stop the hate though before I go.

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#122 chilly-chill
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I've never thought about it.
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#123 metroidprime55
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[QUOTE="metroidprime55"]Not really, it seems like being a girl would have so many limitations.MrPraline
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I don't know, what with periods, pregnancy, and the just the way that girls bully each other doesn't make being a girl sound very fun.
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#124 ShadowsDemon
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[QUOTE="MrPraline"][QUOTE="metroidprime55"]Not really, it seems like being a girl would have so many limitations.metroidprime55
sexist

I don't know, what with periods, pregnancy, and the just the way that girls bully each other doesn't make being a girl sound very fun.

Well there's different ways of dealing with it...
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#125 Lockedge
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It would be cool if I were born with the lower bits, but I make do.
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#126 BuryMe
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Yes. I'm seriously considering gender reasignment therapy. I'm just worried that I'll forever look male.

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#127 lilasianwonder
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Can't say that I do.
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#128 -Toshy-
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Kind of. Obviously I'm glad that I don't have to deal with a monthly cycle and the pressure of having to look good at all times. But at the same time, something just feels 'off'. Just have to make do with what I got.
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#129 LostVoyager
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Yes. I'm seriously considering gender reasignment therapy. I'm just worried that I'll forever look male.

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http://www.susans.org/here is a place that might help you out if you have not yet been.

Kind of. Obviously I'm glad that I don't have to deal with a monthly cycle and the pressure of having to look good at all times. But at the same time, something just feels 'off'. Just have to make do with what I got.-Toshy-

True it does seem like alot, plus if you ever cry mascara makes it hard to hide. So as a guy you can stealth your weakness better that said I still feel strongly that I would want to be born female if there is reincarnation. Though I might turn out ugly again.

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#130 pygmahia5
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hahahaha. hell no!!! periods, pregnancy, pressure. The 3 P's are enough for me to be glad im male. it would be horrible to be female. no offense chicks. god i love being a man.
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#131 Lockedge
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Yes. I'm seriously considering gender reasignment therapy. I'm just worried that I'll forever look male.

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You'd be surprised how much HRT can do. I was discouraged for a good while until I saw some before and after photos on reddit, and while I just started E on Friday, the spiro I've been on for a while has definitely changed my body a little in positive ways. Are you in transition? Pre-transition? Still in Ottawa?
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#132 tocool340
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No. Can't say I want to be badgered and nagged by dudes all day then be call a uptight b1tch for telling all of them to fvck off. Not to mention other girl problems...
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#133 funtimez12345
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your threads are always entertaining, OP.
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#134 Celldrax
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Nothing's ever simple with females. So no, happy to be male :P

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#135 taterfrickintot
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I would like to be a hot girl for a day! but im happy being a dude. being a girl full time wouldnt be as fun.

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#136 FlippyMittens
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I would like to be a hot girl for a day! but im happy being a dude. being a girl full time wouldnt be as fun.

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Buht gals be betta actors mayn!

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#137 ZombieAkane
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[QUOTE="ZombieAkane"]

it's the other way around really, you guys don't get migraines once a month, you are far stronger too. despite me being a hockey player and strong i cant even come close to you because of genetics.

you guys are taller as well. where have you seen a 6'3" girl before?

and you can stand and pee - i've always wondered what that's like

LostVoyager

You try having a monthly visitor, then you'll think otherwise.

soulless4now

Well I do not know what to say you bring up excellent points, I know what I said sounded weird to you all for all you have been through. I personally want to apologize for any man who has disrespected you over the internet or offline as you both deserve better.

Regardless of sexism and the small fraction of men who disrespect women profusely (20% maybe) I stand with the vast majority of men who support women rather than attempt to control women. I would rather be my ideal woman than what I view ideal as male both are somewhat similar though. I am sure most men find what I find beautiful for a woman as beautiful though so it is a good thing I am not picky in terms of partners.

I do not want to tansitition into a female though, however I fully respect and admire those who do it is their choice same for women becoming men... If they feel they were a woman than they were a woman trapped in a mans body imo.

I feel like a man however, I just wish I was a female.

Sorry for all this friends, I know it may make you all think much less of me now. (Especially the women to whom I owe my sincerest apologies).

I don't think less of you at all. You'd be fine regardless of what gender you were ^_^

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#138 starfox15
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If I could experience it for a day or something sure, but (and this is going to sound sexist) I know the benefits of being a male in this society. It's totally unfair and biased, but I know what it means to be a male in the US.

I try to be as egalitarian as I can be to make up for this. I truly hope we can become more open to women in our society and I'll strive for it.

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#139 ShadowsDemon
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your threads are always entertaining, OP.funtimez12345
Hi TC's alt.
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#140 LostVoyager
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[QUOTE="funtimez12345"]your threads are always entertaining, OP.ShadowsDemon
Hi TC's alt.

Thats not my alt, I hate my threads and I hate myself I would not complement me.

I don't think less of you at all. You'd be fine regardless of what gender you were ^_^

ZombieAkane

Thanks, means alot when everyone else is calling me a liar like I would take my time typing out my thoughts to lie to people for no reason. Why would I make myself pathetic to mess with you guys, if I wanted you all mad at me I would claim to be awesome.

I honestly do not know if I belong here. All my topics are out of place in the bad way. I feel Gamespot was to leniant in letting me stay, I have no life or friends, weird sexual projections acne and a ton enemies even more now.

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#141 DarkOfKnight
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Have a sex change and be happy.
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#142 ShadowsDemon
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[QUOTE="ShadowsDemon"][QUOTE="funtimez12345"] Hi TC's alt.LostVoyager

Thats not my alt, I hate my threads and I hate myself I would not complement me.

I don't think less of you at all. You'd be fine regardless of what gender you were ^_^

ZombieAkane

Thanks, means alot when everyone else is calling me a liar like I would take my time typing out my thoughts to lie to people for no reason. Why would I make myself pathetic to mess with you guys, if I wanted you all mad at me I would claim to be awesome.

I honestly do not know if I belong here. All my topics are out of place in the bad way. I feel Gamespot was to leniant in letting me stay, I have no life or friends, weird sexual projections acne and a ton enemies even more now.

Alright, if you say he's not then that's that I guess.

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#143 LostVoyager
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Have a sex change and be happy. DarkOfKnight

Its not that simple man, I would not feel comfortable doing that. I respect those who decide to become their true female selves. I am a male though and feel like one, I just wish I was born a female instead.

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#144 sune_Gem
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You could always join a MMO and role play a female character, claiming to everyone that you're a girl in real life... :P

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#145 LostVoyager
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You could always join a MMO and role play a female character, claiming to everyone that you're a girl in real life... :P

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I can not do that, that would be kinda wrong imo.

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#146 ZEYAAM898
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No. I am way happy to be a male no offence to females, its just that i dont think i could've been a good female :P XD :|

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#147 ShadowsDemon
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[QUOTE="sune_Gem"]

You could always join a MMO and role play a female character, claiming to everyone that you're a girl in real life... :P

LostVoyager


I can not do that, that would be kinda wrong imo.

Why? :P

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#148 kriggy
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If I was born a female I would probably masturbate to myself in the mirror all the time, because I'm that much obsessed with the woman's body. So no I would not like to be born a female, and that's for my own good!

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#149 shadowkiller11
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You're weird.
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#150 CKYguy25
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yeah so i can check myself out in the mirror each day