Does anyone ever wish they were born a female?

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#1 LostVoyager
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I do quite frequently but other times I am glad to be a male. I regard this as frequent among men. Women are really beautiful imo and that is probably why idk I feel bad looking at them not because jealousy moreso I hate the perception I am objectifying them.I hate that I am viewed as creepy.

Anyways enough about me, I would like to inquire what my friends on Off Topic feel and experience.

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:lol: Hell no you beta :lol:. Listen TC...be proud you are male, you have a penis and try your hardest to become less creepy. Its not that hard...
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#3 XaosII
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I'd recommend talking to a therapist.

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#4 CHOASXIII
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Can't say I do.

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#5 nZiFFLe
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errrr....no?

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#6 LostVoyager
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:lol: Hell no you beta :lol:. Listen TC...be proud you are male, you have a penis and try your hardest to become less creepy. Its not that hard...MgamerBD

I was cursed, afflicted but do not get me wrong my life is not hard.

I would say that I am playing life on easy mode while many other Americans play Very Easy mode. I would say a select few Americans play life on medium, hard and very hard but that is mainly third world country people playing those difficulty modes.

Anyways sorry for going silly geek there for a minute haha its my nature though :P :P

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#7 CHOASXIII
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]:lol: Hell no you beta :lol:. Listen TC...be proud you are male, you have a penis and try your hardest to become less creepy. Its not that hard...LostVoyager

I was cursed, afflicted but do not get me wrong my life is not hard.

I would say that I am playing life on easy mode while many other Americans play Very Easy mode. I would say a select few Americans play life on medium, hard and very hard but that is mainly third world country people playing those difficulty modes.

Anyways sorry for going silly geek there for a minute haha its my nature though :P :P

What on earth are you talking about? Is this real life?

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#8 Gaming-Planet
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Yes, I do quite frequently.

But I'm proud to be a male.

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#9 michael_1234576
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proud dick here
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#10 deactivated-5d1cb98d088e5
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No, cause then I'd be like a girl and stuff. Yuck.

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#11 Wilfred_Owen
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Well then. Think I'll walk away from this one.
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[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]:lol: Hell no you beta :lol:. Listen TC...be proud you are male, you have a penis and try your hardest to become less creepy. Its not that hard...LostVoyager

I was cursed, afflicted but do not get me wrong my life is not hard.

I would say that I am playing life on easy mode while many other Americans play Very Easy mode. I would say a select few Americans play life on medium, hard and very hard but that is mainly third world country people playing those difficulty modes.

Anyways sorry for going silly geek there for a minute haha its my nature though :P :P

No, mostly all Americans play all hardened and many others play on Veteran. Very few get easy and very easy. But at the end of the day we all suffer with problems such as loneliness, and disgust at ourselves. But we can change it. Trust me as cool as I act I'm a wreck on the inside. I just don't show it, you should do the same. Try to be confident.
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#13 -Vulpix-
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I probably wouldn't of mind, I'm also kind of interested how different my life and choices would be if I was born female instead male. Then again if that was the case don't think I would the memories of living this life. But there are probably few reasons why I wouldn't want to be born female either.

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#14 Javieralijandro
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No way. Being female = low T. Low T = less sex. Less sex = sader me
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#15 eboyishere
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this is the 3rd thread that was like this from you.....are you ok TC?
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#16 LostVoyager
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[QUOTE="LostVoyager"]

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]:lol: Hell no you beta :lol:. Listen TC...be proud you are male, you have a penis and try your hardest to become less creepy. Its not that hard...CHOASXIII

I was cursed, afflicted but do not get me wrong my life is not hard.

I would say that I am playing life on easy mode while many other Americans play Very Easy mode. I would say a select few Americans play life on medium, hard and very hard but that is mainly third world country people playing those difficulty modes.

Anyways sorry for going silly geek there for a minute haha its my nature though :P :P

What on earth are you talking about? Is this real life?

Yes, I used the game as a metaphor (if that is the right literary device I am an idiot though at times so it would not shock me).

I wish Reincarnation examples I know we all decompose so maybe we see life through other eyes eventually? I would like to join the army or go to a big city (with parties and claim to want to an actor/comedian). If in the army I could die in combat or if I "party hard" I could leave this life without the devestation a suicide would leave. The blame would be mainly mine.

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#17 MgamerBD
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this is the 3rd thread that was like this from you.....are you ok TC?eboyishere
He is kinda depressed I guess...you can tell the kid downs himself a lot...
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#18 CHOASXIII
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[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

[QUOTE="LostVoyager"]

I was cursed, afflicted but do not get me wrong my life is not hard.

I would say that I am playing life on easy mode while many other Americans play Very Easy mode. I would say a select few Americans play life on medium, hard and very hard but that is mainly third world country people playing those difficulty modes.

Anyways sorry for going silly geek there for a minute haha its my nature though :P :P

LostVoyager

What on earth are you talking about? Is this real life?

Yes, I used the game as a metaphor (if that is the right literary device I am an idiot though at times so it would not shock me).

I wish Reincarnation examples I know we all decompose so maybe we see life through other eyes eventually? I would like to join the army or go to a big city (with parties and claim to want to an actor/comedian). If in the army I could die in combat or if I "party hard" I could leave this life without the devestation a suicide would leave. The blame would be mainly mine.

Are you trying to say that you aren't happy with your life therefore you are considering ways of ending it?

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#19 Blue-Sky
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No. Having a penis is awesome.

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#20 XaosII
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This is why i said "i'd recommend tlaking to a therapist." Theres probably 3 major reasons to seriously consider something like this:

1) You are very unhappy wiht your current situation and wish for a drastic change.

2) You may genuinely wish you were a woman and you'll want to work through any Gender Identity Disorder to take steps to either stay a man, or transition into a woman.

3) You want to make a controversial post for the attention. In that case, get another hobby or if you feel like you NEED this attention from strangers: See a therapist.

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#21 konvikt_17
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i did when i was younger. mainly when going through puberty. getting those random erections in the middle of class sucked. luckily i never got called to the front of the class with one. but all the times it would happen, id be like" man i wish i was a girl, they dont have random erections"

then there was times when id fantasize about just playing with my boobs, were i a female.

now that hormones are in check and stuff, im glad im not a women. they go through a whole lot more than we think.

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#22 LostVoyager
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Are you trying to say that you aren't happy with your life therefore you are considering ways of ending it?

CHOASXIII

Have been for a while... I thought of dressing up in all white and stabbing myself together (mainly so the blood would show alot haha ) and throwing smoke bombs up in middleschool never did it.

Thought of shooting myself by a tree never did it at highschool, suicide by cop, etc. I like thinking about it but I have never killed myself (well attempted too I guess it is obvious I have not done it).


I did try cutting my arm once but I could not. I think I am more suited to jumping or a headshot but I think my family would blame themselves.

Again do not worry about me because I never attempted to so I doubt it is serious.

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#23 almasdeathchild
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im a man who looks exactly like a girl. so in some sense no arguments here. i dont have to wish

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#24 CHOASXIII
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[QUOTE="CHOASXIII"]

Are you trying to say that you aren't happy with your life therefore you are considering ways of ending it?

LostVoyager

Have been for a while... I thought of dressing up in all white and stabbing myself together (mainly so the blood would show alot haha ) and throwing smoke bombs up in middleschool never did it.

Thought of shooting myself by a tree never did it at highschool, suicide by cop, etc. I like thinking about it but I have never killed myself (well attempted too I guess it is obvious I have not done it).


I did try cutting my arm once but I could not. I think I am more suited to jumping or a headshot but I think my family would blame themselves.

Again do not worry about me because I never attempted to so I doubt it is serious.

Well all I can say is if you are thinking about it you might have a real problem. I would suggest talking to someone about it and just remind yourself that you are worth something. I know you don't think it's serious but it's never good to have those thoughts. I'll admit that I have had them before and I won't say that I have gotten over them but talking to people has helped.

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Have been for a while... I thought of dressing up in all white and stabbing myself together (mainly so the blood would show alot haha ) and throwing smoke bombs up in middleschool never did it.

Thought of shooting myself by a tree never did it at highschool, suicide by cop, etc. I like thinking about it but I have never killed myself (well attempted too I guess it is obvious I have not done it).


I did try cutting my arm once but I could not. I think I am more suited to jumping or a headshot but I think my family would blame themselves.

Again do not worry about me because I never attempted to so I doubt it is serious.

LostVoyager

I'm mustering a serious response here. Get help.

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#26 deactivated-5a79221380856
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Yes. 1. Like Elaine from Seinfeld said, "The female body is a work of art. The male body is utilitarian. It's for gettin' around. It's like a Jeep." 2. Females experience pregnancy, something that should be celebrated.
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#27 deactivated-5acfa3a8bc51d
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dont think such things
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it's the other way around really, you guys don't get migraines once a month, you are far stronger too. despite me being a hockey player and strong i cant even come close to you because of genetics.

you guys are taller as well. where have you seen a 6'3" girl before?

and you can stand and pee - i've always wondered what that's like

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#29 konvikt_17
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it's the other way around really, you guys don't get migraines once a month, you are far stronger too. despite me being a hockey player and strong i cant even come close to you because of genetics.

you guys are taller as well. where have you seen a 6'3" girl before?

and you can stand and pee - i've always wondered what that's like

ZombieAkane

they have tools for women to be able to stand and pee.

though it probly wouldnt be the same:P

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#30 Goyoshi12
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Not on your life.....I'll keep my d!ck, thank you very much.

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#31 soulless4now
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You try having a monthly visitor, then you'll think otherwise.

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God no.
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My 6 year old was real upset when he found out great-grandma died at an older age than great-grandpa. Started crying and saying he wished he was a girl. I told him "Hey don't tell mom this so she doesn't feel bad but we boys can pee standing up, girls need to sit when they go." Crying stops replaced by little enlightened smile, father-son bond strengthened, Male pride restored. Boys: be proud to be boys, Girls: be proud to be girls. Admire the difference instead of envying. Support the other sex but be proud of your own as neither is better/worse but rather each is complementary to the other.
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[QUOTE="eboyishere"]this is the 3rd thread that was like this from you.....are you ok TC?MgamerBD
He is kinda depressed I guess...you can tell the kid downs himself a lot...

shouldn't he seems normal...other then this thread :P

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#35 LostVoyager
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i did when i was younger. mainly when going through puberty. getting those random erections in the middle of class sucked. luckily i never got called to the front of the class with one. but all the times it would happen, id be like" man i wish i was a girl, they dont have random erections"

then there was times when id fantasize about just playing with my boobs, were i a female.

now that hormones are in check and stuff, im glad im not a women. they go through a whole lot more than we think.

konvikt_17

Its not even about the boobs really or the fact that I like either gender more. I understand women have to deal with alot and I am a feminist. I wish I could explain better.

im a man who looks exactly like a girl. so in some sense no arguments here. i dont have to wish

almasdeathchild

Ah, I am skinny but I am the masculine type the worst kind and kinda short for the ideal type of that body type... I would still prefer being a female though.

I do not want help though because it costs money, if I am going to live happy I am going to aim for money so why spend it.

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embrace your sex, did you leave your balls in ur purse?
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#37 coolbeans90
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ahahahahahahahahahaha

NO, bc:

  • Emotionalvolitility and pissing blood at periodic intervals
  • Actually having to do stupid stuff like worry about clothes, shoes, hair, makeup, stricter hygeine, etc, in order to live up to certain social norms.
  • Peeing while sitting down, really?
  • DRAMA DRAMA DRAMA -- no thx
  • Pregnancy and birth giving
  • Not having a penis

It's much easier being a guy.

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#38 chessmaster1989
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Not a chance, I'm perfectly happy being a guy.
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#39 deactivated-5acfa3a8bc51d
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Not on your life.....I'll keep my d!ck, thank you very much.

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I'm open to the idea, to be honest. It doesn't sound too bad.
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#41 LostVoyager
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it's the other way around really, you guys don't get migraines once a month, you are far stronger too. despite me being a hockey player and strong i cant even come close to you because of genetics.

you guys are taller as well. where have you seen a 6'3" girl before?

and you can stand and pee - i've always wondered what that's like

ZombieAkane

You try having a monthly visitor, then you'll think otherwise.

soulless4now

Well I do not know what to say you bring up excellent points, I know what I said sounded weird to you all for all you have been through. I personally want to apologize for any man who has disrespected you over the internet or offline as you both deserve better.

Regardless of sexism and the small fraction of men who disrespect women profusely (20% maybe) I stand with the vast majority of men who support women rather than attempt to control women. I would rather be my ideal woman than what I view ideal as male both are somewhat similar though. I am sure most men find what I find beautiful for a woman as beautiful though so it is a good thing I am not picky in terms of partners.

I do not want to tansitition into a female though, however I fully respect and admire those who do it is their choice same for women becoming men... If they feel they were a woman than they were a woman trapped in a mans body imo.

I feel like a man however, I just wish I was a female.

Sorry for all this friends, I know it may make you all think much less of me now. (Especially the women to whom I owe my sincerest apologies).

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#42 LostVoyager
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embrace your sex, did you leave your balls in ur purse?chad_daddy

I hate sex, I am firmly anti-sexual (which I group with asexual).

I feel that about 30% of men are like me in that regard. I think women are less likely to be asexual and more likely to want to have sex than men (not by much though as I feel both genders are pretty much the same).

If I was a woman I would like to be antisexual as well and similar mentally but with my mental flaws gone. I would still go here and try my best to be nice to my friends here on OT.

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:lol: Hell no you beta :lol:. Listen TC...be proud you are male, you have a penis and try your hardest to become less creepy. Its not that hard...MgamerBD

Not that hard? ED?

And pride for something you did not achieve on your own is worthless.

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#44 Gaming-Planet
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this is the 3rd thread that was like this from you.....are you ok TC?eboyishere
TC is unsure of himself.
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#45 Iridionprime
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Dude you've made some strange threads; don't kick yourself too hard buddy. Seriously I think you're going through some kind of phase. Just don't get too dramatic and be grateful for what u were born with.

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#46 Smokescreened84
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All the time. Being trans-gender - female born within a male body - is a living hell to put it mildly. Existing within the wrong physical sex for your actual gender is horrible. If it were as simple as just switching the physical sex to fully female, instead of having to be half and half - male body, female personality, behaviour and so on - then I would have switched to how I was meant to be years ago. Sadly though there is a lot of red tape to deal with and a very painful transition to endure before even being, hopefully, approved for hormone treatments and surgery. Hate having a male body.
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I'm open to the idea, to be honest. It doesn't sound too bad.ghoklebutter

You disgrace your famiry.

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#48 punkpunker
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i smell shemale.

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#49 ShyGuy0504
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I've thought about what it would be like. I've even had a few dreams where I was a female. I'm content being a male though.

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#50 ZumaJones07
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the only advantage to that would be absolutely nothing :cool: