@Spitfirer: I too am more than willing to read about people's positions, so long as they wish to present them in a manner that is open to discussion rather than "THIS IS WHAT I BELIEVE, NOTHING YOU SAY CAN CHANGE MY MIND" defensiveness. What amazes me most is that barely anyone on OT actually wants to have that kind of discussion anymore. It's almost as if we've all just fallen into our "grooves" and just maintain the status quo. I'm trying to be more questioning when arguing with religionists these days, trying to get them to explain WHY they believe something, rather than just WHAT they believe. So it becomes more than just a self-aggrandizing poll thread.Zeviander
I was guilty of hostility at one point (when I moved to viewing religion with rose-tinted glasses) and with that, I agree wholeheartedly.
There are many posters who I like, such as cheese_game, who insist on acting douchy (like attacking every religious person) in religious threads, or decent users (like teneka) who are usually docile and friendly in religious debate, but will degrade to hostility and the overused "sky-wizard" during a heavy influx of religious threads.
But I too want to know the why of it. OT's just not the place to try anf find out, especially of your stress levels are already elevated. This is one thing that attracted me to this union.
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To go on another tangent (I can't find any appropriate place to dump all of my religious musings),what annoysme the most about religion (and specifically Christianity) is the notion that only followers can do good things. What about those who help people, who put others first, who are willing to give without getting anything in return but can't (yes, can't) believe in God because of a lingering and reasonable doubt from the lack of any evidence? In fact, this is one of the very few times I want to quote a cracked.com article for anything other than funnies:
"So... doesn't that kind of kill the premise that these people are avoiding God out of sinful rebellion or fear of having to live a godly life? After all, you've got people who are doing the hard part (self-sacrifice, patience, giving up all sorts of sinful pleasures) but are avoiding the easy part (praying and listening to a preacher talk for one hour a week). If God and the danger of Hell were that obvious, why wouldn't they just go all the way with it?
"No, if there is a God, it appears that some good people honestly don't perceive him. For whatever reason. And there has to be some tolerance in God's rules for the Honest Mistake. Has to be. Otherwise we're all going to get screwed by that thing with the Sabbath being on Saturday instead of Sunday."
I enjoy accommodating the "give without expecting anything in return" attitude and it's inherently offensive to me that it's all for nothing and my punishment is eternal torture, something even a rapist or murderer doesn't deserve.
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