[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"][QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"] Ignore the part about her and see if you still want to change...Xx_Hopeless_xX

Don't change just to make her happy..Xx_Hopeless_xX

I'm not going to lie, part of the whole me chaning thing is because of her, but not much. I don't like myself. Alot of my friends have changed and they seem happier. I need to take control about my life, and about my personality.

[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"][QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

Still sounds inconsiderate, especially given how you feel about her.

Xx_Hopeless_xX

I'm not going to lie, part of the whole me chaning thing is because of her, but not much. I don't like myself. Alot of my friends have changed and they seem happier. I need to take control about my life, and about my personality.

[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"][QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

Going by that, she sounds pretty shallow. Also, I wouldn't let her tart herself up in your house if she's going to be flirting with another guy via webcam.

Still sounds inconsiderate, especially given how you feel about her.

[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"][QUOTE="comp_atkins"]"tarting" ??THE_DRUGGIE

Going by that, she sounds pretty shallow. Also, I wouldn't let her tart herself up in your house if she's going to be flirting with another guy via webcam.

[QUOTE="Keyblade_150"][QUOTE="comp_atkins"]"tarting" ??Atmanix

My best advice to you is that if you're looking for a romantic relationship, find it elsewhere. Seriously, just give up right now on this girl. It'll save you a ton of heartbreak/jealousy etc.

"tarting" ??comp_atkins

So, I told my best friend that I liked her, but she said that she doesnt feel the same way blahblahblah.
I went round her house the other day with another friend of ours, rosie. It was a good day until we went on msn. She was tarting herself up to go on a guy on webcam :/ It really really annoyed and upset me, so I went home. She knows her I feel about her, but there she was, right infront of me, tarting herself up for him.
Then I got drunk and texted her, telling how I was annoyed at her. We had a long conversation (by text) about the whole situation, and now it's sorted...ish. One of her close friends said to her how it's bad that she flirts with me when she has no intention of going out with me (she sits on my lap and links arms with me and stuff) but apparantly it's because 'she feels so comfortable around me, cos we've been friends for so long.' So now I feel bad, and I feel like I've damaged our friendship, and I don't want her to stop being comfortable around me. I wish I just didn't say anything... ;/
Help?

I've been trying to forget about them.. but.. it's hard.
We DO talk, but we just hardly EVER meet up, yet they all seem too :/ And I've been trying to make new friends, but it's hard. I don't mean to complain, but I just need somewhere to vent and I just need some advice.
But yeah, moving seems the most sensible thing to do I guess... :|

HEY.

Right, so, for like, the past year I've been feeling like I've been drifting from a certain group of my friends. I confronted them and told them about it like a year ago, and told them that I was annoyed at not being invited anywhere, and they got annoyed, but said that they'd make more of an effort.
One year later, school has ended for good. I haven't seen them in like a month (and that was because of school a month ago). What should I do? It really upsets me D: and also, one of them who is supposedly one of my 'best friends' (not so much lately) I really like (i've told her about it) but i just wanna be close to them & her again, but I don't want it to be me making the effort all the time. :/

Advice?