Would it depend on the circumstances?
For example, let's say you experienced hard times in the past (i.e. bad job, in school, no money, bottom of the economic/social totem pole, chemical dependency problem, etc.). You meet a seemingly nice girl who is sweet enough. She accepts your lunch invites and you enjoy each other's company. You ask her out on a date and she says she's not really looking for a relationship right now - she just wants a friendship. A couple weeks later you find out she's dating Mr. Successful Businessman.
Later on, you become more successful yourself and it shows. You obtain status symbols. You now have disposable income and as a result become well-groomed. In comes the lady again, she is single and wants to get to know you better. She asks YOU out this time.
What are you thinking at this point?
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