Why do girls never tell you what they want D:

So my girlfriend and I just broke up last Friday (a week ago). We are really close but I made a mistake and she broke up. She is crying everyday, she wants me back but she cant. She wants rest but she stills talks to/about me. She even wanted that I start twittering about me/her. I'm confused!

She wants me back but she cant take me back. She gave away her phone and laptop so she cant talk to me (and get over me i think) But the thing is, she is completly obsessed with me. Aand about 3 days ago she kept saying that we will never be together anymore. And yesterday she MIGHT want me back after the month of rest. Yesterday she agreed with me to meet up today.

I dont know what to do :(

Should I try to win her back? Should I give her rest? Or should I talk? D:

So my girlfriend and I just broke up last Friday (a week ago). We are really close but I made a mistake and she broke up. She is crying everyday, she wants me back but she cant. She wants rest but she stills talks to/about me. She even wanted that I start twittering about me/her. I'm confused!

She wants me back but she cant take me back. She gave away her phone and laptop so she cant talk to me (and get over me i think) But the thing is, she is completly obsessed with me. Aand about 3 days ago she kept saying that we will never be together anymore. And yesterday she MIGHT want me back after the month of rest. Yesterday she agreed with me to meet up today.

I dont know what to do :(

Should I try to win her back? Should I give her rest? Or should I talk? D:

i-like-pie

yea.....

well it's either her time of the month or she has some problems...probably both

Go to her job with like a bouquet of roses( dress nicely) get on your knee and proclaim your love for her in front of everyone. Have a ring if you really want to blow her brains out :P.

What did you do?

I said the wrong things at the wrong moment. She already has a ring D: And with obsessed I mean talking to me 24/7, sending me love letters, wants me to wear a shirt and give it to her and she even gave me a cushion with our picture printed on it.i-like-pie

sounds like she wants you back, despite the mistake you made and despite she broke up with you. she wants you back.....

how bad was this 'mistake'.

I said the wrong things at the wrong moment. She already has a ring D: And with obsessed I mean talking to me 24/7, sending me love letters, wants me to wear a shirt and give it to her and she even gave me a cushion with our picture printed on it.i-like-pie

Okay that sounds really creepy. o_o

[QUOTE="i-like-pie"]I said the wrong things at the wrong moment. She already has a ring D: And with obsessed I mean talking to me 24/7, sending me love letters, wants me to wear a shirt and give it to her and she even gave me a cushion with our picture printed on it.SaudiFury

wait... are you confused as to what she wants? i'm confused......

sounds like she wants you back, despite the mistake you made and despite she broke up with you. she wants you back.....

how bad was this 'mistake'.

[QUOTE="SaudiFury"][QUOTE="i-like-pie"]I said the wrong things at the wrong moment. She already has a ring D: And with obsessed I mean talking to me 24/7, sending me love letters, wants me to wear a shirt and give it to her and she even gave me a cushion with our picture printed on it.i-like-pie

[QUOTE="i-like-pie"][QUOTE="SaudiFury"] wait... are you confused as to what she wants? i'm confused...... DigitalExile

We want you to be spontaneous and romantic obviously.Sunsha

The kind of spontaneous-romantic that his girlfriend is being?

[QUOTE="i-like-pie"][QUOTE="SaudiFury"] wait... are you confused as to what she wants? i'm confused...... DigitalExile

Tell her to play quakelive, and until she is tier 4 in Clan Arena, gtfo. That will show if she is really dedicated to u.

From experience the more you get clingy and try to get her back the more she'll be pushed away.

Take my advice,

1. cut her out of the picture entirely

2. get another girlfriend, just ask a coworker out on a date or something

3. your ex will find out and get jealous

4. keep ignoring her and say "Hey thats what you wanted."

5. in a short time she'll be crying at your door. Might take seeing you make out with new girlfriend in front of her.

Trust me I know I went thru it in the past with an ex i dated for four years. She did the same thing, wanted space all that crap. I was like sure... asked out a cashier at my part time job and went to the local bar. My ex walked by and I started making out with the girl who liked me anyways and clamped on to me like a f'n leech and wouldn't let go. My ex attacked me and tried to go after her.

Guess what happened after that ? Knock knock crying at my door and apologizing.

She sounds messed up and not worth the time, what age range is this?

Sounds like she has some problems and doesn't know what to do.

She most likely is scared of being single but she doesn't really want to be with you, so she's just falling back on you because being with you is better than nothing.

Sounds like she has some problems and doesn't know what to do.

She most likely is scared of being single but she doesn't really want to be with you, so she's just falling back on you because being with you is better than nothing.

toast_burner

First, how old are you two? Second, how long were you together?

Regardless of the answer to those two questions though, I'm going to say just leave her be and just stop talking to her completely for a while. She sounds crazy, and having someone obsessing over you can cause a lot of problems really fast.

[QUOTE="Sunsha"]We want you to be spontaneous and romantic obviously.Baconbits2004

The kind of spontaneous-romantic that his girlfriend is being?

Because they actually don't know.

Should I try to win her back? Should I give her rest? Or should I talk? D:

i-like-pie

tbh, i super dgaf, and dont know why anyone here would.

if this isn't blog worthy, what is?

Trust me I know I went thru it in the past with an ex i dated for four years. She did the same thing, wanted space all that crap. I was like sure... asked out a cashier at my part time job and went to the local bar. My ex walked by and I started making out with the girl who liked me anyways and clamped on to me like a f'n leech and wouldn't let go. My ex attacked me and tried to go after her.

Guess what happened after that ? Knock knock crying at my door and apologizing.

Skarwolf

Am I the only one who thought this was messed up?

You manipulated your ex into taking you back by taking advantage of someone else, whose feelings you presumably also hurt when you immediately dropped her to go back to your ex. That doesn't seem like the best way to stabilise a relationship, and that's putting it nicely.

I mean, no offence, but I think that if you truly cared about the girl who dumped you, your first instinct wouldn't have been to deliberately hurt her by making out with someone else.

She is contradicting her self. She wants rest and yet she wants me to communicate with her. First she didnt want me back and now she wants me but cant get me (dont even ask why). Oh she wants rest and yet she wants to meet up today D: I dont even know what she wants.

I did not cheat on her or something like that. I said "idunno" when she needed to hear yes.

i-like-pie

If that's really all you did then she sounds somewhat psychotic. I can't think of a question serious enough that an "I dunno" would cause her to cry everyday and make hergive away her laptop and phone?Seriously?

Either you're leaving something out, or she's just crazy.

Honestly TC, if she is that obssessed with you then there's no way that can be a healthy relationship. Take it from a guy who knows.

She sounds like a nutjob. Move on to greener pastures TC.

be like "baby there's something i've wanted to show you for a long time"

then whip out your penis

I said the wrong things at the wrong moment. She already has a ring D: And with obsessed I mean talking to me 24/7, sending me love letters, wants me to wear a shirt and give it to her and she even gave me a cushion with our picture printed on it.i-like-pie

Congratulations on having your very first stalker!

[QUOTE="i-like-pie"]I said the wrong things at the wrong moment. She already has a ring D: And with obsessed I mean talking to me 24/7, sending me love letters, wants me to wear a shirt and give it to her and she even gave me a cushion with our picture printed on it.THE_DRUGGIE

Congratulations on having your very first stalker!

She sounds crazy. I'd let her go.

Sounds like you need to leave her alone for awhile for her own benefit. She sounds really confused.

[QUOTE="i-like-pie"]

Should I try to win her back? Should I give her rest? Or should I talk? D:

BiancaDK

tbh, i super dgaf, and dont know why anyone here would.

if this isn't blog worthy, what is?

:lol:

Thank you.

[QUOTE="BiancaDK"]

[QUOTE="i-like-pie"]

Should I try to win her back? Should I give her rest? Or should I talk? D:

Optical_Order

tbh, i super dgaf, and dont know why anyone here would.

if this isn't blog worthy, what is?

:lol:

Thank you.

didnt want to go there but...yea pretty much lol

From experience the more you get clingy and try to get her back the more she'll be pushed away.

Take my advice,

1. cut her out of the picture entirely

2. get another girlfriend, just ask a coworker out on a date or something

3. your ex will find out and get jealous

4. keep ignoring her and say "Hey thats what you wanted."

5. in a short time she'll be crying at your door. Might take seeing you make out with new girlfriend in front of her.

Trust me I know I went thru it in the past with an ex i dated for four years. She did the same thing, wanted space all that crap. I was like sure... asked out a cashier at my part time job and went to the local bar. My ex walked by and I started making out with the girl who liked me anyways and clamped on to me like a f'n leech and wouldn't let go. My ex attacked me and tried to go after her.

Guess what happened after that ? Knock knock crying at my door and apologizing.

Skarwolf

because girls like to play mind games

be like "baby there's something i've wanted to show you for a long time"

then whip out your penis

needled24-7