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#1 Masinai
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THEN ASK GIRLS!!! We know everything on how to make a girl tick. Because we are girls. so ask one of us, we like sweetness and honesty. So don't get advice from other boys...nomatter IF they got 24 gfs in a week. This is just some good advice. I have seen many of these problems. So ask me or any other girl on Gamespot. well give good advice to make you a good bf. :D

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#2 tzar3
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Yes, please tell me more if you will.:)
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#3 zeldafan00013
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Not what i was expecting on this thread. I thought it was going to be one of those 12 year old boys giving advice and i thought i would come enjoy some laughs. While asking girls is a good idea its also good to ask older guys. I laugh when people come to this site for girl advice because so many of the users are young. I always try to give advice when needed, my friends always called me HITCH, like the will smith movie, because i am good at helping guys get the gf they want but not so good with the girls myself when it comes to relationships. But yea im good for advice to if needed.
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I dont need advice. Im pro.
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worst.advice.ever
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#6 bradleybhoy
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how to get a girl...

look good

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#7 WildLIkeChild
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The only girl I was sweet to thought I was gay since I was sweet.

I don't think that works too well.

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#8 The_PirateKing
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~-~What gets you girls turned on?... I'm sorry, I don't mean to sound like a whore but it's the only question I can think of.:( And btw, if a guy got 26 gfs in one week then that means he broke up with at least 25 girls in one week. I wouldn't be taking advice from him at all.:?~-~
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#9 USmellLikePoopy
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how to get a girl...

look good

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#10 BDM666
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This forum isn't dedicated to relationship advice, hardly anyone here is looking for tips... oh, wait...

Either way, if I wanted advice, I wouldn't be asking some random person on the internet who claims to be female and thinks she's the know-all about such things.

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~-~What gets you girls turned on?... I'm sorry, I don't mean to sound like a whore but it's the only question I can think of.:( And btw, if a guy got 26 gfs in one week then that means he broke up with at least 25 girls in one week. I wouldn't be taking advice from him at all.:?~-~The_PirateKing

Many girls like jerks at first becuase they think they can change them. If you know how to act like a jerk and let her change you it may work. Its hard being a jerk to a girl you like though, i failed at it cause im just to nice, naturally a nice guy. but girls def. go for that. At least at my age they do. I'm in college if you wondering, not some little punk.

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#12 FlaminDeath
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good advice ill need to use it :)

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#13 mother_farter
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asking is just my problem most of the time..im too shy to ask
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#14 lompocus
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smack her on the ***

XD!

Edit* my avatar has nothing to do with my post...

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[QUOTE="The_PirateKing"]~-~What gets you girls turned on?... I'm sorry, I don't mean to sound like a whore but it's the only question I can think of.:( And btw, if a guy got 26 gfs in one week then that means he broke up with at least 25 girls in one week. I wouldn't be taking advice from him at all.:?~-~zeldafan00013

Many girls like jerks at first becuase they think they can change them. If you know how to act like a jerk and let her change you it may work. Its hard being a jerk to a girl you like though, i failed at it cause im just to nice, naturally a nice guy. but girls def. go for that. At least at my age they do. I'm in college if you wondering, not some little punk.

so true.
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[QUOTE="The_PirateKing"]~-~What gets you girls turned on?... I'm sorry, I don't mean to sound like a whore but it's the only question I can think of.:( And btw, if a guy got 26 gfs in one week then that means he broke up with at least 25 girls in one week. I wouldn't be taking advice from him at all.:?~-~zeldafan00013

Many girls like jerks at first becuase they think they can change them. If you know how to act like a jerk and let her change you it may work. Its hard being a jerk to a girl you like though, i failed at it cause im just to nice, naturally a nice guy. but girls def. go for that. At least at my age they do. I'm in college if you wondering, not some little punk.

I am already a jerk, but I consider myself more of an ****:D

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#18 zeldafan00013
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[QUOTE="zeldafan00013"]

[QUOTE="The_PirateKing"]~-~What gets you girls turned on?... I'm sorry, I don't mean to sound like a whore but it's the only question I can think of.:( And btw, if a guy got 26 gfs in one week then that means he broke up with at least 25 girls in one week. I wouldn't be taking advice from him at all.:?~-~blooddemon666

Many girls like jerks at first becuase they think they can change them. If you know how to act like a jerk and let her change you it may work. Its hard being a jerk to a girl you like though, i failed at it cause im just to nice, naturally a nice guy. but girls def. go for that. At least at my age they do. I'm in college if you wondering, not some little punk.

so true.

but do know a girl will never admit to liking jerks or bad boys, she will act as though she hates that type of guy only to fall for the first one she comes across that treats her right, or should i say wrong. lol. curious what Topic creator thinks of that advice.

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#19 Devosion
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Get advice from a girl if you want to cater to your woman. Get advice from a man if you want your woman to cater to you.
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#20 MrGeezer
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THEN ASK GIRLS!!! We know everything on how to make a girl tick. Because we are girls. so ask one of us, we like sweetness and honesty. So don't get advice from other boys...nomatter IF they got 24 gfs in a week. This is just some good advice. I have seen many of these problems. So ask me or any other girl on Gamespot. well give good advice to make you a good bf. :D

Masinai

Can you tell me how to get a GOOD girlfriend?

Because I've encountered plenty of girlfriends who were just awful.

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#21 Redgarl
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I was thinking about going out into bar or something, oh well, asking them at first sight seems to be working huh...?

Sincerely, I would never go out with someone asking me at first sight... never...

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#22 MrGeezer
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Get advice from a girl if you want to cater to your woman. Get advice from a man if you want your woman to cater to you.Devosion

Who do I get advice from if I don't want either of us to cater to the other (or similarly, if I want each of us to fairly cater to the other)?

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#23 rgsniper1
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hmmm, i'm not sure I'd be asking anything that had to do with getting people to like me to someone who decides that there first day on the forums would be a good time to start a thread asking others to join in on rating their peers on the boards.

Seems kind of counter productive. And before this sounds to mean, I'm saying this in the nicest way possible. You really may be a really nice person and I'm just dumb for not seeing it. :)

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#24 Devosion
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[QUOTE="Devosion"]Get advice from a girl if you want to cater to your woman. Get advice from a man if you want your woman to cater to you.MrGeezer

Who do I get advice from if I don't want either of us to cater to the other (or similarly, if I want each of us to fairly cater to the other)?

Obviously both then.

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#25 MrGeezer
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[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

[QUOTE="Devosion"]Get advice from a girl if you want to cater to your woman. Get advice from a man if you want your woman to cater to you.Devosion

Who do I get advice from if I don't want either of us to cater to the other (or similarly, if I want each of us to fairly cater to the other)?

Obviously both then.

BRILLIANT!
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[QUOTE="The_PirateKing"]~-~What gets you girls turned on?... I'm sorry, I don't mean to sound like a whore but it's the only question I can think of.:( And btw, if a guy got 26 gfs in one week then that means he broke up with at least 25 girls in one week. I wouldn't be taking advice from him at all.:?~-~zeldafan00013

Many girls like jerks at first becuase they think they can change them. If you know how to act like a jerk and let her change you it may work. Its hard being a jerk to a girl you like though, i failed at it cause im just to nice, naturally a nice guy. but girls def. go for that. At least at my age they do. I'm in college if you wondering, not some little punk.

~-~Thanks, but no. I'm aware of all that and I'm only going to approach it my way. There could be many reasons why a girl would want to date a jerk, and different reasons mean different ways you have to give them what they really want. I'll never just flat out be a jerk to a girl, if she wants that then she doesn't want me. And when I said turns them on, I didn't mean attracts them. I mean if I had a gf and I wanted to get her in the mood then... Aw forget it, I'm not going to listen to anything here anyways.~-~
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#27 The_PirateKing
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[QUOTE="Devosion"]Get advice from a girl if you want to cater to your woman. Get advice from a man if you want your woman to cater to you.MrGeezer

Who do I get advice from if I don't want either of us to cater to the other (or similarly, if I want each of us to fairly cater to the other)?

~-~Look for someone who has the same wants/needs as you. That really sums everything up. If they have the same wants as you then they've thought out what they want and can tell you what they figured out. Like I may be a guy, but in no way could I tell you how to get you gf to only cater to you, cuz that's not what I want, so that's not what I've been thinking about.~-~ ~-~Edit: Oops, double post. Who would of known that I could post twice this fast in a thread like this.:P~-~
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#28 muppet1010
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The only girl I was sweet to thought I was gay since I was sweet.

I don't think that works too well.

WildLIkeChild

lol... you poor thing.... so it came as a shock to her when you "came out of your shell"?

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And when I said turns them on, I didn't mean attracts them. I mean if I had a gf and I wanted to get her in the mood then... Aw forget it, I'm not going to listen to anything here anyways.~-~The_PirateKing

Really though... french butler outfit, gets them every time.

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#30 xtn702
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the problem with society now is that a majority of the girls prefer Men with good looks,not good personality.
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#31 Blaze787
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In the immortal words of Johnny Bravo:

Everything works if you're good looking; nothing works if you're not :lol:

P.S. To the guy who said that the problem is girls go for looks these days, not personality...come on, admit it, you too would only approach a girl if you thought she was cute.

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#32 deactivated-57e5de5e137a4
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P.S. To the guy who said that the problem is girls go for looks these days, not personality...come on, admit it, you too would only approach a girl if you thought she was cute.

Blaze787

Yes, but I'd only date a girl who had a good personality. You don't always have to 'approach' females.

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#33 foxhound_fox
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Approaching them is a good start. Talking is also good too.
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#34 Blaze787
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[QUOTE="Blaze787"]

P.S. To the guy who said that the problem is girls go for looks these days, not personality...come on, admit it, you too would only approach a girl if you thought she was cute.

guynamedbilly

Yes, but I'd only date a girl who had a good personality. You don't always have to 'approach' females.

Ofcourse, any girl would also prefer it if their guy had good looks AND a good personality. My point was to the guy who said girls go for looks these days, not personality. I hear this statement from guys way too much. Fact is, guys do the same thing.

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#36 JohnnytheFuture
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You could always just watch Sex and the City, that's like a woman's video bible. Take notes. 
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#37 lompocus
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the problem with society now is that a majority of the girls prefer Men with good looks,not good personality.xtn702

considered the possibility you have neither?

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Just remember this sad truth. Chivalry is dead. Women don't want the noble man who is willing prove his love by trial of combat. You know, the guy who writes sonnets declaring his true love and who's love is humiliating, exalting, and transcendent. At one point in time, chivalry was probably one of the most manly things you could have but you have to realize that women want a guy who wil treat her like total crap. They say they want the a guy who will love and care for her, but really it's the complete opposite.

As soon as a woman realizes you are attracted to her, you've pretty much already lost. What'll end up happening is she will get with the a-hole with the muscle shirt and tribal tattoo and then complain to you about it everyday on the phone because the guy treats her like utter crap. Meanwhile, you're the one who comforts her and consoles her. Don't kid yourself though, she'll keep going back to that jerk who will never open a door for her and will make her walk on the outside of the sidewalk and you'll always be her guy friend.

Basically one of the worst things you can do is declare your unbridled love to the woman you want. She says she wants a knight in shining armor, but chivalry is pretty much out the window.

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Just remember this sad truth. Chivalry is dead. Women don't want the noble man who is willing prove his love by trial of combat. You know, the guy who writes sonnets declaring his true love and who's love is humiliating, exalting, and transcendent. At one point in time, chivalry was probably one of the most manly things you could have but you have to realize that women want a guy who wil treat her like total crap. They say they want the a guy who will love and care for her, but really it's the complete opposite.

Headbanger88
~-~You know, I'm getting sick of this "girls like jerks" crap. Just because it's true in some situations it doesn't mean it's true for every girl. And here's a thought, if girls like jerks, does that mean you have to be a jerk to them or can you just be a jerk to everyone else. Does being pissed about things and showing it make you seam like a jerk? Not only is the girl part about that a generalization, but so is the jerk part. There are different kinds of jerks. You can't just sum things up like that. Life isn't that simple. Although I do agree that writing songs telling her how much you love her is not the best idea.~-~
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asking a girl out, really only works in bulk, depending on your approach you'll get anywhere from 5-25% chance of getting a girl this way.

As far as looks go, they don't really matter. The most wanted guy in my high school was one ugly ass mofo, but he was well liked, and had good social status (captain of the football/basketball team). Through college I personally knew several ugly guys who never had a problem getting a GF.

What women look for in a man.

Social status - Money, and power have always been 2 things women like in men.

Popular - you don't have to be in the "popular" crowd, but you need lots of friends and connections.

Fun - women want a guy who goes out, is social, vactions, out going, tells jokes, basically a guy that makes sure she's entertained.

clean - now some girls do like a bit of a grungy look, but a majority of them want a guy who smells, looks, tastes clean.

confidence - highly overrated, but still important, and I should say you just need to be functionally confident (ie not self hating or overly pessimistic).

if you can convince a women you are 4/5 of these things then she'll most likely date you.

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#41 BEAN_LARD_MULCH
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Approaching them is a good start. Talking is also good too.foxhound_fox

Yes, yes and LISTENING is also a key point. You see, they tell me that I "actually listen unlike most people and thats good". I suggest listening?
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[QUOTE="Headbanger88"]

Just remember this sad truth. Chivalry is dead. Women don't want the noble man who is willing prove his love by trial of combat. You know, the guy who writes sonnets declaring his true love and who's love is humiliating, exalting, and transcendent. At one point in time, chivalry was probably one of the most manly things you could have but you have to realize that women want a guy who wil treat her like total crap. They say they want the a guy who will love and care for her, but really it's the complete opposite.

The_PirateKing

~-~You know, I'm getting sick of this "girls like jerks" crap. Just because it's true in some situations it doesn't mean it's true for every girl. And here's a thought, if girls like jerks, does that mean you have to be a jerk to them or can you just be a jerk to everyone else. Does being pissed about things and showing it make you seam like a jerk? Not only is the girl part about that a generalization, but so is the jerk part. There are different kinds of jerks. You can't just sum things up like that. Life isn't that simple. Although I do agree that writing songs telling her how much you love her is not the best idea.~-~

Well, I'm in more rant mode than advice. It's not true for all girls, but I see this crap all the time, especially in younger women. I'm sure this has happened in one way or another for a lot of nice guys and it does piss me off. I didn't want to sound misogynistic, and I don't actually condone it which is part of the reason it pisses me off. I'm just not a jerk, and I've always been the nice guy and it seems to put a lot of women off.

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Just remember this sad truth. Chivalry is dead. Women don't want the noble man who is willing prove his love by trial of combat. You know, the guy who writes sonnets declaring his true love and who's love is humiliating, exalting, and transcendent. At one point in time, chivalry was probably one of the most manly things you could have but you have to realize that women want a guy who wil treat her like total crap. They say they want the a guy who will love and care for her, but really it's the complete opposite.

As soon as a woman realizes you are attracted to her, you've pretty much already lost. What'll end up happening is she will get with the a-hole with the muscle shirt and tribal tattoo and then complain to you about it everyday on the phone because the guy treats her like utter crap. Meanwhile, you're the one who comforts her and consoles her. Don't kid yourself though, she'll keep going back to that jerk who will never open a door for her and will make her walk on the outside of the sidewalk and you'll always be her guy friend.

Basically one of the worst things you can do is declare your unbridled love to the woman you want. She says she wants a knight in shining armor, but chivalry is pretty much out the window.

Headbanger88
Talk about crap. I do agree that some women are like that but that is a small minority of women. Others like it when there the one who treats the guy like crap and others like the romantic & caring for each other crap. Whatever works for you. Chivalry is dead but respect & caring for a women is still here. You got to respect her and show her you care about her. You just set up a stupid situation that makes no sense. Your encouraging guys to treat women like crap. You need to show her you love her, you need to open the doors and stuff like that cause they like it. A lot of girls like guys who are funny and some only care about the body. Some care about both and want a good ratio of Personality and Looks for them to like you. Most girls dont like to ask guys out so you GUYS have to step up and ask the girl out. They will drop hints, so check for those. But yea what ur saying is crap.
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#44 The_PirateKing
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Talk about crap. I do agree that some women are like that but that is a small minority of women. Others like it when there the one who treats the guy like crap and others like the romantic & caring for each other crap. Whatever works for you. Chivalry is dead but respect & caring for a women is still here. You got to respect her and show her you care about her. You just set up a stupid situation that makes no sense. Your encouraging guys to treat women like crap. You need to show her you love her, you need to open the doors and stuff like that cause they like it. A lot of girls like guys who are funny and some only care about the body. Some care about both and want a good ratio of Personality and Looks for them to like you. Most girls dont like to ask guys out so you GUYS have to step up and ask the girl out. They will drop hints, so check for those. But yea what ur saying is crap. hoop_hard
~-~You're too late, I already beat you to the anti chick generalization crap.:P~-~
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#45 o_sausage
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Not what i was expecting on this thread. I thought it was going to be one of those 12 year old boys giving advice and i thought i would come enjoy some laughs. zeldafan00013
Lol Mr. Sams

ANyway asking a girl doesn't always work becuase they tend to gossip to much

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#46 lompocus
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[QUOTE="Headbanger88"]

Just remember this sad truth. Chivalry is dead. Women don't want the noble man who is willing prove his love by trial of combat. You know, the guy who writes sonnets declaring his true love and who's love is humiliating, exalting, and transcendent. At one point in time, chivalry was probably one of the most manly things you could have but you have to realize that women want a guy who wil treat her like total crap. They say they want the a guy who will love and care for her, but really it's the complete opposite.

As soon as a woman realizes you are attracted to her, you've pretty much already lost. What'll end up happening is she will get with the a-hole with the muscle shirt and tribal tattoo and then complain to you about it everyday on the phone because the guy treats her like utter crap. Meanwhile, you're the one who comforts her and consoles her. Don't kid yourself though, she'll keep going back to that jerk who will never open a door for her and will make her walk on the outside of the sidewalk and you'll always be her guy friend.

Basically one of the worst things you can do is declare your unbridled love to the woman you want. She says she wants a knight in shining armor, but chivalry is pretty much out the window.

hoop_hard

Talk about crap. I do agree that some women are like that but that is a small minority of women. Others like it when there the one who treats the guy like crap and others like the romantic & caring for each other crap. Whatever works for you. Chivalry is dead but respect & caring for a women is still here. You got to respect her and show her you care about her. You just set up a stupid situation that makes no sense. Your encouraging guys to treat women like crap. You need to show her you love her, you need to open the doors and stuff like that cause they like it. A lot of girls like guys who are funny and some only care about the body. Some care about both and want a good ratio of Personality and Looks for them to like you. Most girls dont like to ask guys out so you GUYS have to step up and ask the girl out. They will drop hints, so check for those. But yea what ur saying is crap.

@headbanger: rofl, chivaly is the #1 thing over in my ex-homecountry of Mexico (I'm 1st gen american). It's not exactly *** on first sight.

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#48 FlaminDeath
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asking a girl out, really only works in bulk, depending on your approach you'll get anywhere from 5-25% chance of getting a girl this way.

As far as looks go, they don't really matter. The most wanted guy in my high school was one ugly ass mofo, but he was well liked, and had good social status (captain of the football/basketball team). Through college I personally knew several ugly guys who never had a problem getting a GF.

What women look for in a man.

Social status - Money, and power have always been 2 things women like in men.

Popular - you don't have to be in the "popular" crowd, but you need lots of friends and connections.

Fun - women want a guy who goes out, is social, vactions, out going, tells jokes, basically a guy that makes sure she's entertained.

clean - now some girls do like a bit of a grungy look, but a majority of them want a guy who smells, looks, tastes clean.

confidence - highly overrated, but still important, and I should say you just need to be functionally confident (ie not self hating or overly pessimistic).

if you can convince a women you are 4/5 of these things then she'll most likely date you.

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#49 The_PirateKing
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~-~Hey, you're a girl. How do you feel about so many guys trying to make one simple generalization to describe your entire gender? (Or is that what this post meant.)~-~
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see, even the girl is offended.