asking a girl out, really only works in bulk, depending on your approach you'll get anywhere from 5-25% chance of getting a girl this way.
As far as looks go, they don't really matter. The most wanted guy in my high school was one ugly ass mofo, but he was well liked, and had good social status (captain of the football/basketball team). Through college I personally knew several ugly guys who never had a problem getting a GF.
What women look for in a man.
Social status - Money, and power have always been 2 things women like in men.
Popular - you don't have to be in the "popular" crowd, but you need lots of friends and connections.
Fun - women want a guy who goes out, is social, vactions, out going, tells jokes, basically a guy that makes sure she's entertained.
clean - now some girls do like a bit of a grungy look, but a majority of them want a guy who smells, looks, tastes clean.
confidence - highly overrated, but still important, and I should say you just need to be functionally confident (ie not self hating or overly pessimistic).
if you can convince a women you are 4/5 of these things then she'll most likely date you.
jrhawk42
I agree with most except for you saying Confidence being over-rated, I completely disagree, I think confidence is one of the more important aspects you listed. Of all the girls I've dated, all have made comments on how confident I am, that I have this quiet confidence and that it is very attractive to them that I can be so confident in myself and yet not at all cocky. I think that a guy with confidence can make himself much more attractive to a girl, simply because it changes the way he carries himself darastically.
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