Men can be so stupid.

[QUOTE="KrunkMastaX"]But Ankaara from your posts you seem really concieted. Thats never a good thing. :|Shinoto

Unless of course...You are me. My beautiful, presence...Perfection is truly a heavenly sight.

My one and only relationship started that way, and it was a baaaaaad idea. No thanks.Ankaara

Wait one and "only"? And online too? How old are you again? 

[QUOTE="Shinoto"]

[QUOTE="KrunkMastaX"]But Ankaara from your posts you seem really concieted. Thats never a good thing. :|KrunkMastaX

Unless of course...You are me. My beautiful, presence...Perfection is truly a heavenly sight.

Around, But hiding like a Ninja

Also worshiping Code Geass

A lot of you keep saying to tell him, and I have. After he said what he did about the latest girl, I snapped, and blew up at him. Called him an idiot and he agreed, in fact. He just kept saying he couldn't love me and any "relationship" we would have would be a lie, and he couldn't do that to me knowing how badly I want love and romance. He also said he couldn't do it to him self, because he wants lots of commitment free encounters with various girls. Ankaara

well hes pretty damn dumb but i guess he likes messing around with bimbos for sex and isnt ready for commitement yet(you) or just isnt interested...

and what do you mean by fabulous physical encounter? had sex with him? and yet you still didnt get together after that? 

That really is quite odd. In real life I'm very passive, shy and humble. In fact, the guy in question has always harped on me for being too hard on myself. I'm actually upset that I appear concieted. It's really quite a new feeling for me to have confidence... perhaps I've just always felt more comfortable online. Ankaara

Online we are everything we want to be. For me, I'm just saying the things I want to say to peoples I know I can help. For me helping peoples is a way to forget about myself. I have passed through so many things that simple peoples will never have to. I think I can past on my experience to others who need an expertise. 

Around, But hiding like a Ninja

Also worshiping Code Geass

Shinoto

Also doing what? lol 

[QUOTE="wiiforever25"]show us a picture of you, then we will talk. but here is something i will try to explain to you about men. every man fat or skinny wants a skinny hot women, why, because you women are so stuck up and shallow that only skinny hot men can get you, so they have no reason to want fat girls, and the fat guys can get ant fat girl, and they know this and dont think its right that they cant get skinny girls, so they refuse the fat girls and go for the skinnies. have you ever thought that men have no problems, but women are nothing but stuck up, shalloww, bixxxes.foxhound_fox

you know its true. 

[QUOTE="Ankaara"]That really is quite odd. In real life I'm very passive, shy and humble. In fact, the guy in question has always harped on me for being too hard on myself. I'm actually upset that I appear concieted. It's really quite a new feeling for me to have confidence... perhaps I've just always felt more comfortable online. Denjin_hadouken

YOU ARE THE PERFECT MATCH! :P

[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"][QUOTE="wiiforever25"]show us a picture of you, then we will talk. but here is something i will try to explain to you about men. every man fat or skinny wants a skinny hot women, why, because you women are so stuck up and shallow that only skinny hot men can get you, so they have no reason to want fat girls, and the fat guys can get ant fat girl, and they know this and dont think its right that they cant get skinny girls, so they refuse the fat girls and go for the skinnies. have you ever thought that men have no problems, but women are nothing but stuck up, shalloww, bixxxes.wiiforever25

you know its true.

No, not really. But is it true that you cant get a girl to even look at you? 

maybe you should send that rant to him rather than us. :?Kook18

Maybe he could read it... you know, that's not a bad idea.

Make him read the whole thread. 

well hes pretty damn dumb but i guess he likes messing around with bimbos for sex and isnt ready for commitement yet(you) or just isnt interested...

 

and what do you mean by fabulous physical encounter? had sex with him? and yet you still didnt get together after that? 

blazinpuertoroc

[QUOTE="Kook18"]maybe you should send that rant to him rather than us. :?Redgarl

Maybe he could read it... you know, that's not a bad idea.

Make him read the whole thread. 

[QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"]

well hes pretty damn dumb but i guess he likes messing around with bimbos for sex and isnt ready for commitement yet(you) or just isnt interested...

 

and what do you mean by fabulous physical encounter? had sex with him? and yet you still didnt get together after that?

Ankaara

You can't expect anything from him. There is no mutual feeling between you 2. Mutual feelings are something that just happens, it cannot be obtained like you try. 

[QUOTE="wiiforever25"]

[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"][QUOTE="wiiforever25"]show us a picture of you, then we will talk. but here is something i will try to explain to you about men. every man fat or skinny wants a skinny hot women, why, because you women are so stuck up and shallow that only skinny hot men can get you, so they have no reason to want fat girls, and the fat guys can get ant fat girl, and they know this and dont think its right that they cant get skinny girls, so they refuse the fat girls and go for the skinnies. have you ever thought that men have no problems, but women are nothing but stuck up, shalloww, bixxxes.heartcork

you know its true.

No, not really. But is it true that you cant get a girl to even look at you?

i get girls fine, i just live in a realistic world. 

It annoys me how women get so offended when they ask a guy out, and they say no, but men ask girls out all the time and are suppose to deal with rejection.helium_flash

That really is quite odd. In real life I'm very passive, shy and humble. In fact, the guy in question has always harped on me for being too hard on myself. I'm actually upset that I appear concieted. It's really quite a new feeling for me to have confidence... perhaps I've just always felt more comfortable online. Ankaara

Yeah, we didn't have condoms but we spent a few hours doing just about damned near everything else. We had fooled around before, back in high school, but never had an intimate encounter before. He said I was great, very responsive, and kept things interesting. To him, it was just having a good time with someone he trusted... but obviously so much more for me. Ankaara

Um wait wow. So you are as good as you claim? lol 

[QUOTE="Redgarl"]

[QUOTE="Kook18"]maybe you should send that rant to him rather than us. :?Ankaara

Maybe he could read it... you know, that's not a bad idea.

Make him read the whole thread.

if that's true he doesn't respect you. He only care about himself, you will not be able to change him. He cares about his friendship relation and not about your love.

A lot of you keep saying to tell him, and I have. After he said what he did about the latest girl, I snapped, and blew up at him. Called him an idiot and he agreed, in fact. He just kept saying he couldn't love me and any "relationship" we would have would be a lie, and he couldn't do that to me knowing how badly I want love and romance. He also said he couldn't do it to him self, because he wants lots of commitment free encounters with various girls. Ankaara

he's a typical male....u got no chance.... it's easier 2 just give up and accept that now rather than later.
find urself an ugly bloke that shares simmilar interests - cuz they normally have the better personalities...cmhawk

I share the same interests...and I'm not ugly. Generalizations ftl? :|

i get girls fine, i just live in a realistic world. wiiforever25

[QUOTE="blazinpuertoroc"]

well hes pretty damn dumb but i guess he likes messing around with bimbos for sex and isnt ready for commitement yet(you) or just isnt interested...

 

and what do you mean by fabulous physical encounter? had sex with him? and yet you still didnt get together after that?

Ankaara

Well, from the way i see it, your friend might be little bit scared to take thing further with you. But why? you might ask, because you two have such a good friendship and you two been know each other for ages. I bet he feel the sam for you but there's just lot of "what if" goin on in his mind...you see. What if it doesn't work out between you two that's might be his main concern, I mean you don't just want to throw away 14 years just because of that. I have friend who been best friend since primary school and they started dating and things didn't work out between them, even though they seem like each other soul mate, but now when they met its just awkward and its not the sam anymore (based on waht my friend telling me) But hey this just my assumption your friend might have other things going on in his head as well. Im currently on your friend's position and this is how I feel about th whole situation, yes I like her VERY much bt at the same time Im to coward too actually to take the chance :(       

The next two years we became close friends again, even with the distance. He visited every few months, and we talked for a few hours every week. I went to visit him for the first time a few weeks ago. It was fabulous: We played Star Wars: Battlefront II (on PS2). We designed and built him an awesome gaming PC. We talked about the weaknesses of various Warhammer (the table top game) armies and speculated on the online MMORPG. We even had a fabulous physical encounter for the first time.

Ankaara

[QUOTE="Ankaara"]
My one and only relationship started that way, and it was a baaaaaad idea. No thanks.KrunkMastaX

Wait one and "only"? And online too? How old are you again? 

[QUOTE="helium_flash"]It annoys me how women get so offended when they ask a guy out, and they say no, but men ask girls out all the time and are suppose to deal with rejection.Ankaara

He's just wants fun then, not a serious relationship.  Or maybe he thinks you just are out for fun also?  Does he know you want to get serious w/ each other? 

[QUOTE="cmhawk"]

he's a typical male....u got no chance.... it's easier 2 just give up and accept that now rather than later.
find urself an ugly bloke that shares simmilar interests - cuz they normally have the better personalities...KrunkMastaX

I share the same interests...and I'm not ugly. Generalizations ftl? :|

[QUOTE="cmhawk"]

he's a typical male....u got no chance.... it's easier 2 just give up and accept that now rather than later.
find urself an ugly bloke that shares simmilar interests - cuz they normally have the better personalities...KrunkMastaX

I share the same interests...and I'm not ugly. Generalizations ftl? :|

Hey, don't be so mean. I just turned 24 in February. And the guy I had a relationship with lived very far away, and we tried to make it work via internet and phone, and it just didn't work. He was very needy, and a long distance relationship wasn't enough for him. It took me a long time to recover from that... wasted precious time in college when I could have really met someone. Now I'm in a city where all of my friends have moved away- and there's really no one to socialize with where I work either. I simply haven't had the opportunity to make friends or find dates. I keep in touch with my closest friends, and haven't needed much else. Ankaara

Oh well my bad then. I meant no offense. 

noes u found my post - now ur gonna tell me off next time im on msn.
and anyways i said 'normally' so i'm not saying its always the case.

also - who r u kiding saying ur not ugly...... jk lol :Pcmhawk

Lol understood. And nah you're safe...for now. :P 

[QUOTE="KrunkMastaX"]

[QUOTE="Ankaara"]
My one and only relationship started that way, and it was a baaaaaad idea. No thanks.Ankaara

Wait one and "only"? And online too? How old are you again? 

Why must we diss Taco Bell employees?!?!

C'mon....it's a respected profession.  A hard worker is a hard worker!!!  Dissing Taco Bell workers will come back to haunt you when you have a poisoned taco! 

Well, it might not just be looks- its the commitment that he doesn't want. Lots of girls to hook up with > just one, no matter how cool she is. And this makes since, until I remember that he was ready and willing to marry Taco Bell girl (I'm not knocking taco bell employees. I used to work at McDonalds. It's just that she never had any ambition to do anything else in life, and it sums her up well). Ankaara

~-~Wait, he want's to marry Taco Bell girl?:| WTFH? Now I'm lost.~-~The_PirateKing

It's all about the skin. Give her a wart, and he will leave her in an instant.

Seriously, do that.