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it depends. Do you apologize for the most miniscule things? If so, then yes, it makes you look weak.
Apologizing, if anything, is a showing of strength not weakness. It takes alot of courage to admit to someone that you were wrong.
Apologies don't mean anything. They don't change or take back what was said or done. Also, most apologies are made because of embarrassment or pressure, and aren't genuine.
Yeah I am weak though and skinny (though I have been getting fat lately), I actually like being skinny but society does not like skinny guys added to the fact my appearance is bad. I feel like my purpose in life is to make it better for others, make others better in comparison to me. I have already a vivid picture of how I will turn up. Do you feel bad at all? I know people do not like receiving apologies because they feel like the person is doing it to make himself/herself feel better but I do not do that, I do not forget the sins I have collectively obtained. I try to forgive others when they are ****s to me because I can not remember everyone who messed with me.REAL MEN REGRET NOTHING
THE PAST IS SET IN STONE AND CANNOT BE CHANGED
coolbeans90
[QUOTE="coolbeans90"]Yeah I am weak though and skinny (though I have been getting fat lately), I actually like being skinny but society does not like skinny guys added to the fact my appearance is bad. I feel like my purpose in life is to make it better for others, make others better in comparison to me. I have already a vivid picture of how I will turn up. Do you feel bad at all? I know people do not like receiving apologies because they feel like the person is doing it to make himself/herself feel better but I do not do that, I do not forget the sins I have collectively obtained. I try to forgive others when they are ****s to me because I can not remember everyone who messed with me. Lost Voyageur is that you? :oREAL MEN REGRET NOTHING
THE PAST IS SET IN STONE AND CANNOT BE CHANGED
PlanetSynthesis
Thats why I feel bad about apologizing even after I do it because I know they do not take it seriously. I know people are evil and I am filled with hate do not get me wrong, its a survival of the fittest world we inhabit.Apologies don't mean anything. They don't change or take back what was said or done. Also, most apologies are made because of embarrassment or pressure, and aren't genuine.
BluRayHiDef
Please don't listen to anyone who thinks that apology is bad. Only excessive apology is.
Your desire to apologize to people is incredibly admirable, and should only be suppressed if it lets jerks get what they want. The ability to sincerely apologize to others when you've truly done wrong is something that a lot of people lack. Remorse is quite rare these days. It's a gift in my view, so appreciate it.
Don't be hard on yourself, though; it's not like you intended to hurt all of your ancestors. Move on, and make sure you treat people nicely from now on. That's the only reasonable path.
[QUOTE="Postmortem123"][QUOTE="UCF_Knight"]Yes. I've heard it also makes you a homosexual.muller39
This.
I do hope you two are not serious. I am completely serious.never apologizing for anything out of fear of looking weak is certainly a weakness.
this notion that people should apologize for what their ancestors did or may have done is pretty ridiculous though. saying i have some connection to those atrocities is pretty insulting. i demand an apology.
[QUOTE="Postmortem123"][QUOTE="UCF_Knight"]Yes. I've heard it also makes you a homosexual.muller39
This.
I do hope you two are not serious.Everytime you apologize, Satan plants a seed of homosexuality inside you.
True story.
The one to actually apologise is the stronger person.dramaybaz
This... idk how is a sign of weakness generally, the other person could be having a bad day and your apology can help them get over their anger or w.e.
It depends on what you do Honestly. I think if you say your sorry for trivial things, then yes. But if you did something really bad, then it's not weakness, it's you realizing your wrongdoings.
It's only a weakness if you're the kind of person who apologises for every little thing you do, even if you never did anything wrong. Don't be a doormat.Deihjan
This.
It's not simple but to narrow it to two sides of a psychological spectrum.
It can make you look weak. My friend's mum tried phoning him for an hour but the calls didn't come through for an hour. When they spoke his mum was furious (ridiculously over protective) as she thought he was ignoring her on purpose and he was apologizing non-stop as though it was his fault, and it looked completely pathetic.
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