How am i supposed to enjoy life if im ugly and everyon treasts me like crap?

Im ugly and everyon treasts me like crap because im ugly. I have accepted the fact that i will probably never have a girlfriend. I will probably be lonely the rest of my life. I have no friends, i dont like my family. How can I enjoy life? please tell me

Easy. Just be like me, and don't give a crap 8). DethSkematik

I don't see why you would care. If you value life and enjoyment based off how your perceived by others, I'd seriously consider giving up on trying to enjoy life.. No matter what you will have people who see you in a certain light and think stuff about you..Its up to you to look past that and value life for what it really is.

With that attitude you're certainly never going to get a girlfriend.

You need more confidence!

I don't see why you would care. If you value life and enjoyment based off how your perceived by others, I'd seriously consider giving up on trying to enjoy life.. No matter what you will have people who see you in a certain light and think stuff about you..Its up to you to look past that and value life for what it really is.

EarnMyRespect

I don't see why you would care. If you value life and enjoyment based off how your perceived by others, I'd seriously consider giving up on trying to enjoy life.. No matter what you will have people who see you in a certain light and think stuff about you..Its up to you to look past that and value life for what it really is.

EarnMyRespect

If that's how you want your mind to be set, then don't expect a change. YOU yourself has to make that change. Change your attitude and be more confident.

Keep your chin up, and do something about it. I doubt you're that ugly.

[QUOTE="DethSkematik"]Easy. Just be like me, and don't give a crap 8). TheStore

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i'm in the exact situation TC,plus that i live in a crappy country,i'm guessing atleas you're living in a free country :?

Im ugly and everyon treasts me like crap because im ugly. I have accepted the fact that i will probably never have a girlfriend. I will probably be lonely the rest of my life. I have no friends, i dont like my family. How can I enjoy life? please tell me

TheStore

News flash-you are a guy.you don't have to be good looking. a bit of self confidence and belief in your self will go a long way. If every uglyguy was tormented because he's not pretty-every person w/ a penis ,with a 2% exception, would be jumping off roof tops.

Im ugly and everyon treasts me like crap because im ugly. I have accepted the fact that i will probably never have a girlfriend. I will probably be lonely the rest of my life. I have no friends, i dont like my family. How can I enjoy life? please tell me

TheStore

if you afford it you can have cosmetic plastic surgery,nothing extreme,cutting off a little from your nose or chin.or some facial implants or fat removal can completely change your face and boost your confidence.

With that attitude you're certainly never going to get a girlfriend.

You need more confidence!

DJ-Lafleur

I'm sorry you feel this way.
Fortunately for you, "ugly" is just one state of mind. I've never met a truly ugly person in my life, though I'm young. People just have different characteristics.
Besides, not all girls are shallow.
All you need is confidence, and you're on your way, son!

Would a hug help, perhaps?

Easy. Just be like me, and don't give a crap 8). DethSkematik

Bam, right there.

Easy. Just be like me, and don't give a crap 8). DethSkematik

Get yourself involved (and good at) in some form of art. Ugly artists men are all around respected

You need to find a crutch. Be it alcohol, jesus, red bull... Something to give you the temporary feeling that everything is ok.

Look atthat ugly **** in the mirror that you see every morning and headbutt the **** out of him. You'll become handsome then. This works, hope this helps.

People here are very naive, looks do in fact matter a lot. My advice is: Working out. If you don't have the face, you can have the body. It looks to me as if you have plenty of motivation to do this, since it sounds like you're at your all-time low. You need something to dedicate yourself to, the gym is a good start. Confidence is also key, but it is impossible to just grow that overnight or grow it out of nothingness. If you work out, perhaps buy some nice clothes, then you might begin to feel better about yourself. If you work out, and this still doesn't work, I would suggest rehabilitation. Move to a new environment, get a new job, do something new. You will start meeting new people, who will get an impression of you NOT related to how you once were, but how you are now. You will also have that 'new guy' attention, which will probably help boost your ego.

how old are you? because people are only mean to others at a very young age, friends dont care how someone looks :S

Im ugly and everyon treasts me like crap because im ugly. I have accepted the fact that i will probably never have a girlfriend. I will probably be lonely the rest of my life. I have no friends, i dont like my family. How can I enjoy life? please tell me

TheStore

Lol, your the only one treating yourself like crap.Pvt_r3d

Don't sound so pathetic, go to the gym start taking pride in the way you dress and you'll gain confidence. It's a great way to start.

there are several factors that go into getting a girlfriend. first, what type of girl are you expecting to get with? the popular preppy girls that go after the head of the wrestling and football teams, or the shy, yet cute girls who diamonds in the rough? IMO, forget about the preppy girls, they're artificial and have little lasting value beyond their TnA.

also, how old are you? just because you don't have a girlfriend now doesn't mean you'll ever have a girlfriend. a friend of my dads used to be a huge Dungeonds and Dragons nerd with NO friend and never had a girlfriend in high school. then he went to college and found the love of his life when he was 28. hell, some people don't find that special someone till they're in their 40s! life is a long, long road, and there are many ways to change yourself - BUT, don't just change yourself to please others, change yourself to to please yourself. exercising is an excellent way to not only gain confidence, but to live a healthier life****as well.

don't give up on life, and don't give up on people!

[QUOTE="Pvt_r3d"]Lol, your the only one treating yourself like crap.scorch-62

The only reason why people treat you like crap is because your reaction is most likely hilarious to them... just don't care about what they say and it will eventually stop.

Be confident and honest about yourself and one day you will find the right person who is suited for yourself and try to resolve the issues with your family and you will enjoy life much more