How am i supposed to enjoy life if im ugly and everyon treasts me like crap?

Im ugly and everyon treasts me like crap because im ugly. I have accepted the fact that i will probably never have a girlfriend. I will probably be lonely the rest of my life. I have no friends, i dont like my family. How can I enjoy life? please tell me

TheStore

I think confidence is a much better thing to have than looks, luckily you can work on that.

Also, 80% of beauty is cosmetic. A new haircut, better clothes, some makeup can go a long way towards making an average person look stunning, or an ugly person look above average. You just have to put effort into maintaining it.

learn to enjoy treating people like crap right back.

[QUOTE="roleplayer2004"]

Girls like ugly dudes trust me. Just be rebellious and dont think about it.

rawsavon

More often than not women choose personality or individuality over appearance. I see so many hot girls out there with bogans it's beyond a joke. If you can hold a conversation and make them laugh chances are they are going to follow you around like a bad smell. If you can communicate with a women they'll be like a dog on leash. So sharpen up your speaking skills.

[QUOTE="xhellcatx"]

I suggest getting a pet, A cat or a dog. Something that will need you and depend on you and unconditionally love you. Then You get the warm fuzzies and feel all "awwe" inside and then YAY. :)

Desulated

It's all love and comfort until they die.

[QUOTE="TheStore"]

Im ugly and everyon treasts me like crap because im ugly. I have accepted the fact that i will probably never have a girlfriend. I will probably be lonely the rest of my life. I have no friends, i dont like my family. How can I enjoy life? please tell me

Trollsters

The poor kid's in High School, you think girls are that nice when they're at that stage?

[QUOTE="rawsavon"][QUOTE="roleplayer2004"]

Girls like ugly dudes trust me. Just be rebellious and dont think about it.

More often than not women choose personality or individuality over appearance. I see so many hot girls out there with bogans it's beyond a joke. If you can hold a conversation and make them laugh chances are they are going to follow you around like a bad smell. If you can communicate with a women they'll be like a dog on leash. So sharpen up your speaking skills.

[QUOTE="Desulated"]

[QUOTE="xhellcatx"]

I suggest getting a pet, A cat or a dog. Something that will need you and depend on you and unconditionally love you. Then You get the warm fuzzies and feel all "awwe" inside and then YAY. :)

xhellcatx

It's all love and comfort until they die.

I wish my dogs and catall lived that long. They're all dead >_>

There are a ton of really ugly pro baseball, basketball, football and hockey playersmaking millions with super hot wifes or girlfriends.

The same is true through all walks of life, but you can easily google sports stars and see the truth of what I say. Think about that.

[QUOTE="xhellcatx"][QUOTE="Desulated"]

It's all love and comfort until they die.

Desulated

I wish my dogs and catall lived that long. They're all dead >_>

Yeh maybe take up a sports hobby your interested in and really go for it and become the best, i recomend UFC.

Having a little bit more confidence in yourself will help. The attitude you have in life will carry you much farther than your physical attractiveness.mindstorm

It true. To be blunt, why should anyone respect you when you don't even respect yourself?

[QUOTE="mindstorm"]Having a little bit more confidence in yourself will help. The attitude you have in life will carry you much farther than your physical attractiveness.Nkemjo

It true. To be blunt, why should anyone respect you when you don't even respect yourself?

Maybe he's hit the "screw it" level where he just loses hope. It happens...I mean, there's really no point in struggling if no one even thinks you're existent.

Yeh maybe take up a sports hobby your interested in and really go for it and become the best, i recomend UFC.

grizzlybear1

Ever seen George Lopez, learn from him..

Btw OP, I have the same issues as you. I find myself ugly (can't stand looking in the mirror for more than 2 seconds), I don't likemy family, and I have very little friends. My previous girlfriend was a ***** and now she's on my people to kill list.

Wait till you get to college. I suppose the increased freedom will let your spirit a bit more free to roam.

There are a ton of really ugly pro baseball, basketball, football and hockey playersmaking millions with super hot wifes or girlfriends.

The same is true through all walks of life, but you can easily google sports stars and see the truth of what I say. Think about that.

SUD123456

I didn't take the effort to read everything and see how old you are, but my guess is that you are in high school? I remember very well being extremely worried about my appearance in the first years of high school.

Well, good news, after a while you start realizing it doesn't matter whatsoever and you'll start getting comfortable with who you are (or so you should). The important part is to find friends who accept you for who you are. Don't set your mind to finding a lady friend (although this is probably pretty difficult in high school) and just let it come and have fun. Find happiness in other things (which there are plenty of) and someone will undoubtedly come your way.

First, change your perception on life and look at things on an optimistic side. Life has meaning because we give it meaning. A bad feeling would'nt be bad if we didn't allow it to do that to us. Second, find your talents and use them to make yourself and others happy. And lastly, you might want to go on a spiritual journey of some kind.

Im ugly and everyon treasts me like crap because im ugly. I have accepted the fact that i will probably never have a girlfriend. I will probably be lonely the rest of my life. I have no friends, i dont like my family. How can I enjoy life? please tell me

TheStore

well......ok the best advice get a guitar (join a band) start writing music make angry bitter music make money use this to get plastic sugery get girls and youll be so talentede and respected you wont need your family