Girl help needed ASAP

So i was talking to my crush on MSN yesterday for the first time in months.

I actually talked to this chick in real life, i invited her to the movies twice ( both times she said yes but never showed up -.-) i have biology with her couple of times a week... shes really shy like really really shy for example once i was walking outside and she comes in the opposite walking her dog with her mom and she looked down as i passed by her, i did not dare to say anything cus her mom was there.

Anyways i saw her on msn yesterday and i had to say something to her, the convo was something like this:

Me: Hello

She: Hi!

Me: How are you?

She: I m great and you?

Me: I m good, but now i am even better cus i m talking to you :)

20 Minutes passed she did not say anything back

Me: How did it go with biologys presentation?

She didnt replay that either

1 Hour later

Me: Are you there?

She doesnt reaply

About 20 minutes later she logs off.

Now i wont give up just yet, i really like her and even if she doesnt (yet)like me back i ll try my best to change that.

My question to you OTers is how should i do this? how can i get a really shy girl to open up to me? I ll do anything

In before touching her shoulder, drug her and all those immature things that dont help no body

I wouldn't think much of it. I can be prettty distracted when I am at my computer, she may have just left and her parents signed her off. COuld be anything. Try a phone coversation next time.

I wouldn't think much of it. I can be prettty distracted when I am at my computer, she may have just left and her parents signed her off. COuld be anything. Try a phone coversation next time.

Ravirr

Don't pressure her, since she's really shy, saying things like "I'm good now that I'm talking to you", can make a girl feel like you're jumping to things too fast. Act friendly but not creepy. Just talk to her more often. Maybe get her number so you two can text awhile, and when she starts replying more ask if she wants to hang out. Ask her what she likes to do. Maybe watch a movie at your house? Hope you get her to open up and like you back (: Wish you theee best of luck sir!

In all honesty I don't think she's shy, I just think she doesn't like you. Also, does MrsSolidSnake know about this?

The best thing to do would be to ask her why she keeps ingoring you. Theres really nothing to help with here.

Ew!...She's flakey. Don't bother. She missed two of your invites.

I would move on but that's just me.

Don't pressure her, since she's really shy, saying things like "I'm good now that I'm talking to you", can make a girl feel like you're jumping to things too fast. Act friendly but not creepy. Just talk to her more often. Maybe get her number so you two can text awhile, and when she starts replying more ask if she wants to hang out. Ask her what she likes to do. Maybe watch a movie at your house? Hope you get her to open up and like you back (: Wish you theee best of luck sir!

tepni

In all honestly I don't think she's shy, I just think she doesn't like you.

CrystalFox

She just doesn't seem to like you. Move on.

Honestly, it sounds like she just doesn't like you. Girls don't just leave you hangin on IMs, and if she didn't really do it on purpose, she would've apologized. It's an especially bad sign too that she left right after you made that comment about loving to talk to her. Maybe you can use your manly charms to woo her, but as of now, she don't like ya.

The best thing to do would be to ask her why she keeps ingoring you. Theres really nothing to help with here.

taj7575

seems like she doesn't have the spine to outright reject you. so if this is not just a troll job, you're in for a hurtin'lloveLamp

Ew!...She's flakey. Don't bother. She missed two of your invites.

TecmoGirl

[QUOTE="tepni"]

Don't pressure her, since she's really shy, saying things like "I'm good now that I'm talking to you", can make a girl feel like you're jumping to things too fast. Act friendly but not creepy. Just talk to her more often. Maybe get her number so you two can text awhile, and when she starts replying more ask if she wants to hang out. Ask her what she likes to do. Maybe watch a movie at your house? Hope you get her to open up and like you back (: Wish you theee best of luck sir!

Solid_Tango

lol.

Dystopian-X

Lol. XD

It is probably best to set her free

If she comes back it was meant to be, if she does not it never was

[QUOTE="donwoogie"]Welcome to life..... women are complicated and never tell you straight what they want. All you have to look forward to is getting your dignity spat and trampled on until somehow, you end up with someone. Anyhoo, back to the advice.don't lay it on so thick. Looking needy tends to make girls think lower of you. Girls never admit it, but they seem to follow guys who don't appear to to even want them. Act as casual as possible and when you do eventually ask her out, do it in such a way that makes it seem that, fi she says no, it won't affect your plans whatsoever eg. going to a party with friends, so if she doesn't come along, it doesn't matter to you. An knock off the lovey dubby stuff, it's embarassing for you, your gender and for her.................. And don't act needy!tepni

My friend is doing that with his girlfriend. He already knows they'll break up after he leaves for college, but he still goes to see her every day at her house. If he doesn't have a car..he'll walk. It hasn't hit him yet that it's weird :?

But yeah TC, move on. Seriously, I'm guessing your in HS, the last thing you want to do is obsess over a girl.

You don't want to push too hard...it may put her off instead of making her admire your persistence..

Honestly, I think that you will just make her uncomfortable if you keep pressing the matter. Everything about her behavior suggests that she isn't interested in a relationship with you for whatever reason. You can continue to be friendly to her in the hopes of changing her mind if you wish, but don't get tunnel vision. When a girl likes you, you'll know it, and this is not one of those occasions.

Get another crush.

She probably has another advisor/boyfriend telling her stuff and she probably is too shy to tell you about it.

:D

Honestly, I think that you will just make her uncomfortable if you keep pressing the matter. Everything about her behavior suggests that she isn't interested in a relationship with you for whatever reason. You can continue to be friendly to her in the hopes of changing her mind if you wish, but don't get tunnel vision. When a girl likes you, you'll know it, and this is not one of those occasions.

pianist

Maybe she's interested in someone else?

Also, loggin off without saying a word is not shy, it's rude.

It is probably best to set her free

If she comes back it was meant to be, if she does not it never was

Colin1192

To me it sounds like she either is not interested and just doesn't want to flat-out say it, or that she's just shy and that there's been some miscommunication. If you think it's the latter, I guess you could continue to pursue her, but if she has already stood you up twice on dates, I wouldn't expect too much. Personally I'd just give up, but if you feel that there's still some hope, then do what you have to do.

lol.

Dystopian-X

Hahaha I love you!

Hahaha I love you!

t3hrubikscube

Lol! Thnx Brie.

Luv :oops:

lol.

Dystopian-X

:lol: oh depression dog. Sounds like she's avoiding you :/ or just really busy

That is one of the great mysteries about women........ Say you want to spend more time with them and then get turned off, but, if you act like you don't care, they want to spend more time with you and fight with you for more time.........donwoogie

You gotta balance it man..But I will agree, some are odd about it and want it their way. It's no biggie though; you will get used to it anyways unless it becomes really bad. You should be able to tell when that happens though..

[QUOTE="donwoogie"] That is one of the great mysteries about women........ Say you want to spend more time with them and then get turned off, but, if you act like you don't care, they want to spend more time with you and fight with you for more time.........taj7575

You gotta balance it man..But I will agree, some are odd about it and want it their way. It's no biggie though; you will get used to it anyways unless it becomes really bad. You should be able to tell when that happens though..

Its kinda like why people both men and women look up to role models or celebrities as children. If someone can relate to that you may know what I am talking about in the sense of what feeling is felt. This position of strength, believe it or not, is a reason men are attracted to women. Think about it, would you rather date an easy bimbo who gets around, or a girl who can carry herself and who isnt desperate for a boyfriend.

[QUOTE="CrystalFox"]

In all honestly I don't think she's shy, I just think she doesn't like you.

cybrcatter

Its kinda like why people both men and women look up to role models or celebrities as children. If someone can relate to that you may know what I am talking about in the sense of what feeling is felt. This position of strength, believe it or not, is a reason men are attracted to women. Think about it, would you rather date an easy bimbo who gets around, or a girl who can carry herself and who isnt desperate for a boyfriend.

chester706

[QUOTE="chester706"]

Its kinda like why people both men and women look up to role models or celebrities as children. If someone can relate to that you may know what I am talking about in the sense of what feeling is felt. This position of strength, believe it or not, is a reason men are attracted to women. Think about it, would you rather date an easy bimbo who gets around, or a girl who can carry herself and who isnt desperate for a boyfriend.

F1_2004

[QUOTE="F1_2004"][QUOTE="chester706"]

Its kinda like why people both men and women look up to role models or celebrities as children. If someone can relate to that you may know what I am talking about in the sense of what feeling is felt. This position of strength, believe it or not, is a reason men are attracted to women. Think about it, would you rather date an easy bimbo who gets around, or a girl who can carry herself and who isnt desperate for a boyfriend.

chester706