Girl help needed ASAP

[QUOTE="taj7575"]

[QUOTE="donwoogie"] That is one of the great mysteries about women........ Say you want to spend more time with them and then get turned off, but, if you act like you don't care, they want to spend more time with you and fight with you for more time.........chester706

You gotta balance it man..But I will agree, some are odd about it and want it their way. It's no biggie though; you will get used to it anyways unless it becomes really bad. You should be able to tell when that happens though..

You don't have to tell me man. It's even better if you have a good background and you carry yourself independently. I don't mean to brag, but that's how I went through High school, and many girls were interested in me that way. I was never interested in a relationship though..Just more of a fun time.

I m not pushing her D-; we havent talk in a while i was just trying to be nice :( Anyways maybe shes not interested but it so happens that i am and i will try to make her intersted, gezzz we guys cant give up so easily.Solid_Tango

[QUOTE="chester706"][QUOTE="taj7575"]

You gotta balance it man..But I will agree, some are odd about it and want it their way. It's no biggie though; you will get used to it anyways unless it becomes really bad. You should be able to tell when that happens though..

taj7575

You don't have to tell me man. It's even better if you have a good background and you carry yourself independently. I don't mean to brag, but that's how I went through High school, and many girls were interested in me that way. I was never interested in a relationship though..Just more of a fun time.

Edit: Frequently Asked Question, my bad.

Leave her alone, she obviously isn't interested. RotaryRX7

That's cold.

Me: I m good, but now i am even better cus i m talking to you :)

Solid_Tango

She is probably not sure what you "mean" behind that comment. In other words, it's brash, but you're beating around the bush, being "indirect."

I'm not sure, but I think you should have either been "more calm about it," or if you were to hint, "just go the whole way and explain" it just for the sake of removing all doubt.

Your comment was too "middle of the road" and it created a sense of "uncertainty," and people don't like that. You probably should have been on one side or the other, without being ambiguous.

You could have several "cool" conversations where you just talk about boring stuff and repeat this procedure for a while, like several weeks or something, rather than just a couple days, then maybe go for it, idk.

[QUOTE="Ravirr"]

I wouldn't think much of it. I can be prettty distracted when I am at my computer, she may have just left and her parents signed her off. COuld be anything. Try a phone coversation next time.

Solid_Tango

She probably doesn't like you.

Maybe just try and talking to her in person and ask why she's ignoring you.

I m not pushing her D-; we havent talk in a while i was just trying to be nice :( Anyways maybe shes not interested but it so happens that i am and i will try to make her intersted, gezzz we guys cant give up so easily.Solid_Tango

If she has IM habits like me think nothing of it, I could be talking to someone right now and go afk for 3 hours or play game and come back lawl.

Id just back off of her. If she really wanted to hang out with you, there is no way on earth, no matter how shy you are, why she would pass up the invitation twice if she truly dug you back.xhellcatx

In all honesty I don't think she's shy, I just think she doesn't like you.

CrystalFox

try talking to her more in class though if you don't want to give it up right now. who knows, maybe you still have a chance, good luck!

Id just back off of her. If she really wanted to hang out with you, there is no way on earth, no matter how shy you are, why she would pass up the invitation twice if she truly dug you back.xhellcatx

So i was talking to my crush on MSN yesterday for the first time in months.

I actually talked to this chick in real life, i invited her to the movies twice ( both times she said yes but never showed up -.-) i have biology with her couple of times a week... shes really shy like really really shy for example once i was walking outside and she comes in the opposite walking her dog with her mom and she looked down as i passed by her, i did not dare to say anything cus her mom was there.

Anyways i saw her on msn yesterday and i had to say something to her, the convo was something like this:

Me: Hello

She: Hi!

Me: How are you?

She: I m great and you?

Me: I m good, but now i am even better cus i m talking to you :)

20 Minutes passed she did not say anything back

Me: How did it go with biologys presentation?

She didnt replay that either

1 Hour later

Me: Are you there?

She doesnt reaply

About 20 minutes later she logs off.

Now i wont give up just yet, i really like her and even if she doesnt (yet)like me back i ll try my best to change that.

My question to you OTers is how should i do this? how can i get a really shy girl to open up to me? I ll do anything

In before touching her shoulder, drug her and all those immature things that dont help no body

Solid_Tango

SHE STOOD U UP 2 TIMES AND SHE DOESNT LOOK AT YOU WHEN SHE WALKS BY.............TAKE THE HINT!!!!!!!!!!

You should move on, I don't want to be rude, but she and other girls will probably respect you more if you don't make it extremely obvious that you like them.

I m not pushing her D-; we havent talk in a while i was just trying to be nice :( Anyways maybe shes not interested but it so happens that i am and i will try to make her intersted, gezzz we guys cant give up so easily.Solid_Tango

Just show her your toy collection, let her know you have the assests.

Starts off as:

Anyways maybe shes not interested but it so happens that i am and i will try to make her intersted, gezzz we guys cant give up so easily.Solid_Tango

Starts off as:[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]Anyways maybe shes not interested but it so happens that i am and i will try to make her intersted, gezzz we guys cant give up so easily.Dylan_11

Tell her she's an idiot and never talk to her again. That's how I would handle the situation, I hate shy girls.

She just doesn't seem to like you. Move on.

shinian

I m not pushing her D-; we havent talk in a while i was just trying to be nice :( Anyways maybe shes not interested but it so happens that i am and i will try to make her intersted, gezzz we guys cant give up so easily.Solid_Tango

She doesnt deserve a nice guy like you bro

Give up and make someone who deserves you happy instead of this broad

i think you creep her out, dude.rowzzr

Starts off as:[QUOTE="Solid_Tango"]Anyways maybe shes not interested but it so happens that i am and i will try to make her intersted, gezzz we guys cant give up so easily.Dylan_11

Oh dear God! I'm lol'ing so hard!

Now I feel I need to be serious and give someserious advise. Show her your penis.

Now I feel I need to be serious and give someserious advise. Show her your penis.

MagnumPI

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Now I feel I need to be serious and give someserious advise. Show her your penis.

UbiquitousAeon

Alright seriously give it up man. I don't think a girl could make it any more blatantly obvious that she doesn't like you than that without flat out telling you to leave her alone...

Dude, come one, cant you tell she is not interested?RJLateralus

Duh! Of course he can tell. You naive people who took him seriously are so gullible.

Unless you are a very skill communicator online, chances of making any girl interested in you thru the web is close to nil

She stood you up twice = she has no interest in you

I suggest you move on