[QUOTE="AdamPA1006"]

Anything happen?

dog64

Um, well I asked her about the gift card I gave her and she said she liked it but hasn't used it yet. But she's excited to see Jurassic Park 3D, so she does have plans for it. I was really nervous in front of her though and I'm afraid she may of noticed that; I felt kind of awkward.

Ask her if she wants to go see JP3d with you. Anything other than "I'll go with you" means SHE IS NOT INTERESTED. All you have to do is ask her if she wants to see it with you, and you will have your answer on whether or not she likes you.

You said you have never had a girlfriend, so please take advice from people who know what they're talking about. If a girl is interested, and she has a legitimate reason as to why she can't go with you on the day you ask, then she will tell you that she has an actual reason as to why she can't go and will tell you a day that she CAN go. If she says something like "I have plans that day," then no matter what she says after will not matter, because she just told you she doesn't want to go on a date with you.

You are going to try and justify it in your head, and tell yourself that she was just busy that day, and that you should ask again. But trust the people who know what they are talking about when I tell you that "I am busy that day" is the SAME EXACT THING as "I am not attracted to you, nor will I ever be, so stop asking me, you are creepy." The only reason she doesn't tell you the latter is that most women are nice and don't want you to hate them or think they are mean. If she is interested she will give you a yes.

I know I am being redundant, but I sort of feel like you aren't understanding the advice people are giving you and you are going to go with your heart instead because you feel like your situation is different, trust me, your situation is the same situation that most guys experience, especially if you have never had a girlfriend before. I'm just trying to help you so that you don't come off as the weird guy at work, because it feels like you are slipping into that, and you will most definitely become that if she turns you down and you can't get over it.

Good luck, and do what I told you. Ask her to see JP3d, and anything other than a yes means she is not interested and that you should 100% give up on her because it will never happen, and therefore you should try to find a different girl. 

[QUOTE="metroidprime55"]Talking when you have the chance, I don't know, maybe. Try getting closer perhaps but than you run the risk of being friend zoned.dog64

Does her calling you her "best friend" already mean you've been friend zoned? She's done that a couple of times.

Hate to tell you, but this shows she is not interested. Sorry, but that friend zone stuff is absolutely true. She's not interested, and it is best you cut ties and move on. And don't even try to give me this garbage that you want to be her friend, because you don't. The only reason you would want to be her friend is if it meant you could be closer to her because you are still attracted to her and it will just prolong these feelings you have for her, even though this will NEVER EVER happen. NEVER. You need to focus on somebody else and get over this, because it's not happening ever, sorry. 

[QUOTE="TonyDanzaFan"] I'm just bored and have nothing to do currently, thus why I am posting so much. This guy clearly is clueless on how human interaction works, yet he seems intent on ignoring the sound advice he was given in order to do things his own way. I am confused as to why he would ask for help if he was just going to ignore it. Canuck3000

I know you suggested getting her number, but my point is that he is well passed that point. It's pretty much pointless at this point, as getting a number is something you do fairly early on. I think he has been passed this for a while, and frankly, I think there is no way this girl is interested, just going on details that he has provided. I'm just trying to get this guy to either pull the trigger and ask her out, or find out definitively that she is not interested so that he can move on.

So frequently, guys, mainly ones who have never had a girlfriend, trick themselves into thinking that a girl is interested. It's like in Dumb and Dumber when Lloyd says "So you're saying there's a chance!" There is no chance. A girl is either interested in you or they're not, and if they're not, you can't do much to change their mind. Girls aren't attracted to desperation, and they aren't attracted to needy guys. When you act like she's the only girl in the world, like this guy is doing, then that comes off as needy and thus unattractive.

I just think that this guy is too afraid to pull the trigger and ask her out. And because he didn't do this early on, he has invested half a year into a what-if scenario that he has just obsessed with, and thus it will be harder for him to move on if he gets rejected. I see no reason why you shouldn't hurry up and do it. The sooner you get this over the sooner you will either A, be able to take her on a date, or B, MOVE ON and recover. And now if he does make the move, and he gets rejected, I feel like he is going to brush it off and still try to make moves on her as a "friend," because so much of HIS time has been invested. That is ridiculous, and will make things wayyyy worse. There is no being her friend, there is none of these silly moves like buying her a gift card when you're not her boyfriend, there is only getting to the bottom of it and finding out whether or not she is willing to go on a date with you. Ask her to JP3D. That's it. Otherwise do things your own way and have fun with the outcome. :roll:

[QUOTE="dog64"]

Not sure if I should do that, some here are making me think I'e gone too far and I've already blew it. There is something though. My birthday is coming up in a few days, and after what I gave her on her birthday, I'm going to wait and see if she gets me a card or something and what she says in it. If she doesn't give me anything, I can take that hint.

Canuck3000

Honestly, forget that friendzone stuff. Don't give up on something like that. You can't be afraid

Seeing what she does for your birthday isn't a bad idea

[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="SaintLeonidas"]

Jessica Chastain, I mean just look at this stupid b*tch:

 

SaintLeonidas

Not sure what is dumber - your take on why ZD30 was praised so highly, disliking someone because of a film they were in, or just you for saying either.