[QUOTE="TonyDanzaFan"]
Ask her if she wants to go see JP3d with you. Anything other than "I'll go with you" means SHE IS NOT INTERESTED. All you have to do is ask her if she wants to see it with you, and you will have your answer on whether or not she likes you.
You said you have never had a girlfriend, so please take advice from people who know what they're talking about. If a girl is interested, and she has a legitimate reason as to why she can't go with you on the day you ask, then she will tell you that she has an actual reason as to why she can't go and will tell you a day that she CAN go. If she says something like "I have plans that day," then no matter what she says after will not matter, because she just told you she doesn't want to go on a date with you.
You are going to try and justify it in your head, and tell yourself that she was just busy that day, and that you should ask again. But trust the people who know what they are talking about when I tell you that "I am busy that day" is the SAME EXACT THING as "I am not attracted to you, nor will I ever be, so stop asking me, you are creepy." The only reason she doesn't tell you the latter is that most women are nice and don't want you to hate them or think they are mean. If she is interested she will give you a yes.
I know I am being redundant, but I sort of feel like you aren't understanding the advice people are giving you and you are going to go with your heart instead because you feel like your situation is different, trust me, your situation is the same situation that most guys experience, especially if you have never had a girlfriend before. I'm just trying to help you so that you don't come off as the weird guy at work, because it feels like you are slipping into that, and you will most definitely become that if she turns you down and you can't get over it.
Good luck, and do what I told you. Ask her to see JP3d, and anything other than a yes means she is not interested and that you should 100% give up on her because it will never happen, and therefore you should try to find a different girl.Â
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I honestly feel a little creepy after all this. It's just hard having feelings for a girl and not being able to do much about it, especially at work when you see them often. I sometimes felt she may of been dropping some hints in the past, not exactly by what she said but how and when she said them. I mean, the fact that she was moved to give me a V card at least says she likes me as a friend, and if that's all I can get then I'll take it. It's okay to have friends that are girls, right? I'll eventually get over the crush.
No, it is not okay. You absolutely should not "take it." Now you are being ridiculous. You know that you would be her "friend" because you are still attracted to her and you would use this as an excuse to be near hear. It's not fair to you, because it will just prolong these feelings, and frankly, it's not fair to her! It's not fair that she thinks you want to be friends, when you are actually just trying anything you can to interact with her because you are attracted. Seriously, just stop this. If she rejects you, then that's it, get over it and move on. You can never ever be friends if you're attracted to her, the world does not work that way. This is not me being mean FYI, this is just somebody who knows what he is talking about, telling you how this stuff works.
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