A lot of bad advice on here from boys who cowl like whipped dogs. Sucking up to her demands is a great way to lose respect.
First of all, look at it this way. Your girlfriend wants to invite another guy to a party where she'll get drunk, right? Is that disrespectful, or what?
You can work this two ways:
1) Tell her to go ahead. Then later tell her that you're going to hang out with another girl. If she gets pissed, then call her on it.
But I really recommend:
2)
This is what you tell her: "Go ahead, but know that you won't have a boyfriend if you do. Good luck and call me when you change your mind... If I'm still around." Then hang up on her.
Don't argue it, but just tell her that if she does it, then you're finished with her and MEAN IT!! If she does, break up with her and don't take her back. If you take her back, then you're just basically telling her that it's okay to go out with guys and get drunk with them.
http://diont.blogspot.com/
Log in to comment