My GF and I got in a fight, is it my fault?

I'm going to try to make this really short. Basically, theres a party this friday that I don't want to go to, but I still have time to think about it. So she says i'm going to invite my friend. (which is also her friend but he's my best friend) So now i'm getting angry, like what the heck, if you invite him i'm definetly not going then. If I wanted him to go I would invite him. (And I was but only if I invited a bunch of friends, I don't want it to just be us three) So she is asking, why can't I invite him it's not like I'm going to hang out with him a lot? But I get jealous easily and she knows it. I just don't want him to go but she says i'm going to invite him. I don't want her to invite him but she doesn't care. And we got in a big arguement.

So I have the right to be mad, I told her I wouldn't go if she invited him, but she doesn't care she's still going to invite him. That really pisses me off and now we're not talking. What should I do apologize? Apologize for what? I can't even think of anything.

Yes.

It is your fault.

if you got into a fight with your GF, its always going to be your fault, regardless of who started it.ethanpaige

This.

Women > Men when it comes to relationships...

Why would you not want your so called "best friend" to go, if he really is your best friend?-Misanthropic-

Because I don't want it to be just me her and him. I either want it to be us two. Or I can bring a couple of friends that way we can hang out and she can hang with us or hang out with her own friends. As in, I bring some friends including him not just him. Because everytime we do something it's always us three, how can I be alone with her if she's there.

As to why I don't want to go to the party is beecause, I won't know anyone at all just her. I just don't want to go to a party and show up then have to wait for her.

Just go to the party and get hammeredRottenberry

There's not going to be any alcohol, not that I know of.gotdangit

if you got into a fight with your GF, its always going to be your fault, regardless of who started it.ethanpaige

[QUOTE="gotdangit"]There's not going to be any alcohol, not that I know of.andyboiii

[QUOTE="andyboiii"][QUOTE="gotdangit"]There's not going to be any alcohol, not that I know of.Luncbox1

A lot of bad advice on here from boys who cowl like whipped dogs. Sucking up to her demands is a great way to lose respect.

First of all, look at it this way. Your girlfriend wants to invite another guy to a party where she'll get drunk, right? Is that disrespectful, or what?

You can work this two ways:

1) Tell her to go ahead. Then later tell her that you're going to hang out with another girl. If she gets pissed, then call her on it.

But I really recommend:

2)

This is what you tell her: "Go ahead, but know that you won't have a boyfriend if you do. Good luck and call me when you change your mind... If I'm still around." Then hang up on her.

Don't argue it, but just tell her that if she does it, then you're finished with her and MEAN IT!! If she does, break up with her and don't take her back. If you take her back, then you're just basically telling her that it's okay to go out with guys and get drunk with them.

http://diont.blogspot.com/

Its a sweet 16 and she wants me to go, I don't want to because it's all her friends.gotdangit

I don't want to go, there more reasons, but I just don't fell like it as of now, I told her If I wanted to later then I would go.

But I already told her if she's inviting him, im not going.

I don't want to go, there more reasons, but I just don't fell like it as of now, I told her If I wanted to later then I would go.

But I already told her if she's inviting him, im not going.

gotdangit

That's her only punishment for disrespecting you? That you're not going? Expect more behavior like this from her in the future then!

http://diont.blogspot.com/

[QUOTE="gotdangit"]

I don't want to go, there more reasons, but I just don't fell like it as of now, I told her If I wanted to later then I would go.

But I already told her if she's inviting him, im not going.

DerekSagan

That's her only punishment for disrespecting you? That you're not going? Expect more behavior like this from her in the future then!

http://diont.blogspot.com/

if you got into a fight with your GF, its always going to be your fault, regardless of who started it.ethanpaige

[QUOTE="gotdangit"]Its a sweet 16 and she wants me to go, I don't want to because it's all her friends.foxhound_fox

I didn't read the story. Why? Because it's your fault. It's always going to be. It's always my fault as well. It is always the BF's fault.LikeHaterade

It's time you learned something. When you're wrong, you're wrong. When you're right, you're wrong. Welcome to the world of arguing with your female significant other!IamLegend316

I'm going to try to make this really short. Basically, theres a party this friday that I don't want to go to, but I still have time to think about it. So she says i'm going to invite my friend. (which is also her friend but he's my best friend) So now i'm getting angry, like what the heck, if you invite him i'm definetly not going then. If I wanted him to go I would invite him. (And I was but only if I invited a bunch of friends, I don't want it to just be us three) So she is asking, why can't I invite him it's not like I'm going to hang out with him a lot? But I get jealous easily and she knows it. I just don't want him to go but she says i'm going to invite him. I don't want her to invite him but she doesn't care. And we got in a big arguement.

So I have the right to be mad, I told her I wouldn't go if she invited him, but she doesn't care she's still going to invite him. That really pisses me off and now we're not talking. What should I do apologize? Apologize for what? I can't even think of anything.

gotdangit

**** that dude. If you don't want to invite him, then don't invite him. If your girlfriend doesn't like it, then that SHOULD be a "too bad for her" scenario.

I never demanded my girlfriends to bring along their hot female friends.

And really, it seems sort of suspicious that the only thing that your girlfriend is concerened about is that she is at the party with your best friend. It SOUNDS like she doesn't want to go out with YOU at all, but that she just wants to goout to the party with your male friend. I mean, if she's going to invite him anyway and go with him while you stay at home alone, that seems pretty weird.

Did you bother ASKING why she was so adamant about your best friend coming along?

Alternatively, did you give a REASON why you absolutely don't want your best friend to be there?

Because relationships are largely based on communication. And from my perspective, BOTH of you are acting sort of weird. I haven't seen any reason why you don't want your friend to be there, and I haven't seen any explanation for why she is demanding him to be there. I just see two people acting really weird over some **** that should be pretty trivial. So...please elaborate. I know that you tried to make this simple, but there's just not enough information here.

I'm going to try to make this really short. Basically, theres a party this friday that I don't want to go to, but I still have time to think about it. So she says i'm going to invite my friend. (which is also her friend but he's my best friend) So now i'm getting angry, like what the heck, if you invite him i'm definetly not going then. If I wanted him to go I would invite him. (And I was but only if I invited a bunch of friends, I don't want it to just be us three) So she is asking, why can't I invite him it's not like I'm going to hang out with him a lot? But I get jealous easily and she knows it. I just don't want him to go but she says i'm going to invite him. I don't want her to invite him but she doesn't care. And we got in a big arguement.

So I have the right to be mad, I told her I wouldn't go if she invited him, but she doesn't care she's still going to invite him. That really pisses me off and now we're not talking. What should I do apologize? Apologize for what? I can't even think of anything.

gotdangit

You need to sit down and have a talk with your gf.

She sounds extremely controlling.

Does she like flirt with your friend or something?

Because that's pretty effed up and I could understand why you'd get jealous.