[QUOTE="Sitri_"]Sex existed long before it had an option to be premarital. Just because the religious have highjacked the action doesn't make it worthy of a negative judgement.
Genetic_Code
This is an issue worth splitting a hair though. Religion has made people more civil and now it's evolved into common sense.
Has it now? I can list you many an uncivilised act done solely in the service of religion. This arresting of a persons basic needs as a tool of exploitation in their attempt to create a problem for you to have to come to them to solve is just one example.
[QUOTE="Sitri_"]
I would argue with your statement abstinence is the best for of birth control. Had you said most effective it would be more believable. I honestly can't imagine being a fulfilled individual without sex. It is human nature, every single one of your ancestors had this common bond, they all had sex and most likely enjoyed it.
Genetic_Code
It's not ethical though. Humans are more adapted than animals though and they have moral codes of conduct that can't be ignored for the simple sake of a one night stand.
Why is it not ethical? Because someone says it isn't? That doesn't sound like a very good reason to me. If I were to say eating lettuce was unethical, would you say "Humans are more adapted than animals though and they have moral codes of conduct that can't be ignored for the simple sake of eating a sandwich"? My moral code of conduct which is firmly in tack has nothing to do with non-harmful sex.
[QUOTE="7guns"]I'll give up now saying that life is really hard to live by rules all the time
and the one (No marriage!:D No sex!:x) you are talking about is very strict!
By the way, I'm guessing you don't like condoms very much! After all, beside other vital uses, it encourages sex before marriage... Am I right?
Genetic_Code
Correct, although it is preferable for someone to have protected sex, as opposed to marrying someone just for the sex, only to get a divorce later. They're both unethical.
On what grounds?
[QUOTE="felixlynch777"]There's nothing wrong with premarital sex at all. Your view is somewhat suprising GC, are you by any chance asexual?Genetic_Code
I've wrapped my mind around this a few times, and I have come to the conclusion that although men and women can be visually appalling, there is nothing about sex that is appealling to me at least.
There is a big difference between saying that you don't find sex arousing and that it is unethical. There are a great number of things that don't turn me on or may even repel me, but I don't place moral judgements on them for that reason.
[QUOTE="helium_flash"]Well, how did you develop these ideas that sex is wrong outside of reproduction?
Genetic_Code
If an individual doesn't want children, then they shouldn't have sex. I'm stealing this analogy from foxhound_fox, but it's like being worried about the parachute not ejecting while skydiving, which could simply be avoided by not skydiving.
And if you don't want to get in a car crash you shouldn't ride in a car, and if you don't want to get food poisoning you shouldn't eat food you haven't grown and prepared yourself, and if you don't want to fail you should never try...........some things in life are not only worth the risk, our basic quality of life requires it of us.
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