Why do so many people treat losing one's virginity as validation of existence?

Do you have to inject testosterone? Is that a medical condition?tenaka2

You can control your testosterone by what you eat and how you exercise. And by being fat or skinny.

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[QUOTE="tenaka2"]The part of the brain that controls your sex drive doesn't care about your desire to have children.

tenaka2

Yes it does. And technically it's my lack of desire to have children.

Think of it as the parts of your brain that control your automatic functions, you cannot control your sec drive in the same way that cannot control your heartbeat, pain response etc.

This guy is one of few people who get it.

Humans are animals, just like any other. Our biological and evolutionary needs are to kill and reproduce so that our species will reign supreme. The entire reason that we like sex in the first place is because it is vital to our growth as a species. Even though we may not want kids, we are driven by sex on a subconscious level that we're not entirely aware of.

Thats not the point he was making.

tenaka2

Then what was his point? That people have urges? That has nothing to do with importance.

This guy is one of few people who get it.

Humans are animals, just like any other. Our biological and evolutionary needs are to kill and reproduce so that our species will reign supreme. The entire reason that we like sex in the first place is because it is vital to our growth as a species. Even though we may not want kids, we are driven by sex on a subconscious level that we're not entirely aware of.

applesxc47

I'm not denying that, but this has very little to do with the first post in this thread. It's simply off-topic.

It might not be entirely off-topic but it's not a direct link either.

[QUOTE="tenaka2"]Do you have to inject testosterone? Is that a medical condition?Pffrbt

You can control your testosterone by what you eat and how you exercise. And by being fat or skinny.

if you are going to those sort of lenghts to reduce your sex drive then I suggest you have issues. If you feel that strongly about the issue then I'd think about getting yourself neutered.

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[QUOTE="tenaka2"]Do you have to inject testosterone? Is that a medical condition?tenaka2

You can control your testosterone by what you eat and how you exercise. And by being fat or skinny.

if you are going to those sort of lenghts to reduce your sex drive then I suggest you have issues. If you feel that strongly about the issue then I'd think about getting yourself neutered.

I'm not trying to reduce my sex drive. I'm just saying.

There is a fine line between thinking that something is important because you truly believe so, and thinking that something is important because of a certain urge you feel. It's just not the same for everyone. Some people put sex as their top priority and brag about it, others simply don't.

There is a fine line between thinking that something is important because you truly believe so, and thinking that something is important because of a certain urge you feel. It's just not the same for everyone. Some people put sex as their top priority and brag about it, others simply don't.

bloodling

Plus, real beauty is on the inside.

Plus, real beauty is on the inside.

tenaka2

Love is more important than sex to me. Sex is just pleasure. Love is much more than that.

Wow that is a strong way of stating the act of losing one's virginity. In fact I don't think I've ever heard of it being described in those terms until just now. That being said, have you ever had sex TC? It's pretty awesome stuff.

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It's kind of pathetic to think that. Because of this we get terrible movies like Superbad.

tenaka2

Are you a virgin?

Wow that is a strong way of stating the act of losing one's virginity. In fact I don't think I've ever heard of it being described in those terms until just now. That being said, have you ever had sex TC? It's pretty awesome stuff.

Serraph105

Thank you.

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You can control your testosterone by what you eat and how you exercise. And by being fat or skinny.

Pffrbt

if you are going to those sort of lenghts to reduce your sex drive then I suggest you have issues. If you feel that strongly about the issue then I'd think about getting yourself neutered.

I'm not trying to reduce my sex drive. I'm just saying.

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True, but there are parts of your brain that you do not control, your biological needs will drive you whether you want them to or not.

bloodling

That's true enough. Some people have that kind of urge more than others, though, and others are attracted to their own gender.

Some people just love trying to convince themselves that they're better than others just because they had sex. It raises their self-esteem when they try to bring down others. It's pathetic but that's how it is.

bloodling

It's kind of pathetic to think that. Because of this we get terrible movies like Superbad.

Pffrbt

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True, but there are parts of your brain that you do not control, your biological needs will drive you whether you want them to or not.

Novotine

That's true enough. Some people have that kind of urge more than others, though, and others are attracted to their own gender.

I have no idea what made you say this, but you sound like a pathetic troll.

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That's true enough. Some people have that kind of urge more than others, though, and others are attracted to their own gender.

bloodling

I have no idea what made you say this, but you sound like a pathetic troll.

and you just sound plain pathetic Novotine

Saying that I agree with something makes me pathetic? Okay...

"humans need food to survive". "ah yes true, but some humans need more food. and some humans like different kinds of food" Novotine

His statement was just as obvious as mine, yet you only have a problem with mine? It was indeed a very obvious statement, and it was really not necessary of me to type that, but I just wanted to complete his thought. Why would you insult people just because they say something obvious? That's really uncalled for.

his comment, albeit obvious, was relevant to progressing the discussion/debate. yours was unneeded and made you sound like an 12 year old schoolgirl talking to their teacher about human sexuality. i insult because I care.Novotine

If you actually read any of my previous posts, you would know that I was discussing the fact that some people give more or less importance to sex, and my statement, even though obvious, was in fact supporting my previous argument. Some people actually said that sex is the most important thing in everyone's life, so if I were you, I would be more shocked about statements that are obviously wrong rather than statements that are obviously right. And I don't care if you think my comment was unneeded.

People like to judge and bring others down is why.

Sometimes I feel rather alienated on GameSpot with the amount of people with issues are on here.

When you get older, you'll see that sex isn't even a big deal to anyone anymore.

Because we're a very sexual species.l4dak47

Are you a teenager or hanging out with people in their early 20s?

Because that's how biological success is determined.

It doesn't make anyone less of a person, and honestly the first time isn't that great unless you're with someone special. It takes experience to get good. Though I don't think it's right to stay a virgin your whole life, you are missing out on one of God's great gifts if you do that.

As for the media, those movies are targeted towards kids, kids like to rebel against what their parents teach. I think if parents were more honest about sex and didn't hold it as a taboo subject, more kids wouldn't feel the need to rebel and do it.

Plus, real beauty is on the inside.tenaka2

That's a myth. Beauty is not really on the inside. That's what ugly people tell themselves in order to feel better.

It's kind of pathetic to think that. Because of this we get terrible movies like Superbad.

Pffrbt

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There is a fine line between thinking that something is important because you truly believe so, and thinking that something is important because of a certain urge you feel. It's just not the same for everyone. Some people put sex as their top priority and brag about it, others simply don't.

tenaka2

Plus, real beauty is on the inside.

Just a different sense of values.

No idea.

You know what amazes me? That some women aren't virgins. How the hell do these ugly-fat-hoes get pregnant at 18,19?Fightingfan

[QUOTE="tenaka2"]Plus, real beauty is on the inside.pariah3

That's a myth. Beauty is not really on the inside. That's what ugly people tell themselves in order to feel better.

Kind of terrible, but I laughed.

You know what amazes me? That some women aren't virgins. How the hell do these ugly-fat-hoes get pregnant at 18,19?Fightingfan

Yeah, I know what you mean. I guess a lot of guys are of the opinion that 'a hole's a hole'. They don't really care about the thing that it's attached to :P

I wonder why some people get so aggressive and elitist when you bring up the subject of virginity. Are they insecure?

I wonder why some people get so aggressive and elitist when you bring up the subject of virginity. Are they insecure?

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