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[QUOTE="needled24-7"]i think it probably goes both ways. true that. You guys are at an impass. As for us black males, hey, we don't discriminate. Black, White, Spanish, Puerto Rican, we don't give a damn!Spanish people are white, dude.[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"] You've got it twisted, most black girls don't find white guys attractive lol.II_Seraphim_II
EDIT: Lots of Puerto Ricans have Spanish ancestry, too.
One thing that is probably a contributing factor, as obesity tends to be more accepted in males than it it in females:
Obesity by Race/Ethnicity 2006-2008
New Obesity Data Shows Blacks Have the Highest Rates of Obesity
"Blacks had 51 percent higher prevalence of obesity, and Hispanics had 21 percent higher obesity prevalence compared with whites..."
Honestly, this is the first time I have ever heard or read such a thing. Demystify it for me - why is it considered taboo?If you were to ask a white male if he would go out with a black women he would say it's taboo.
muffincakes87
[QUOTE="mrbojangles25"][QUOTE="needled24-7"]
cause most white guys don't find many black girls attractive.
MaddenBowler10
speak for yourself, man, 9/10 of my celebrity crushes are 50% or more black. I find black women in general very attractive as well
and you speak for yourself as well, cuz i guarantee you the majority of white male will not find black females attractive. nice try tho Nice try? Majority of white males? Are you speaking for white men of the entire earth now, and that's a guarantee? Wow.true that. You guys are at an impass. As for us black males, hey, we don't discriminate. Black, White, Spanish, Puerto Rican, we don't give a damn!Spanish people are white, dude.[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"][QUOTE="needled24-7"]i think it probably goes both ways.
gamerguru100
EDIT: Lots of Puerto Ricans have Spanish ancestry, too.
Not all Spanish people are white, some are mixed blood and I was talking more about diverse cultures, rather than race. Also, having spanish ancestry doesn't make you the same. Everyone on the planet has African ancestry, but is everyone African? Also, they are lyrics from a song...can't remember the name though :(That doesn't even make sense. If the woman is with someone outside of their "race" then so is the man that she is with...[QUOTE="SpaceMoose"][QUOTE="muffincakes87"]
Women are more open about dating any race outside their own then men.
muffincakes87
What I was trying to say is that is doesn't phase women as much as it does men.
If you were to ask a white male if he would go out with a black women he would say it's taboo. If you asked a white female about it she would be more open about it.
You are only looking at it from the perspective of the white people though.What you said is this: Women are more open about dating any race outside their own than men.
That is not the same thing as: White women are more open about dating any race outside their own than white men.
For every white woman that is with a black man, obviously there is a black man with a white woman. For every woman that is with someone of another race, there is also a man with someone of another race. Essentially you seem to have only looked at it from the perspective of the white people involved...
Honestly, this is the first time I have ever heard or read such a thing. Demystify it for me - why is it considered taboo? yeah...first for me too :P[QUOTE="muffincakes87"]
If you were to ask a white male if he would go out with a black women he would say it's taboo.
entropyecho
[QUOTE="gamerguru100"]Spanish people are white, dude.[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"] true that. You guys are at an impass. As for us black males, hey, we don't discriminate. Black, White, Spanish, Puerto Rican, we don't give a damn!II_Seraphim_II
EDIT: Lots of Puerto Ricans have Spanish ancestry, too.
Not all Spanish people are white, and I was talking more abou diverse cultures, rather than race.What are these so-called non-white Spanish people you speak of? Spanish people are indigenous to Spain. Spain is in Europe. Europeans are white. Therefore Spanish people are white. Sure, many have tan or brown skin, but that doesn't mean that they're not white.Honestly, this is the first time I have ever heard or read such a thing. Demystify it for me - why is it considered taboo?[QUOTE="muffincakes87"]
If you were to ask a white male if he would go out with a black women he would say it's taboo.
entropyecho
Let's be honest here, from my experice from white males, the majority of them don't find the average black women attractive. Yeah they can say, "Oh Beyonce is fine," but for the most part, it's most likely a white male will never date a black female in their lifetime.
If a white male dates a black female then good for them. There will be people out there who might not be against it, but they will look at them and think, "Don't see that everyday."
I'm mostly curious about it.:P gamerguru100I doubt you're going to find the true answer on forum boards of a website dedicated to video games. :P If you want to do something about it, go find yourself an attractive and smart black woman and change that ratio up a bit. :lol:
[QUOTE="gamerguru100"]I'm mostly curious about it.:P worthyofnoteI doubt you're going to find the true answer on forum boards of a website dedicated to video games. :P If you want to do something about it, go find yourself an attractive and smart black woman and change that ratio up a bit. :lol:Er...well...I'm 17....and I haven't had a girlfriend yet! :cry: I probably couldn't keep one for even a day. :cry: :(
[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"][QUOTE="gamerguru100"]Spanish people are white, dude.Not all Spanish people are white, and I was talking more abou diverse cultures, rather than race.What are these so-called non-white Spanish people you speak of? Spanish people are indigenous to Spain. Spain is in Europe. Europeans are white. Therefore Spanish people are white. Sure, many have tan or brown skin, but that doesn't mean that they're not white. Its a good thing we have something called planes and ships and immigration. Americans are decendants of the British, does that mean all Americans are white? Of course not, there are black americans, white americans, asian americans, mixed race americans, etc... Same applies with spain. Remember, being a citizen of spain MAKES YOU SPANISH.EDIT: Lots of Puerto Ricans have Spanish ancestry, too.
gamerguru100
[QUOTE="worthyofnote"][QUOTE="gamerguru100"]I'm mostly curious about it.:P gamerguru100I doubt you're going to find the true answer on forum boards of a website dedicated to video games. :P If you want to do something about it, go find yourself an attractive and smart black woman and change that ratio up a bit. :lol:Er...well...I'm 17....and I haven't had a girlfriend yet! :cry: I probably couldn't keep one for even a day. :cry: :( I see. Don't feel bad. I can't seem to keep them for over a few weeks to a few months.
What are these so-called non-white Spanish people you speak of? Spanish people are indigenous to Spain. Spain is in Europe. Europeans are white. Therefore Spanish people are white. Sure, many have tan or brown skin, but that doesn't mean that they're not white. Its a good thing we have something called planes and ships and immigration. Americans are decendants of the British, does that mean all Americans are white? Of course not, there are black americans, white americans, asian americans, mixed race americans, etc... Same applies with spain. Remember, being a citizen of spain MAKES YOU SPANISH.Hold up, man. Not ALL Americans are descended from the British. African Americans are descended from slaves. French Americans, for example, are descendants of French immigrants to the U.S. The same goes for many German Americans, Italian Americans, Irish Americans, etc. Asian Americans aren't descended from the British. The British are European, not Asian. You are correct about being about being a citizen of Spain making you Spanish though. I was referring to the ethnic Spaniards, not non-ethnic Spanish immigrants to Spain.[QUOTE="gamerguru100"][QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"] Not all Spanish people are white, and I was talking more abou diverse cultures, rather than race.II_Seraphim_II
[QUOTE="muffincakes87"]
[QUOTE="SpaceMoose"] That doesn't even make sense. If the woman is with someone outside of their "race" then so is the man that she is with...SpaceMoose
What I was trying to say is that is doesn't phase women as much as it does men.
If you were to ask a white male if he would go out with a black women he would say it's taboo. If you asked a white female about it she would be more open about it.
You are only looking at it from the perspective of the white people though.What you said is this: Women are more open about dating any race outside their own than men.
That is not the same thing as: White women are more open about dating any race outside their own than white men.
For every white woman that is with a black man, obviously there is a black man with a white woman. For every woman that is with someone of another race, there is also a man with someone of another race. Essentially you seem to have only looked at it from the perspective of the white people involved...
White women are more open about dating any race outside their own than white men. I know that for every white female dating a black male, there is a black male dating a white female. The point is that women are not as phased about looks then it is with men.
Honestly, this is the first time I have ever heard or read such a thing. Demystify it for me - why is it considered taboo?[QUOTE="entropyecho"]
[QUOTE="muffincakes87"]
If you were to ask a white male if he would go out with a black women he would say it's taboo.
muffincakes87
Let's be honest here, from my experice from white males, the majority of them don't find the average black women attractive. Yeah they can say, "Oh Beyonce is fine," but the for the most part, it's most likely a while male will never date a black female in their lifetime.
If a white male dates a black female then good for them. There will be people out there who might not be against it, but they will look at them and think, "Don't see that everyday."
Is "taboo" really the word you want to use though? The word seems way too strong.[QUOTE="muffincakes87"]
[QUOTE="entropyecho"]Honestly, this is the first time I have ever heard or read such a thing. Demystify it for me - why is it considered taboo?
entropyecho
Let's be honest here, from my experice from white males, the majority of them don't find the average black women attractive. Yeah they can say, "Oh Beyonce is fine," but the for the most part, it's most likely a while male will never date a black female in their lifetime.
If a white male dates a black female then good for them. There will be people out there who might not be against it, but they will look at them and think, "Don't see that everyday."
Is "taboo" really the word you want to use though? The word seems way too strong.Quoted for truth.I'm going to need a citation on that oneWhy are black male/white female relationships so much more common than white male/black female ones? At my high school, it's like every other black guy is with a white girl, yet I very rarely see a white guy with a black girl. It's pretty much the same in the whole country (United States).
What gives?
gamerguru100
My dad's black and my mom's white. I guess they would be part of the popular category.Why are black male/white female relationships so much more common than white male/black female ones? At my high school, it's like every other black guy is with a white girl, yet I very rarely see a white guy with a black girl. It's pretty much the same in the whole country (United States).
What gives?
gamerguru100
[QUOTE="gamerguru100"]I'm going to need a citation on that oneGo to Page 2. 73% of white/black relationships are between a black male and a white female.Why are black male/white female relationships so much more common than white male/black female ones? At my high school, it's like every other black guy is with a white girl, yet I very rarely see a white guy with a black girl. It's pretty much the same in the whole country (United States).
What gives?
xaos
Its a good thing we have something called planes and ships and immigration. Americans are decendants of the British, does that mean all Americans are white? Of course not, there are black americans, white americans, asian americans, mixed race americans, etc... Same applies with spain. Remember, being a citizen of spain MAKES YOU SPANISH.Hold up, man. Not ALL Americans are descended from the British. African Americans are descended from slaves. French Americans, for example, are descendants of French immigrants to the U.S. The same goes for many German Americans, Italian Americans, Irish Americans, etc. Asian Americans aren't descended from the British. The British are European, not Asian. You are correct about being about being a citizen of Spain making you Spanish though. I was referring to the ethnic Spaniards, not non-ethnic Spanish immigrants to Spain. Ah ok. i was just saying cultures because for most people, excluding racist people, what keeps us away from attractive members of different races, or places is culture. We want to be with someone we can relate to. For instance Betty White, nice young caucasian girl from Texas, would probably have nothing in common with Tyrone Black, hip-hop loving, break dancing black male from NY :P[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"]
[QUOTE="gamerguru100"]What are these so-called non-white Spanish people you speak of? Spanish people are indigenous to Spain. Spain is in Europe. Europeans are white. Therefore Spanish people are white. Sure, many have tan or brown skin, but that doesn't mean that they're not white.gamerguru100
You are only looking at it from the perspective of the white people though.[QUOTE="SpaceMoose"]
[QUOTE="muffincakes87"]
What I was trying to say is that is doesn't phase women as much as it does men.
If you were to ask a white male if he would go out with a black women he would say it's taboo. If you asked a white female about it she would be more open about it.
muffincakes87
What you said is this: Women are more open about dating any race outside their own than men.
That is not the same thing as: White women are more open about dating any race outside their own than white men.
For every white woman that is with a black man, obviously there is a black man with a white woman. For every woman that is with someone of another race, there is also a man with someone of another race. Essentially you seem to have only looked at it from the perspective of the white people involved...
White women are more open about dating any race outside their own than white men. I know that for every white female dating a black male, there is a black male dating a white female. The point is that women are not as phased about looks then it is with men.
So the implication then was meant to be that white women are on average better looking, as black men are more willing to date white women than white men are to date black women? Or are you saying that black men are on average more open about the entire concept of dating outside their race than white men are?[QUOTE="needled24-7"]i think it probably goes both ways. true that. You guys are at an impass. As for us black males, hey, we don't discriminate. Black, White, Spanish, Puerto Rican, we don't give a damn! QFT! you speak truth, I have dated every single race out there except white girls.....I should look into that :shock:[QUOTE="II_Seraphim_II"] You've got it twisted, most black girls don't find white guys attractive lol.II_Seraphim_II
I must agree. I live in NY and have many friends of all races. Im black. Generally, black women tend to be more aggressive. Im not one of these overly macho guys and black girls tend not to find me masculine enough for their tastes. On the other had white females find me very exciting and masculine. It sucks cause I would like all woman to like me but hey I gotta take want i can get.I don't intend this post to be racist, but I think the honest reason you see that is due to the fact that blacks as a whole tend to be very masculine in both physique and mindset. This works well for the men since most women find masculine guys attractive, but it's counterproductive for black women since men tend to like feminine women. Since white girls tend to be more feminine in both body build and personality than black girls, guys tend to prefer white girls over black ones.
I think this is also why you see the opposite effect with Asians. Asians are the most feminine race, which is why Asian females tend to be considered the most attractive by guys whereas Asian men aren't nearly as popular with women as white men or black men.
Again, I'm not trying to be racist here, I'm just stating what I honestly think is the reason between the interracial relationship gap between genders of each race.
gameguy6700
I think what is even more interesting about that chart is that the same race is not the highest rate in any row or column except for one, and that is Indian - Female.This reminds me of that study someone did on online dating sites last year.
Black girls are ignored, Middle Eastern girls are apparently fetish-ized. Kind of interesting.
Bio_Spark
Dude it's the other way around... Do you consider mexicans white?nah, i consider them mexican[QUOTE="yonaswii08"][QUOTE="needled24-7"]
cause most white guys don't find many black girls attractive.
needled24-7
mexicans are hispanic, not white.
....but I don't get that guys' "other way around" thing. Don't know what he means.
How do you know it's the same all over the US?[QUOTE="gamerguru100"]
At my high school, it's like every other black guy is with a white girl, yet I very rarely see a white guy with a black girl. It's pretty much the same in the whole country (United States).
What gives?
entropyecho
Most white gals are with white guys in the US BY FAR, guarantee that.
[QUOTE="needled24-7"]You've got it twisted, most black girls don't find white guys attractive lol.cause most white guys don't find many black girls attractive.
II_Seraphim_II
Nah, black women would go out with good-looking white guys if the guys actually showed interest.
But lets face it, white guys hold most of their interest on white, hispanic, and asian women.
Honestly, this is the first time I have ever heard or read such a thing. Demystify it for me - why is it considered taboo?[QUOTE="entropyecho"]
[QUOTE="muffincakes87"]
If you were to ask a white male if he would go out with a black women he would say it's taboo.
muffincakes87
Let's be honest here, from my experice from white males, the majority of them don't find the average black women attractive. Yeah they can say, "Oh Beyonce is fine," but for the most part, it's most likely a white male will never date a black female in their lifetime.
If a white male dates a black female then good for them. There will be people out there who might not be against it, but they will look at them and think, "Don't see that everyday."
Honestly, at my part-time job at Wegman's on the East Coast, I must say I see as many white male/black female relationships as the reverse. In fact, hot young black gal that works in my dept. there just had a kid with a white guy recently, though apparently he fled the relationship, a shame.
Still, I think in general white guys don't see anything much attractive in most black gals. I've had a chance to date several black gals myself, I just wasn't that interested.
[QUOTE="shimmyshnardd"]As wrong as this sounds, I might just have to agree.black girls are ugly. black guys have big dongs. the end.
supa_badman
not all black girls are ugly, as far as "dongs", that depends, plenty of white guys with bigger dongs than black guys I'm sure.
But black guys like to perpetuate that anyways.
I actually read somewhere that like 10 percent more black guys date outside their race than black females. I really think it has to do with a feeling of loyalty the females have towards there culture.
[QUOTE="needled24-7"]He has answered it for you. :P It's also more common to see an asian female with a white male than it is vice versa. It's the chemistry in it, I suppose. Pretty much.cause most white guys don't find many black girls attractive.
XtianRN
[QUOTE="needled24-7"]
cause most white guys don't find many black girls attractive.
mrbojangles25
speak for yourself, man, 9/10 of my celebrity crushes are 50% or more black. I find black women in general very attractive as well
That's the thing, the attractive ones are celebrities... a majority of them anyways.Please Log In to post.
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