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#1 branketra
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Have you ever been nice to people and they repeatedly act like jerks towards you? If so, what did you do in response?

Personally, I usually remain polite towards them but there are times when I no longer see reason to and respond in kind. Although, that's just for extreme situations.

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#2 THE_DRUGGIE
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I don't like this thread or anyone in it.

HOW DO YOU DEAL WITH ME NOW

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#3 almasdeathchild
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i used to be a pushover with people like that my whole life and now im a prick and shun most of humanity

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#4 branketra
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i used to be a pushover with people like that my whole life and now im a prick and shun most of humanity

almasdeathchild
Maybe I should clarify. I'm not nice to that point, just polite. There's a difference between the two.
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#5 dave123321
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I don't know.
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#6 almasdeathchild
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[QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]

i used to be a pushover with people like that my whole life and now im a prick and shun most of humanity

BranKetra

Maybe I should clarify. I'm not nice to that point, just polite. There's a difference between the two.

yea work places force you to do that. and in public? sure why not be polite and patient not like you will see them again

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Have you ever been nice to people and they repeatedly act like jerks towards you? BranKetra

Like who?

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#8 dave123321
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"]

Have you ever been nice to people and they repeatedly act like jerks towards you? UltraZero

Like who?

This one classmate in like 5th 6th grade really hated me. Though he hated everyone I guess. He also seemed to have some issues.
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#9 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]

i used to be a pushover with people like that my whole life and now im a prick and shun most of humanity

almasdeathchild

Maybe I should clarify. I'm not nice to that point, just polite. There's a difference between the two.

yea work places force you to do that. and in public? sure why not be polite and patient not like you will see them again

True, but some people are rude to total strangers.
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#10 almasdeathchild
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[QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]

[QUOTE="BranKetra"] Maybe I should clarify. I'm not nice to that point, just polite. There's a difference between the two.BranKetra

yea work places force you to do that. and in public? sure why not be polite and patient not like you will see them again

True, but some people are rude to total strangers.

yea i know some people are just totals douche canoes for no apparent reason

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#11 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"]

Have you ever been nice to people and they repeatedly act like jerks towards you? UltraZero

Like who?

Don't ask me.
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#12 dave123321
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Here, can't think of anyone.
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#13 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]yea work places force you to do that. and in public? sure why not be polite and patient not like you will see them again

almasdeathchild

True, but some people are rude to total strangers.

yea i know some people are just totals douche canoes for no apparent reason

So what's stopping everyone from doing that?
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#14 chessmaster1989
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Actually have that problem with someone right now. For a while I was just polite, but I'm steadily moving towards just ignoring her.
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#15 almasdeathchild
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[QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]

[QUOTE="BranKetra"] True, but some people are rude to total strangers. BranKetra

yea i know some people are just totals douche canoes for no apparent reason

So what's stopping everyone from doing that?

i guess life experiences change people.

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#16 dave123321
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]yea i know some people are just totals douche canoes for no apparent reason

almasdeathchild

So what's stopping everyone from doing that?

i guess life experiences change people.

mhm
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#17 branketra
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Here, can't think of anyone.dave123321
It can be from anywhere.
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#18 branketra
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Actually have that problem with someone right now. For a while I was just polite, but I'm steadily moving towards just ignoring her.chessmaster1989
Is there any reason why she would act that way?
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#19 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]yea i know some people are just totals douche canoes for no apparent reason

almasdeathchild

So what's stopping everyone from doing that?

i guess life experiences change people.

Actually, psychologists say some people are like that at birth.
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#20 almasdeathchild
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[QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]

[QUOTE="BranKetra"] So what's stopping everyone from doing that?BranKetra

i guess life experiences change people.

Actually, psychologists say some people are like that at birth.

some people are born with issues i wont lie but some people can be born a really nice and caring persona and cause of life experiences they change.

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#21 dave123321
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[QUOTE="dave123321"]Here, can't think of anyone.BranKetra
It can be from anywhere.

I am usually just polite with them. Though just avoid them if I can.
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#22 chessmaster1989
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[QUOTE="chessmaster1989"]Actually have that problem with someone right now. For a while I was just polite, but I'm steadily moving towards just ignoring her.BranKetra
Is there any reason why she would act that way?

Don't think so. I was actually friends with her for about a year and a half but for the last 3 months she's just been very unpleasant to be around.

But, I'm graduating college in a month and moving to start a job, so I'll hopefully never have to deal with her again after that.

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#23 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]i guess life experiences change people.

almasdeathchild

Actually, psychologists say some people are like that at birth.

some people are born with issues i wont lie but some people can be born a really nice and caring persona and cause of life experiences they change.

You might be right about that. It seems like social darwinism to be honest.
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#24 almasdeathchild
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[QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]

[QUOTE="BranKetra"] Actually, psychologists say some people are like that at birth.BranKetra

some people are born with issues i wont lie but some people can be born a really nice and caring persona and cause of life experiences they change.

You might be right about that. It seems like social darwinism to be honest.

indeed,i know from first hand experience

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#25 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="dave123321"]Here, can't think of anyone.dave123321
It can be from anywhere.

I am usually just polite with them. Though just avoid them if I can.

I would prefer the latter if possible, but this thread is mainly about times when you don't have that option.
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#26 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="chessmaster1989"]Actually have that problem with someone right now. For a while I was just polite, but I'm steadily moving towards just ignoring her.chessmaster1989

Is there any reason why she would act that way?

Don't think so. I was actually friends with her for about a year and a half but for the last 3 months she's just been very unpleasant to be around.

But, I'm graduating college in a month and moving to start a job, so I'll hopefully never have to deal with her again after that.

That's sad to hear. I'm not really sure how to respond.
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#27 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]some people are born with issues i wont lie but some people can be born a really nice and caring persona and cause of life experiences they change.

almasdeathchild

You might be right about that. It seems like social darwinism to be honest.

indeed,i know from first hand experience

What do you mean?
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#28 almasdeathchild
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[QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]

[QUOTE="BranKetra"] You might be right about that. It seems like social darwinism to be honest.BranKetra

indeed,i know from first hand experience

What do you mean?

seeing a person change(or evolve) for the better or for worse. it can be happy or sad but makes life interesting

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#29 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]indeed,i know from first hand experience

almasdeathchild

What do you mean?

seeing a person change(or evolve) for the better or for worse. it can be happy or sad but makes life interesting

Indeed.
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#30 indzman
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To meanies

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#31 branketra
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lol
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#32 FMAB_GTO
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No,when I'm nice and they act like jerks,I ignore them and wish them a nice day.
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#33 cheese_game619
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Have you ever been nice to people and they repeatedly act like jerks towards you? If so, what did you do in response?

Personally, I usually remain polite towards them but there are times when I no longer see reason to and respond in kind. Although, that's just for extreme situations.

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#34 branketra
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No,when I'm nice and they act like jerks,I ignore them and wish them a nice day.FMAB_GTO
What if you can't ignore them?
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#35 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"]

Have you ever been nice to people and they repeatedly act like jerks towards you? If so, what did you do in response?

Personally, I usually remain polite towards them but there are times when I no longer see reason to and respond in kind. Although, that's just for extreme situations.

cheese_game619

dat beta

Are you equating kindness with weakness? That would be wrong.

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#36 FMAB_GTO
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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]No,when I'm nice and they act like jerks,I ignore them and wish them a nice day.BranKetra
What if you can't ignore them?

how so?
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#37 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"]No,when I'm nice and they act like jerks,I ignore them and wish them a nice day.FMAB_GTO
What if you can't ignore them?

how so?

Well for example, what if you had interact with them on a daily basis in order to reach a goal of yours?
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[QUOTE="cheese_game619"][QUOTE="BranKetra"]

Have you ever been nice to people and they repeatedly act like jerks towards you? If so, what did you do in response?

Personally, I usually remain polite towards them but there are times when I no longer see reason to and respond in kind. Although, that's just for extreme situations.

BranKetra

dat beta

Are you equating kindness with weakness? That would be wrong.

>Have you ever been nice to people and they repeatedly act like jerks towards you? >Personally, I usually remain polite towards them dat is beta my fren
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#39 FMAB_GTO
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="BranKetra"] What if you can't ignore them?

how so?

Well for example, what if you had interact with them on a daily basis in order to reach a goal of yours?

By ignore them I meant ignoring them being jerks,as for my business with them,that stays normal.
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#40 branketra
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"]

[QUOTE="cheese_game619"]dat betacheese_game619

Are you equating kindness with weakness? That would be wrong.

>Have you ever been nice to people and they repeatedly act like jerks towards you? >Personally, I usually remain polite towards them dat is beta my fren

I suppose it depends on the group of people one has in mind.
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#41 branketra
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[QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"][QUOTE="BranKetra"][QUOTE="FMAB_GTO"] how so?

Well for example, what if you had interact with them on a daily basis in order to reach a goal of yours?

By ignore them I meant ignoring them being jerks,as for my business with them,that stays normal.

Interesting.
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#42 PiscesChick93
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I just don't bother talking to them

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Yes, and when I meet people that are like that I tend to harass them because I know what they don't like, more of me.:P
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#44 OmegaAxl
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I am not nice towards others.
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[QUOTE="BranKetra"]

Have you ever been nice to people and they repeatedly act like jerks towards you? If so, what did you do in response?

Personally, I usually remain polite towards them but there are times when I no longer see reason to and respond in kind. Although, that's just for extreme situations.

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dat beta

lol
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honestly, i stop being nice and just ignore them or be cold.
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GS: Helping aspies handle human interaction since 1999.

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Normally I just get someone close to them pregnant.

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i catch an instant attitude but i then i retract. because its either you look down on them and forget what little things they said or you get ignorant forget all rules and act like the worse jerk a person can become. I can't remember specifically if i ever been nice to someone and they kept being mean to me. that type of scenerio seems like its missing points. like what if your annoying that person so they are treating you mean
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GS: Helping aspies handle human interaction since 1999.

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You think people here have asperger's syndrome?