Is it alright for a 19 year old guy to date a 15 year old girl?

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#1 Mario2007
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Me and my friends are having a debate about this and I wanted to know what you guys thought.

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#2 WeaponXY
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Why are you asking this? :?

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#3 Espada12
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Not really. Conflicts of interest and legal issues may occur!

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#4 metallica_fan42
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There is no way in hell that a 19 year old should be dating a 15 year old. Both must have some serious issues for that to occur. People may disagree, but that's how I feel.
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#5 kingdre
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I feel bad for the guy who can't find a girl his age. :?

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#6 spawnassasin
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remember 15 will get ya 25;)

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#7 Mario2007
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Why are you asking this? :?

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It's my friend
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#8 Kikouken
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If that's alright? NO
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#9 THE_BRUTALIZER
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Me and my friends are having a debate about this and I wanted to know what you guys thought.

Mario2007
19 year would be known as a creep, weirdo freak pedophile. However, if the 19 year old was the girl, the 15 yr old guy would be popular, his friends would wonder forever how he managed to strike such a mature girl.
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#10 mixmax5
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That's taking things too far.

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#11 Lebbin
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Too many things may go wrong...

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#12 Nifty_Shark
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Nope.

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#13 carrot-cake
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Well too many things can go wrong and you need to be at least 16 where I live.

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#14 Epak_
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Nuh-uh :|

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#15 phillo99
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Judging by today's standards of dating, it will most certainly end up with jail time.

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#16 Deathxcore
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Bad bad bad bad bad idea.
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#17 Vaasman
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Nonononono not even close. If I found out my 15 year old sister were dating a 19 year old, I'd probably kill him right then and there.

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#18 th3warr1or
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No, definitely not imo.
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#19 effena
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I see nothing wrong with that.

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#20 tekken220
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Date her when shes 20

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#21 freek666
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19/2+7=16.5

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#22 Thessassin
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I feel bad for the guy who can't find a girl his age. :?

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you must REALLY pity Hugh Hefner. but heres my general age, if ur over 18 and she isnt its called statutory rape no matter if she wants oit or not, so find a new girl or wait a few years if you're that desperate.

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#23 SpidersRMe
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I wouldn't be offended by it. It doesn't seem to me that a 19 year-old is going to do anything awful that a 15 year-old couldn't.

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#24 K1LLR3175
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Well if you just date it is fine....I guess, but if you have sex, well that is another thing depending on the age of consent in states. But either way you might want to find a girl that is your age to avoid any problems.
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#25 MarkyyR
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That makes me sick! Tell your friend go get someone his own age.
If they have sex call the police and get him thrown in jail that way he will learn his lesson

F'n Pedo.

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#26 Duckman5
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No. Even if you don't do anything you could still get in a ton of trouble if she decides to lie and say you had sex with her. Not worth the risk.
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#27 Razor-Lazor
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Don't do it.

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#28 neogeo419
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Well my buddy is 26 and his gf is 21. There is no way in hell he would have gone out with her at 19 and 14. We used to make fun of those guys. Having a daughter 19 and 15 would bother the hell out of me, but like my friend at 26 and 21 not at all.

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#29 black_cat19
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I see nothing wrong with that.

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Me neither.

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#30 best-gam3r
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Its a trap!
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#31 JustPlainLucas
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Well, assuming they can wait three years to have sex, I'd say it's ok. Who knows, they could have known each other for 10 years. But the problem is, so many youth these days can't control themselves, so I can't see it being a good idea.
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#32 Montaya
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Absolutely not. But in 3 years she would be 18 and the guy would be 22 and that isnt so bad really, this age match is much more common and acceptible.

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#33 Mario2007
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That makes me sick! Tell your friend go get someone his own age.
If they have sex call the police and get him thrown in jail that way he will learn his lesson

F'n Pedo.

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The girl is my friend actually.

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#34 RJay123
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Laws aside...

If you're doing it for the right reasons, because you really truly honestly want a relationship with the girl, then I say it's okay.

If you're doing it because she's hot, I don't think it's okay.


Too many people will tell you not to date her because you'll go to jail (which is a terrible law in my opinion....if you like this girl nothing will stop you from liking her).

If you both care about each other and really want to start something special, I don't see why any of you would go to jail. Just promise each other not to tell anyone.

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#35 II_Seraphim_II
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sure, if you're a pedo (ephebophile if you want to be pedantic about it.)
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#36 PopularByDemand
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[QUOTE="effena"]

I see nothing wrong with that.

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Me neither.

Same here.

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#37 socked_feet
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Ugh no way.
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#38 _-THANATOS-_
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not morally but legally

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#39 RJay123
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That makes me sick! Tell your friend go get someone his own age.
If they have sex call the police and get him thrown in jail that way he will learn his lesson

F'n Pedo.

MarkyyR

Laws aside, why exactly is it wrong? If they both care about each other, I don't see why not. We've been brainwashed to think it's wrong, but I believe that men are genetically programmed to be attracted to younger girls (I don't mean children, I mean 14-19)

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#40 bronxxbombers
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Not at all.
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#41 Oscar-Wilde
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The worse that could happen it's that he gets thrown in prison, get marked for life as a pedophile, and maybe get raped in there, so I dunno it's a tough call.

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#42 tepni
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For sure.

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#43 xionvalkyrie
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Like someone said, if things ever go sour, she could easily put you in jail and ruin your life forever. That or her father/brother/mother could if they disapprove.
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#44 DragonRebel0908
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19/2+7=16.5

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Hugh Hefner dates 25-year olds and he's 83. We'll take that down to 82 to be an even number. 82/2+7=48. 48>25. Formula failed. No, being a rich man in a bath robe living in a mansion does not make him special.

If she is a mature and sweet young lady and you two love each other and have things in common, go for it man. Nothing wrong in age difference alone.

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#45 SpidersRMe
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No, being a rich man in a bath robe living in a mansion does not make him special.DragonRebel0908
I'm pretty sure it does.

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#46 II_Seraphim_II
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[QUOTE="MarkyyR"]

That makes me sick! Tell your friend go get someone his own age.
If they have sex call the police and get him thrown in jail that way he will learn his lesson

F'n Pedo.

RJay123

Laws aside, why exactly is it wrong? If they both care about each other, I don't see why not. We've been brainwashed to think it's wrong, but I believe that men are genetically programmed to be attracted to younger girls (I don't mean children, I mean 14-19)

Wow...maybe men from where you're from. I've always been attracted to older women. And if 2 people really love each other, then why not just wait till the girl is of reasonable age. You need to understand that this is more than just a legal issue. How would you feel if your 15 year old daughter, who might have just hit puberty, was going out with a 19 year old. I know that I would beat the living **** out of the guy.

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#47 effena
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[QUOTE="MarkyyR"]

That makes me sick! Tell your friend go get someone his own age.
If they have sex call the police and get him thrown in jail that way he will learn his lesson

F'n Pedo.

RJay123

Laws aside, why exactly is it wrong? If they both care about each other, I don't see why not. We've been brainwashed to think it's wrong, but I believe that men are genetically programmed to be attracted to younger girls (I don't mean children, I mean 14-19)

I think guys will always have a soft spot for younger women, but a lot of young guys are attracted to older women (35-40) and they are usually crazy about them.

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#48 DragonRebel0908
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I find girls younger than 16 attractive but that would probably be the bottom age that I'd actually date.

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#49 freek666
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[QUOTE="freek666"]

19/2+7=16.5

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Hugh Hefner dates 25-year olds and he's 83. We'll take that down to 82 to be an even number. 82/2+7=48. 48>25. Formula failed. No, being a rich man in a bath robe living in a mansion does not make him special.

If she is a mature and sweet young lady and you two love each other and have things in common, go for it man. Nothing wrong in age difference alone.

I believe it only applies for those underage, and if not, then he's breaking the rules.

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#50 bronxxbombers
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[QUOTE="RJay123"]

[QUOTE="MarkyyR"]

That makes me sick! Tell your friend go get someone his own age.
If they have sex call the police and get him thrown in jail that way he will learn his lesson

F'n Pedo.

II_Seraphim_II

Laws aside, why exactly is it wrong? If they both care about each other, I don't see why not. We've been brainwashed to think it's wrong, but I believe that men are genetically programmed to be attracted to younger girls (I don't mean children, I mean 14-19)

Wow...maybe men from where you're from. I've always been attracted to older women. And if 2 people really love each other, then why not just wait till the girl is of reasonable age. You need to understand that this is more than just a legal issue. How would you feel if your 15 year old daughter, who might have just hit puberty, was going out with a 19 year old. I know that I would beat the living **** out of the guy.

And then get his butt thrown in jail/