Is it alright for a 19 year old guy to date a 15 year old girl?

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#201 Darth-Caedus
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On a moral level I see nothing wrong with that...on a legal level it would a problem if you want sex...
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#202 Shinobi120
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I don't know...

Look at the Sailor Moon series for example of Tuxedo Kamen (Mamoru) Dating Usagi...

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#203 West-Coast-G
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I was at a party lastnight (I'm 19 btw) and there were some high school girls there. OMG, seriously, they were so damn hot. I'm not even joking. They were way too young to be dressed the way they were, but damn, they could pull it off. Anyway, when I tried to talk to a few, they were extremely immature and very annoying. I felt weird, old and dirty. It kinda sucked. I guess it's a good thing though, considering now I know that I wouldn't like dating someone that age. Unless they were more mature.

I guess it really just depends on the maturity level of the person. Age really has nothing to do with it. Although, not everyone thinks this way. Not too long ago, I asked this girl for her number and she gave it to me, ect. When she found out I was 19 (she was 20), she suddenly became uninterested and we stopped seeing eachother shortly after. It sucked.

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#204 DragonRebel0908
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I was at a party lastnight (I'm 19 btw) and there were some high school girls there. OMG, seriously, they were so damn hot. I'm not even joking. They were way too young to be dressed the way they were, but damn, they could pull it off. Anyway, when I tried to talk to a few, they were extremely immature and very annoying. I felt weird, old and dirty. It kinda sucked. I guess it's a good thing though, considering now I know that I wouldn't like dating someone that age. Unless they were more mature.

I guess it really just depends on the maturity level of the person. Age really has nothing to do with it. Although, not everyone thinks this way. Not too long ago, I asked this girl for her number and she gave it to me, ect. When she found out I was 19 (she was 20), she suddenly became uninterested and we stopped seeing eachother shortly after. It sucked.

West-Coast-G

She dropped you for being a year younger than her? What the..??

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#205 shinian
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[QUOTE="Espada12"]

Not really. Conflicts of interest and legal issues may occur!

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Don't forget Chris Hansen.

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#206 DragonRebel0908
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[QUOTE="pete_merlin"][QUOTE="Espada12"]

Not really. Conflicts of interest and legal issues may occur!

shinian

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Don't forget Chris Hansen.

That whole show TCAP is a farce. A set-up. An act. Those "pedophiles" are likely paid actors and they that show together for entertainment. It's a bunch of guys going to the same house where they start to talk to a girl who is actually 18 anyway, and she leaves and Chris comes in or either he comes in and she just scoots out behind him. Real pedophiles are out actually molesting children. That show is thrown together so people can get jollies from hearing Chris say, "Why don't you have a seat over there?" and "There's something I gotta tell you: I'm Chris Hansen..".

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#207 links136
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well thats legal in Canada. Age of consent is 16 while 14 and 15 is legal if the other is less than five years older. Plus I mean they're both teenagers. I'd hate to see what some of you think of 25 year olds dating a 15 year old.

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#208 luke1889
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[QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

[QUOTE="West-Coast-G"]

I was at a party lastnight (I'm 19 btw) and there were some high school girls there. OMG, seriously, they were so damn hot. I'm not even joking. They were way too young to be dressed the way they were, but damn, they could pull it off. Anyway, when I tried to talk to a few, they were extremely immature and very annoying. I felt weird, old and dirty. It kinda sucked. I guess it's a good thing though, considering now I know that I wouldn't like dating someone that age. Unless they were more mature.

I guess it really just depends on the maturity level of the person. Age really has nothing to do with it. Although, not everyone thinks this way. Not too long ago, I asked this girl for her number and she gave it to me, ect. When she found out I was 19 (she was 20), she suddenly became uninterested and we stopped seeing eachother shortly after. It sucked.

She dropped you for being a year younger than her? What the..??

That's what I was thinking. :?
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#209 -_Canada_-
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No way, it's just plain weird.

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#210 bigblunt537
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Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.

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#211 DragonRebel0908
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Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.

bigblunt537

Mercy!

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#212 St_JimmyX
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Yes, but it's none of our business.

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#213 dackchaar
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[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.

DragonRebel0908

Mercy!

I figured you would be envious of this guy

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#214 dark-warmachine
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Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.

bigblunt537

She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.

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#215 ufcfan17
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Nope,it's not alright

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#216 bigblunt537
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[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.

dark-warmachine

She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.

I like them young!

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#217 Flame_Blade88
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That's kinda creepy :?
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#218 MrPraline
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[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.

dark-warmachine

She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.

You can't really say that if you know nothing else about him or the girl. There's also maturity and cultural differences.
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#219 Solid_Snake325
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[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

[QUOTE="dark-warmachine"]

[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.

She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.

I like them young!

Haha do you really have a 13 year old gf?
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#220 bigblunt537
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[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

[QUOTE="dark-warmachine"]She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.

Solid_Snake325

I like them young!

Haha do you really have a 13 year old gf?

Not at all, but it's so easy to play a different persona online. My real girl friend is 19, but yea whatever lol

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#221 DragonRebel0908
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[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

I like them young!

bigblunt537

Haha do you really have a 13 year old gf?

Not at all, but it's so easy to play a different persona online. My real girl friend is 19, but yea whatever lol

Man..you were supposed to be for real. That sucks.

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#222 Solid_Snake325
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[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

I like them young!

Haha do you really have a 13 year old gf?

Not at all, but it's so easy to play a different persona online. My real girl friend is 19, but yea whatever lol

Aw that's a shame, you're much less interesting to me now :)
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#224 West-Coast-G
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[QUOTE="luke1889"][QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

[QUOTE="West-Coast-G"]

I was at a party lastnight (I'm 19 btw) and there were some high school girls there. OMG, seriously, they were so damn hot. I'm not even joking. They were way too young to be dressed the way they were, but damn, they could pull it off. Anyway, when I tried to talk to a few, they were extremely immature and very annoying. I felt weird, old and dirty. It kinda sucked. I guess it's a good thing though, considering now I know that I wouldn't like dating someone that age. Unless they were more mature.

I guess it really just depends on the maturity level of the person. Age really has nothing to do with it. Although, not everyone thinks this way. Not too long ago, I asked this girl for her number and she gave it to me, ect. When she found out I was 19 (she was 20), she suddenly became uninterested and we stopped seeing eachother shortly after. It sucked.

She dropped you for being a year younger than her? What the..??

That's what I was thinking. :?

Yeah, I know. Ridiculous, right? When we first met, she thought I was older than her. I guess 19 seems really young when compared to your expectations of the guy being 20-something. I'm pretty mature though, so I don't see what the problem was. Anyway, there's other girl I want to ask out. She's my age and goes to the same college. I just haven't figured out how to do it yet.
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#225 bigblunt537
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[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"] Haha do you really have a 13 year old gf?Solid_Snake325

Not at all, but it's so easy to play a different persona online. My real girl friend is 19, but yea whatever lol

Aw that's a shame, you're much less interesting to me now :)

Well maybe I have a 13 year old girl on the3 side which I married, but keep on the down low... Maybe this is the Internet after all.

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#226 Lindsosaurus
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Technically, any intimacy between the two would be statutory rape. Most of the time there is a big maturity difference and a vulnerability of the 15 year old girl that makes it an issue. Although, a 4 year age difference is not that much, its more of an issue at that age because developmentally, the difference is actually much larger.

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#227 KcurtorMas
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[QUOTE="THE_BRUTALIZER"][QUOTE="Mario2007"]

Me and my friends are having a debate about this and I wanted to know what you guys thought.

19 year would be known as a creep, weirdo freak pedophile. However, if the 19 year old was the girl, the 15 yr old guy would be popular, his friends would wonder forever how he managed to strike such a mature girl.

Yeah, its definitely a double standard in that regard. Although its still a bit odd. 19 and 15 is only a four year difference, but they are two very different ages.
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#228 battlefront23
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Me and my friends have a 2 year rule.

So no.

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#229 weezyfb
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[QUOTE="battlefront23"]

Me and my friends have a 2 year rule.

So no.

what do you guys have like a pact :P
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#230 tocool340
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I wouldn't recommend it unless you are positive you won't do anything beyond kissing. Ask R. Kelly about what happens when you try something like that......
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#231 links136
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[QUOTE="battlefront23"]

Me and my friends have a 2 year rule.

So no.

weezyfb

what do you guys have like a pact :P

anyone who breaks it gets a wet willie

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#232 links136
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[QUOTE="luke1889"][QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]

She dropped you for being a year younger than her? What the..??

West-Coast-G

That's what I was thinking. :?

Yeah, I know. Ridiculous, right? When we first met, she thought I was older than her. I guess 19 seems really young when compared to your expectations of the guy being 20-something. I'm pretty mature though, so I don't see what the problem was. Anyway, there's other girl I want to ask out. She's my age and goes to the same college. I just haven't figured out how to do it yet.

just ask her to coffee and if she says to say too bad for her then walk away.

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#233 Im_single
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If both parties are 18+ anything goes, if you're a 19 year old male and dating a girl in middle school (MAYBE high school) you should probably re evaluate your life.
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#234 luke1889
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Yeah, I know. Ridiculous, right? When we first met, she thought I was older than her. I guess 19 seems really young when compared to your expectations of the guy being 20-something. I'm pretty mature though, so I don't see what the problem was. Anyway, there's other girl I want to ask out. She's my age and goes to the same college. I just haven't figured out how to do it yet. West-Coast-G

Ah well, not to worry. :) Hopefully you'll have better luck with this new gal. ;) It is silly though...even if she DID think you were older, she could have at least given you a chance. :(

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nope

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#236 rmfd341
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It's just plain wrong. Don't.
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#237 starfox15
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Well if they just date then fine, but if they have sex its considered statutory rape by most state laws in the U.S. I don't really care personally unless it pertains to me. If it was my son or daughter I would say that its not appropriate and stop it right there. Unless I knew the family and he/she was a respectable individual that wouldn't do anything really stupid to my kid. It would depend on the circumstances. You would think the social stigma would be enough to shun this sort of thing, but it still happens. Whatever.

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#238 pierst179
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I really don't see what is wrong with that.

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#239 deactivated-5f2174cc8f575
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I don't find anything particularly wrong with a 19 year old dating a 15 year old. It's only a 4 year difference.

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#240 deactivated-5c8e4e07d5510
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Not really. 16 is fine, because that's the age of consent. People get suspicious if a 19 year old is dating a girl younger than the age of consent.

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#241 Ubermensk
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I'm gunna say yes since my parents are 5 years apart, and i'm pretty sure they met in High School
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#242 T_P_O
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Providing you keep away from sexual things until she's legal, then why the hell not?

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#243 nilzg
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[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.

dark-warmachine

She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.

I'm 19 and mygf is 16 now (we've been together now for more than a year..)

I don't see anything wrong with 19 & 13 either why? If you both are happy with it, why not?

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#244 Cyrez60659
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[QUOTE="dark-warmachine"]

[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.

nilzg

She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.

I'm 19 and mygf is 16 now (we've been together now for more than a year..)

I don't see anything wrong with 19 & 13 either why? If you both are happy with it, why not?

Because it's illegal?
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#245 Bourbons3
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Not really. He should find someone his own age.
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#246 D0ub13_5c0r3
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My moms 32, and my dads 42. Nothing wrong with it. Its love.
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#247 pianist
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Because it's illegal?Cyrez60659

I don't think the dating is illegal. Sex is the issue with age.

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#248 AtlanticRock
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My moms 32, and my dads 42. Nothing wrong with it. Its love.D0ub13_5c0r3

my mom's 49, dad's 54. They too met before college, people need to relax.

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#249 StaticPenguin
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The 19 year old needs to listen to Admiral Ackbar.