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I was at a party lastnight (I'm 19 btw) and there were some high school girls there. OMG, seriously, they were so damn hot. I'm not even joking. They were way too young to be dressed the way they were, but damn, they could pull it off. Anyway, when I tried to talk to a few, they were extremely immature and very annoying. I felt weird, old and dirty. It kinda sucked. I guess it's a good thing though, considering now I know that I wouldn't like dating someone that age. Unless they were more mature.
I guess it really just depends on the maturity level of the person. Age really has nothing to do with it. Although, not everyone thinks this way. Not too long ago, I asked this girl for her number and she gave it to me, ect. When she found out I was 19 (she was 20), she suddenly became uninterested and we stopped seeing eachother shortly after. It sucked.
I was at a party lastnight (I'm 19 btw) and there were some high school girls there. OMG, seriously, they were so damn hot. I'm not even joking. They were way too young to be dressed the way they were, but damn, they could pull it off. Anyway, when I tried to talk to a few, they were extremely immature and very annoying. I felt weird, old and dirty. It kinda sucked. I guess it's a good thing though, considering now I know that I wouldn't like dating someone that age. Unless they were more mature.
I guess it really just depends on the maturity level of the person. Age really has nothing to do with it. Although, not everyone thinks this way. Not too long ago, I asked this girl for her number and she gave it to me, ect. When she found out I was 19 (she was 20), she suddenly became uninterested and we stopped seeing eachother shortly after. It sucked.
West-Coast-G
She dropped you for being a year younger than her? What the..??
this[QUOTE="pete_merlin"][QUOTE="Espada12"]
Not really. Conflicts of interest and legal issues may occur!
shinian
Don't forget Chris Hansen.
That whole show TCAP is a farce. A set-up. An act. Those "pedophiles" are likely paid actors and they that show together for entertainment. It's a bunch of guys going to the same house where they start to talk to a girl who is actually 18 anyway, and she leaves and Chris comes in or either he comes in and she just scoots out behind him. Real pedophiles are out actually molesting children. That show is thrown together so people can get jollies from hearing Chris say, "Why don't you have a seat over there?" and "There's something I gotta tell you: I'm Chris Hansen..".
[QUOTE="West-Coast-G"]
I was at a party lastnight (I'm 19 btw) and there were some high school girls there. OMG, seriously, they were so damn hot. I'm not even joking. They were way too young to be dressed the way they were, but damn, they could pull it off. Anyway, when I tried to talk to a few, they were extremely immature and very annoying. I felt weird, old and dirty. It kinda sucked. I guess it's a good thing though, considering now I know that I wouldn't like dating someone that age. Unless they were more mature.
I guess it really just depends on the maturity level of the person. Age really has nothing to do with it. Although, not everyone thinks this way. Not too long ago, I asked this girl for her number and she gave it to me, ect. When she found out I was 19 (she was 20), she suddenly became uninterested and we stopped seeing eachother shortly after. It sucked.
She dropped you for being a year younger than her? What the..??
That's what I was thinking. :?She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.
bigblunt537
She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]
Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.
dark-warmachine
I like them young!
She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +. You can't really say that if you know nothing else about him or the girl. There's also maturity and cultural differences.[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]
Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.
dark-warmachine
[QUOTE="dark-warmachine"]
[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]
Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.
She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.I like them young!
Haha do you really have a 13 year old gf?[QUOTE="bigblunt537"][QUOTE="dark-warmachine"]She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.
Solid_Snake325
I like them young!
Haha do you really have a 13 year old gf?Not at all, but it's so easy to play a different persona online. My real girl friend is 19, but yea whatever lol
Haha do you really have a 13 year old gf?[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="bigblunt537"]
I like them young!
bigblunt537
Not at all, but it's so easy to play a different persona online. My real girl friend is 19, but yea whatever lol
Man..you were supposed to be for real. That sucks.
[QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"][QUOTE="bigblunt537"]
I like them young!
Haha do you really have a 13 year old gf?Not at all, but it's so easy to play a different persona online. My real girl friend is 19, but yea whatever lol
Aw that's a shame, you're much less interesting to me now :)[QUOTE="West-Coast-G"]
I was at a party lastnight (I'm 19 btw) and there were some high school girls there. OMG, seriously, they were so damn hot. I'm not even joking. They were way too young to be dressed the way they were, but damn, they could pull it off. Anyway, when I tried to talk to a few, they were extremely immature and very annoying. I felt weird, old and dirty. It kinda sucked. I guess it's a good thing though, considering now I know that I wouldn't like dating someone that age. Unless they were more mature.
I guess it really just depends on the maturity level of the person. Age really has nothing to do with it. Although, not everyone thinks this way. Not too long ago, I asked this girl for her number and she gave it to me, ect. When she found out I was 19 (she was 20), she suddenly became uninterested and we stopped seeing eachother shortly after. It sucked.
She dropped you for being a year younger than her? What the..??
That's what I was thinking. :? Yeah, I know. Ridiculous, right? When we first met, she thought I was older than her. I guess 19 seems really young when compared to your expectations of the guy being 20-something. I'm pretty mature though, so I don't see what the problem was. Anyway, there's other girl I want to ask out. She's my age and goes to the same college. I just haven't figured out how to do it yet.[QUOTE="bigblunt537"][QUOTE="Solid_Snake325"] Haha do you really have a 13 year old gf?Solid_Snake325
Not at all, but it's so easy to play a different persona online. My real girl friend is 19, but yea whatever lol
Aw that's a shame, you're much less interesting to me now :)Well maybe I have a 13 year old girl on the3 side which I married, but keep on the down low... Maybe this is the Internet after all.
Technically, any intimacy between the two would be statutory rape. Most of the time there is a big maturity difference and a vulnerability of the 15 year old girl that makes it an issue. Although, a 4 year age difference is not that much, its more of an issue at that age because developmentally, the difference is actually much larger.
Me and my friends are having a debate about this and I wanted to know what you guys thought.
19 year would be known as a creep, weirdo freak pedophile. However, if the 19 year old was the girl, the 15 yr old guy would be popular, his friends would wonder forever how he managed to strike such a mature girl. Yeah, its definitely a double standard in that regard. Although its still a bit odd. 19 and 15 is only a four year difference, but they are two very different ages.[QUOTE="luke1889"][QUOTE="DragonRebel0908"]That's what I was thinking. :? Yeah, I know. Ridiculous, right? When we first met, she thought I was older than her. I guess 19 seems really young when compared to your expectations of the guy being 20-something. I'm pretty mature though, so I don't see what the problem was. Anyway, there's other girl I want to ask out. She's my age and goes to the same college. I just haven't figured out how to do it yet.She dropped you for being a year younger than her? What the..??
West-Coast-G
just ask her to coffee and if she says to say too bad for her then walk away.
Yeah, I know. Ridiculous, right? When we first met, she thought I was older than her. I guess 19 seems really young when compared to your expectations of the guy being 20-something. I'm pretty mature though, so I don't see what the problem was. Anyway, there's other girl I want to ask out. She's my age and goes to the same college. I just haven't figured out how to do it yet. West-Coast-G
Ah well, not to worry. :) Hopefully you'll have better luck with this new gal. ;) It is silly though...even if she DID think you were older, she could have at least given you a chance. :(
Well if they just date then fine, but if they have sex its considered statutory rape by most state laws in the U.S. I don't really care personally unless it pertains to me. If it was my son or daughter I would say that its not appropriate and stop it right there. Unless I knew the family and he/she was a respectable individual that wouldn't do anything really stupid to my kid. It would depend on the circumstances. You would think the social stigma would be enough to shun this sort of thing, but it still happens. Whatever.
I don't find anything particularly wrong with a 19 year old dating a 15 year old. It's only a 4 year difference.
Not really. 16 is fine, because that's the age of consent. People get suspicious if a 19 year old is dating a girl younger than the age of consent.
She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]
Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.
dark-warmachine
I'm 19 and mygf is 16 now (we've been together now for more than a year..)
I don't see anything wrong with 19 & 13 either why? If you both are happy with it, why not?
She's too young for you. An appropriate number would be 17 +.[QUOTE="dark-warmachine"]
[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]
Well I see nothing wrong with it. I'm 19 and my gf is 13.
nilzg
I'm 19 and mygf is 16 now (we've been together now for more than a year..)
I don't see anything wrong with 19 & 13 either why? If you both are happy with it, why not?
Because it's illegal?My moms 32, and my dads 42. Nothing wrong with it. Its love.D0ub13_5c0r3
my mom's 49, dad's 54. They too met before college, people need to relax.
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