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#1  Edited By destroyerman455
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@xdude85 said:

Freddy Krueger and Jason Voorhees.

I second this motion.

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@-Renegade said:

i wanted to say if she is not responding to you on facebook that she is not interested. but you already asked her out and she turned you down. i know you dont want to hear this but i would move on at this point if i were you. you will always know when a girl is interested in you, they will come to you you wont have to come to them.

also as someone else pointed out the advice about talking to other girls in front of her is bad advice. this will do nothing but make her think you are not interested in her and that you don't care about her.

I'm considering moving on now at this point. I'm gonna give it another week like I said before and kinda scope out what could change etc, but I'm starting to work myself into not being as interested in her as I was before.

However, I still want to be friends with her so that shouldn't be too hard to do especially since we have Model UN and have to work together occasionally.

This really rustles my jimmies though. I felt pretty confident about it all and then these other people come out of nowhere and kinda shift my chances.

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#3 destroyerman455
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@Planeforger said:

@specialzed said:

As far as all these guys telling you to ask her out, I dont think thats a good idea. She isnt responding to you because she knows she has you and shes become bored. Think about it, if a girl liked you and kept bothering you but you didnt really like her back chances are you'd respond to be nice and kinda hoped she'd go away by not asking more. If I were you i'd just pull out and leave her alone, she will begin to wonder where her attention went. In the club you see her in, give her the cold shoulder once or twice or let her see you talking with other girls and enjoying it. Girls by nature work on the concept of pre-selection, if she see's you with other females, naturally it will mean to her that you have something to attract them and then she will be more interested. Girls also want what they cant have, by acting like you dont want her she will think you no longer want her and it will in turn make her want you more.

If you ask her to hang out you risk rejection, just make yourself the prize by not caring. It drives em nuts.

This isn't great advice. It sounds like she's already hanging out with a guy, so giving her the cold shoulder won't lure her in, it'll only makes her choice much easier to make - she'll obviously just go with the guy who is asking her out and actually displaying interest in her.

Anyway, relationships are only as stupidly complicated as you make them out to be. You can sit around playing mindgames for weeks hoping that she doesn't get the wrong impression and risking the chance of her going out with someone else...or you can just casually ask her out. If she wants to spend time with you, she'll say yes, and you'll spend those weeks of silliness getting to know each other instead

You're probably right. I think I'm gonna ride this out until next week and see if she's still doing stuff with this other guy. If not, i'll possibly see if she is interested in going to a movie then. If she's still doing stuff with this other guy, well, I have no idea at the moment what i'll do. I don't want to give up on her yet. There may be a ton of other girls out there, but she seems different. And I'm probably the millionth guy to say that, but its true, she isn't like other girls I've met, she's different but in a good way.

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@GOGOGOGURT said:

Acquire a large sum of money, purchase a large manor, throw lavish parties, and hope she will wander in.

That's a fantastic idea old sport.

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#5  Edited By destroyerman455
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@specialzed said:

As far as all these guys telling you to ask her out, I dont think thats a good idea. She isnt responding to you because she knows she has you and shes become bored. Think about it, if a girl liked you and kept bothering you but you didnt really like her back chances are you'd respond to be nice and kinda hoped she'd go away by not asking more. If I were you i'd just pull out and leave her alone, she will begin to wonder where her attention went. In the club you see her in, give her the cold shoulder once or twice or let her see you talking with other girls and enjoying it. Girls by nature work on the concept of pre-selection, if she see's you with other females, naturally it will mean to her that you have something to attract them and then she will be more interested. Girls also want what they cant have, by acting like you dont want her she will think you no longer want her and it will in turn make her want you more.

If you ask her to hang out you risk rejection, just make yourself the prize by not caring. It drives em nuts.

I wish you'd replied to this earlier.

I already asked her to a movie and she apparently is already going to one with another friend. She had seen one with her friend this past weekend and they plan on going to another this weekend. Here's the problem though, her friend may be a guy who likes her. If they went last weekend together as just the 2 of them, or plan on going as just the 2 of them, then I may be hitting a major problem. I don't know if they went with other people or plan on it, but either way going to a movie with one other person is usually not a good sign especially when they're opposite sexes.

I thankfully didn't make the whole asking her thing too awkward so I think we're still on good grounds, but until then I'm kinda stuck. I don't know her exact feelings for the guy and I don't know the whole context of it all fully, but its still putting up red flags for me.

I may just go with the flow on this for now until I can get a better grasp of it all.

Any suggestions on what to do from here everyone?

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#6 destroyerman455
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@BranKetra said:
@Lu_Bu01 said:

@destroyerman455 said:

@sammyjenkis898 said:

Just ask her if she wants to go to a movie or something.

I was considering that, but some people were saying that's a bad idea because you cant really talk in a movie. Which is a valid point, but a movie seems like an easy option.

You can talk before, after, and during a movie. Typically there is a place nearby to sit and talk, have a bite to eat, etc. Don't take the conversations dimming down personally, it happens and you'll appreciate that. Definitely touch her shoulder.

If you are in a theater, do not talk when the film starts. It is a rude thing to do when there are other people in it who paid to enjoy a film just like you.

An activity for a date is a good idea. Do something you can enjoy and talk about at the same time. If it goes well, you will both have good memories of that event together like a theme park or if you are charismatic, take her around town.

Believe me, I know how that is and I wont do it, but a movie may be my best option actually. I might ask her to see one this weekend if things continue to go well. Anyone know any good movies out to see?

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#7 destroyerman455
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@konvikt_17 said:

Ha low post counts dont mean someone is new.

i read several people from old gamspot say they were going to make new accounts since they didnt like their current username.

and of course people lost posts during the transition. i lost 500 posts during the transition

Exactly. I didn't start posting much until maybe last year so my post count was already low, then the transition knocked some down, but I've been around since 05' so making assumptions like that aren't always true.

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@lamprey263 said:

tell her you're gay, then she's naturally wants to be your best friend, whereby you later confess to her you're even more confused by your sexuality because of your feelings for her, whereby she'll really love you because her ego has been boosted by the thought of being so wonderful she turned a gay man straight

Why do I feel like this idea actually could possibly work in a situation for someone...

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#9 destroyerman455
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@EagleEyedOne said:

It took me longer than it should have to realize that you need to use your username instead of your email to login.

I'm glad I wasn't the only one to realize this.

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#10  Edited By destroyerman455
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I also forgot to ask, what if she doesn't give me a straight answer if I ask her out to something? Like if she says, "Maybe" or "She doesnt know yet". Its not a straight yes or no so I have no idea on what to say following a response like that if she gives one like that.