@ Setsa and worlock- I don't understand the female mind. She's experiencing some trepidation keeping her from leaving him even though it would seem to free her from the "dead weight". @Hemmaroids- I will take that advice. I don't want to save her. She told me another story about a man she was cheating with that according to her fell in love. Wanted her to leave her husband and marry him. She laughed at him, broke his heart. He quit his job and moved a way. Just a snapshot of her character. @Frame- I'll be quick (again, no pun intended).
@worlock- If/when a scorned lover comes after me, I'll mail you a Coke. @harashawn- I wasn't asking whether or not to go through with it. I was wondering if others have and how they've gotten over feeling bad about it, if they even did. @solid- He knows she's cheated before and I believe the absent desire is mutual. She told me many funny stories about her failed attempts at seduction. Once while she was cooking his favorite food and playing his favorite album in nothing but an apron all he had to say was "aren't you cold in that?" I told her she missed the most important thing. Candles.
Couldn't reply because I was out buying condoms, as well as Christmas gifts. My decision was already made. The pleasure will be hers and mine. Something that should be known, she has cheated on him before and I agree with what a few have said. If not me then some other guy. Might as well be me. Also, I feel for the woman. She met him when they were 15, waited until they married at 19 and gave him her virginity. She says the spark is gone but she still cares about him so she won't divorce him. Basically a sexless marriage.
I consider myself Agnostic now but as a child the Catholic faith was drilled (no pun intended) into me pretty well. I shouldn't be bothered and I told her it didn't bother me that she was married. But it does a little bit... as I think I'd never cheat were I in a commited relationship.
Anyone else ever in a similar set of circumstances? How'd you get over it?
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