Darrow.. why would having gaming buddys turn into a divorce?  Does your wife not allow you to make friends via the internet?  

Full Loot is actually what makes this game the most intense pvp out there.  Because you have everthing to lose, but everything to gain.  There is nothind more satsifying then being in a heated 1 on 1 with somone for 5 mins and killing them.  Then all there shiny stuff is yours now.  Also the Braveheart like battles 50 on 50 in an open field!  Words cannot describe.