Okay I've been searching for hours and it's driving me crazy

I played it in 2015-2016 it was a paid app but used tutu app

Mobile game might be on computer

You age on every turn, every battle you have if you get hit im pretty sure it takes life off you. You have to prepare for some monster that will be released in a certain amount of years. Its fog of war style im pretty sure so you cant see the entire map. To continue in the game you have to give birth to a child but you have to be popular for anyone to wanna smash. I wish I could remember more -_-