"Games that let you buy better gear or allow you to make better items then everyone else at a faster rate and then makes the game largely unbalanced even for people who have skill in the game without paying."

So your definition is off. And yes, it is a long way off until release. But since it is clearly stated on their website, that is what I will go off of. Until they officially change it. Skill does have something to do with it, but it does not change that paying real cash will give you an advantage over someone that has played the same amount of time.

TheOnlyConan

XP potions or whatever aren't classed as pay to win. That's classed as convience and hence not pay to win. Buying a weapon with real money that you can also buy with in game currency is also classed as convience.
Warframe and neverwinter are other examples of free to play.

World of Tanks is Pay to win where you have to  (and can only) buy a better class of ammo with real money to be competitive. 

I'm unsure of any other pay to win games off the top of my head.

If you don't agree with it then that's your choice and no one is forcing you to play the game.