Your girlfriend says she was raped...and you don't know whether to believe her or not?

Dude what type of relationship are you in?

Haha..I'm pretty sure you should trust her and tell someone about it.

tepni

Well what would u do if your gf told you this would you believe her? (if you was a male)

So this topic is still open huh? I am still trying to wrap my mind around this. Why would you post this on a video game website forum? I am not even sure if any of this is even true.GrandJury

This is the offline topic. i posted it for opinions.

[QUOTE="Miyomatic"]

Are....you....serious? You do realize he's like 15, right? :?

No, I dont know if thats true or not, but did it ever cross your mind that this may be his first gf? Maybe he has no one to turn to? And if so, you just made him feel worse than he already does. He came to Gamespot for help, dammit! And we're gonna give it to him! :cry:

XilePrincess

That was actually the first thing that crossed my mind, due to the terrible spelling and level of immaturity in the posts. I understand sometimes people don't have anyone else, but that's really no excuse for asking anybody, a stranger or not, how to interrogate and expose somebody who just told you they got raped, whether it's valid or not. That's just completely... not something anybody with any common sense or respect for their girlfriend would do.

How am i a jerk ? i wasn't picking at her. but thanks for the lecture. I told her if shes pregnant i will be there for the baby.im not treating her like crap at all mate. but thanks a lot.

EmoDepress777

Did you read my post, at all? or any of your own, for that matter? You're asking over and over how can you make her confess. maybe there's nothing to confess, ever think of that? Ever think maybe it took a lot of guts for her to tell you, but youre still trying to catch her in a lie?

I realize I'm being very snappy about this, but as somebody who has seen a lot of traumatized girls and as a person who would like to be a rape and crisis counsellor I'm really against the fact that you're asking how to break her down and make her confess something to you.

Well sorry? why are you being so defending for? Well i wanted to make sure. Cause she said she don't know how he looked and all. but if she lying she sure did come up with a story fast. Yes you are very snappy. Well idk why you think im immature since you never met me. But im not trying to break her down. But thanks for trying to pick a fight with me.

[QUOTE="XilePrincess"][QUOTE="EmoDepress777"]

I lied and said my uncle is a cop and i said he will try to find them. so im waiting to see what she says now. wither way shes going to get caught. You have anymore tips of what i could ask her to catch her in the lie?

Miyomatic

Are....you....serious? You do realize he's like 15, right? :?

No, I dont know if thats true or not, but did it ever cross your mind that this may be his first gf? Maybe he has no one to turn to? And if so, you just made him feel worse than he already does. He came to Gamespot for help, dammit! And we're gonna give it to him! :cry:

Hey thanks alot mate your a good cheer. Yes shes my 2nd gf in 6 years. i been with her for 6 mouths. plus i don't have no one to turn to im scared to tell my mom and all. but gamespot has helped me alot. i want to cry tooo.

[QUOTE="EmoDepress777"]

I lied and said my uncle is a cop and i said he will try to find them. so im waiting to see what she says now. wither way shes going to get caught. You have anymore tips of what i could ask her to catch her in the lie?

XilePrincess

How am i a jerk ? i wasn't picking at her. but thanks for the lecture. I told her if shes pregnant i will be there for the baby.im not treating her like crap at all mate. but thanks a lot.

[QUOTE="EmoDepress777"]

Well thats what i just asked . idk what she talking about how can she be preggo so soon. she saying she sad and all they, that she was forced. she said she called but idk. i will ask her if she wants me to call them. how do i make her confess the truth or catch her in a lie if shes lying? btw thanks for the info im telling her this now.

LongZhiZi

Well i kinda did , i said my uncle is a cop he will help and she never replied back and went off-line. so i thinks shes lying now. i wonder why she would lie about rape. well she lies a lot. so im sure she is lying now. What do i ask her tomorrow? should i say my uncle made an investigation? to scare her? She said shes showing me her belly tomorrow , so i still know its all lies. now im confused . why do you think she would want me to believe shes pregnant and raped for?

[QUOTE="EmoDepress777"]

[QUOTE="LongZhiZi"] Bingo. If she was raped a few days ago, how would she know she's pregnant already? It's exceptionally rare to show such signs already. Furthermore, since she's being quite lax about the issue, it leads me to agree with what I quoted. The police aren't going to take a phone call of the rape and NOT investigate the matter. If you really want to keep your mind at ease, call the police in her city on your own volition. Inform them that she said she was raped but isn't pursuing the matter. They may not be able to tell you if she called (which would prove whether that happened or not), but you can at least request an officer to go check up on her. Provide an address.Miyomatic

Well thats what i just asked . idk what she talking about how can she be preggo so soon. she saying she sad and all they, that she was forced. she said she called but idk. i will ask her if she wants me to call them. how do i make her confess the truth or catch her in a lie if shes lying? btw thanks for the info im telling her this now.

And you're gonna ask her, why? Just do it, and see how it all goes down. Either she's a cheater and will be caught in her lie when the police ask, or she's gonna get the help she needs. Its a win-win.

I lied and said my uncle is a cop and i said he will try to find them. so im waiting to see what she says now. wither way shes going to get caught. You have anymore tips of what i could ask her to catch her in the lie?

[QUOTE="EmoDepress777"]

[QUOTE="kdawg88"]Didn't you just recently get back together with her?Miyomatic

Yeah we only broken up for 15 hours

Sounds like shes a cheater to be honest with you. Does all that happening in a 15 hour-period sound realistic to you? You'd know more so than I.

Well she said couple of days but idk why she tells e now. but i don't think she's pregoo, not sure tbh

[QUOTE="EmoDepress777"]

[QUOTE="ParisHilton1Fan"]

TC you wanna know what really happened? She cheated on you with someone else, got pregnant, and now is trying to say she got raped.

Gaming-Planet

Really how can i be sure?

She said there were bruises but i asked to see she said they going away or something.

[QUOTE="ParisHilton1Fan"]

TC you wanna know what really happened? She cheated on you with someone else, got pregnant, and now is trying to say she got raped.

LongZhiZi

Well thats what i just asked . idk what she talking about how can she be preggo so soon. she saying she sad and all they, that she was forced. she said she called but idk. i will ask her if she wants me to call them. how do i make her confess the truth or catch her in a lie if shes lying? btw thanks for the info im telling her this now.