[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="DrPickle"] The problem is, I kinda lost motivation. I don't want to do anything other than enjoy the moment right now ... maybe flush my education down the toilet all together. Uh...I think that's a tad bit more serious than being nervous about a presentation. Anyway, you've just answered how to solve your anxiety problem. That's exactly why I posted this, I wanted to get the right answer on doing what is right ... I am really demotivated with everything right now. I can stop going to college and just spill my life down the drain ... maybe get drunk too... Its not just about being nervous about a presentation, its my social skills all together. I don't know how many of you actually dropped out of college and went to the army or so, had their life roughed up and had to work really hard for really nothing other than a bunch of couple of hours of sleep. I want to at least work hard for something worth it, well ... at least that's what i wanted to do after high school. But I am coming into realization now that I can't ... I should just drop out of college .. not go to medical school at all .. join the army or flip some burgers for a living, or more likely, for a bunch of a couple of hours of sleep so I can continue living on this **** hole. I am just asking for advice, nothing more, nothing less.
[QUOTE="MrGeezer"] Practice the presentation, then practice it 100 more times. Find someone who you're not comfortable speaking too, and do some test runs in front of actual people. The problem is, I kinda lost motivation. I don't want to do anything other than enjoy the moment right now ... maybe flush my education down the toilet all together.
Ever play The Sims? Practice your speech in front of a mirror and lvl up that Charisma. Level 2-3 should be good for your presentation.
InEMplease
I've tried that ... gets me down every single time; sad face
Dude, you can come on here and ask us for help. We still judge you even if you can't see our face.
If you did it here so easy, go out and do it. You won't do anything with life and what's the point of being a perfect morsal of flesh if no one can take cracks at it? Whacks from a hammer make steel stiff.
leapMC
*shrugs* Its the internetz bro, its different out there ... Maybe I should quit life all together and stay on the internet 24/7 ... at least i will still have a 1% chance of being awesome that way.
[QUOTE="Jandurin"] have you ever been perfect on alcohol? I wish I can think that way ... ! I consider drinking alcohol to be part of my "fun" time, but when it is serious business ... it is serious business. I like to think that this is what has gotten me so far.
[QUOTE="Jandurin"][QUOTE="DrPickle"] I don't want to ... not that way. I can't feel good about drinking alcohol. I don't want this to be my only option. why can't you feel good about drinking alcohol Its part of my never ending issues... , Perfectionism.
[QUOTE="Jandurin"]you should get over your anxietysurrealnumber5
booze helps, as does experience. booze alsohelps get that experience. I don't want to ... not that way. I can't feel good about drinking alcohol. I don't want this to be my only option.
I think I have some severe problems regarding my skills around people. I get nervous quickly and feel like wanting to run away whenever I am around people I don't know about. I usually don't know how to properly interact with any random person so I end up saying something stupid while in a conversation just to remove the doubt of the other person that I am social unactive. People whom I meet end up losing all respect for me by the time I get to finally know them. Although I have low esteem, no confidence and fear of being judged I usually don't show such symptoms around people whom I don't know. I do walk confidently, speak when spoken to, and usually portray an external personality to make other believe that I am one of those proud bragging bastards that believe they are better than everyone else. My speaking and communication skills suck .. thus, when I write I usually express opinions, vocabulary and arguments really great but when compared to speaking people really doubt if I am the same person. I usually prefer to remain alone and silent than around bunch of people who joke and laugh about everything else. Now the problem is, I have this SERIOUS presentation I need to do in college in front of the medical terminology class and I am totally freaking out!!! Not a second goes by without me thinking about what I should do. Im starting to panic! I think im starting to get panic attacks!! The only though that comes to my mind is ... "I can't do this, I can't do this, I can't do this, oh God, I can't do this, no no no, I can't, I can't do this!" to the point im starting to think I should drop out of college and take a year off fixing myself or skip going to the class for a month or so. I think it is sufficent enough to express this amount of problems I have, regarding I have so much more problems within myself such as depression, eating disorder, body disorder, perfectionism, anexity, chronic worrying, aneroxia ... blah blah blah ... that stuff I can't simply go there and accept that I am going to make a fool out of myself, I have this murky sense of "must do everything perfect" kind of judgement that only makes me want to run and hide instead; sad face. Help anyone??!
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