@LJS9502_basic said:
@mrbojangles25 said:
@zaryia said:
She said they headed to the lingerie section, and that Trump grabbed a bodysuit and said she should try it on. They went into a dressing room together, and once the door closed, she alleges that Trump pushed her against the wall.
I'm not one for blaming the victim, but seriously, folks?
Warning signs:
1. Famous, rich, powerful male asks you a pointless question [to initiate conversation]
2. Leads you to lingerie section; oh boy, it's already getting sexual
3. Asks you to try it on for him; at this point, you should be freaking out
4. Follows you into the dressing room. Time to run, lady, run run run
I'm not saying she was asking for it, but she was pretty much right up to that point almost. Where is the common sense here? Now, not all men are rapists, but when a stranger does the four above things I am pretty sure he wants to put something into you.
*shrug*
I want Trump out of office as much as anyone, but we won't get him this way.
Victim blaming really? I thought you were better than that.
I said I wasn't victim blaming--if she was sexually assaulted, she didn't deserve it, didn't "ask for it", and so on--I am just saying that she could have done a bit more to maybe not get into that situation.
All that doesn't matter though, sexual assault is sexual assault.
I'm just a little conflicted because, I don't know, where does personal responsibility come into play? If I cross a street and don't look both ways and get hit by a car, I don't deserve to be hit by a car, I wasn't asking to be hit by that car, but I could have done more to prevent it.
Plus the timing isn't really great, either; election stuff is starting to ramp up, and for the most part there have not really been a whole lot of allegations during his presidency as far as rape goes, only during the election cycles.
I definitely feel if this woman can come up with enough proof to go to court she should have her day there, but for the sake of playing Devil's Advocate and viewing things from the opposition's PoV, I find it a bit suspect.
*Sorry I'm in full-on cynic mode right now, I'm probably going to regret typing all this later haha
**In addition, the woman is what? 70-something? So she would have been at least 40 when this happened. This isn't some 20-something with stars in her eyes being entranced by Trumps status, this is a grown woman with a professional career in the media.
@sonicare said:
It's an allegation, but there have been multiple allegations. His past behavior and comments about woman make me more inclined to believe that he could be the type of person capable of these actions. One who is entitled, feels woman are lesser, easily rationalizes bad behavior, etc. Even his defensive statements - "she's not my type" - seems more about denigrating woman than in professing one's innocence. But liberals also need to be a little more critical of some past presidents with multiple accusers as well. If one is serious about stepping up to sexual assault, it should be for all comers and not just when it's politically expedient.
Unfortunately, being a chauvinistic asshole isn't illegal.
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