Why do people cheat in a relationship?

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#1 The_Gaming_Baby
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Why do people casually cheat on their partner? I don't mean a full blown affair, but when someone simply kisses another person or maybe even sleeps with someone else.

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#2 ScorpionTroll
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I guess they're either unhappy or they're the types who just never have enough.

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#3 CHOASXIII
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Couldn't tell you.

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#4 TheFallenDemon
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Guranteed survival of the bloodline.

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#7 Blue-Sky
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Men are only as faithful as their options.

Cheating doesn't mean much to someone if they can pull any fish they want.

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#8 The_Gaming_Baby
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Men are only as faithful as their options.

Cheating doesn't mean much to someone if they can pull any fish they want.

Blue-Sky
What about females?
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#9 lo_Pine
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I have absolutely no idea.

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#10 themajormayor
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Because

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#11 tocool340
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I'd like to think the reason both partners (Or perhaps just one of them) got into a relationship had more to do with the lust more so than the love. And if that's the reason they got into a relationship, most likely, one or the other is gonna go creeping around. Especially if both have little in common in the first place. When they see a better product walking around than what the currently have, they will want to try it out...
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#12 lo_Pine
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Because

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Nvm, I know why now :D
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#13 almasdeathchild
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i used to and i always got marked*once a player always a player*but i found someone and it's not the case

and it sucks and i regret it.

but sometimes people don't get enough out of one relationship

though my view still stands sex is just sex.doesn't mean i love you.

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#14 AFBrat77
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Because they don't want to leave their girlfriend, but they want to test the waters just to see if she can be bettered or the other girl provides a different experience. People tend to think the grass is greener on the other side.

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#15 AFBrat77
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[QUOTE="Blue-Sky"]

Men are only as faithful as their options.

Cheating doesn't mean much to someone if they can pull any fish they want.

The_Gaming_Baby

What about females?

females are the same way

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#16 FMAB_GTO
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Because the is no true love between both the sides.
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#17 worlock77
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The reasons people cheat are as varied as people themselves.

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#18 The_Gaming_Baby
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i used to and i always got marked*once a player always a player*but i found someone and it's not the case

and it sucks and i regret it.

but sometimes people don't get enough out of one relationship

though my view still stands sex is just sex.doesn't mean i love you.

almasdeathchild
What was going through your head when you were cheating? Did you feel guilty after? Did your girlfriend ever find out?
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#19 v13_KiiLtz
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something you wanna tell us? did your girly friend go off and make nasties with another bloke lol
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#20 Fightingfan
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Genetics, men are not mean't to be with one woman solely. Men spread their seed widely, women spread their seed wisely.
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#21 Ilovegames1992
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I don't know.

But i find adultery in any form absolutely fvcking abhorrent.

Don't think i could live with myself if i did that.

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#22 Fightingfan
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I don't know.

But i find adultery in any form absolutely fvcking abhorrent.

Don't think i could live with myself if i did that.

Ilovegames1992
Masturbation is a form of adultery. You don't masturbate
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You play a game, you get bored of it, and then you buy a new game.
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#24 Ilovegames1992
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[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

I don't know.

But i find adultery in any form absolutely fvcking abhorrent.

Don't think i could live with myself if i did that.

Fightingfan

Masturbation is a form of adultery. You don't masturbate

Even though its not, i'll bite:

Who am i personally cheating on at the moment when i knock one out?

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#25 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="Fightingfan"][QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

I don't know.

But i find adultery in any form absolutely fvcking abhorrent.

Don't think i could live with myself if i did that.

Ilovegames1992

Masturbation is a form of adultery. You don't masturbate

Even though its not, i'll bite:

Who am i personally cheating on at the moment when i knock one out?

If you're in a relationship you're defecating to someone/something other then your wife. Which is why it's looked down upon in the church.
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#26 Wolls
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Could be hundreds of reasons. People are only human, no reason they should be expected to live up to anything more
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#27 Ilovegames1992
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[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

[QUOTE="Fightingfan"] Masturbation is a form of adultery. You don't masturbateFightingfan

Even though its not, i'll bite:

Who am i personally cheating on at the moment when i knock one out?

If you're in a relationship you're defecating to someone/something other then your wife. Which is why it's looked down upon in the church.

I'd never defecate to my wife.

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#28 noscope-ak47
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Nothing better than vagina besides new vagina is what the evil penis monster says. The only way not to cheat is to lock yourself in the house. When a woman offers you sex the natural thing to do is say yes unless she is fat or ugly, You may say no the first time and tell her you have a girl but then they take it as a challenge. The evil penis always wins in the end and women like the penis so what can you do ??

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#29 ThisIsTwoFace
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Why is it that in threads like this, the same OTAH fappers have to mention Masturbation And on that sad topic, masturbation itself isn't a sin but the act of it is if you think of people other than your partner. The Bible I believe mentions nothing about it. Its lame anyway only guys who get no action need to do it and as 90 percent of OTAH do it.. LOL.

On to the OP Question - Well obviously people are gonna cheat when they aren't satisfied with what they have. Women cheat for stuff like money while men do it because they see someone who is better looking than what they already have.

However what you see on the Media is just a cover, Men/Women cheating on each other its way deeper than what the media makes it out to be.

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[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

[QUOTE="Fightingfan"] Masturbation is a form of adultery. You don't masturbateFightingfan

Even though its not, i'll bite:

Who am i personally cheating on at the moment when i knock one out?

If you're in a relationship you're defecating to someone/something other then your wife. Which is why it's looked down upon in the church.

Look up the word defacate and rethink your post.
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#31 GazaAli
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Because they suck, period.
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#32 Dogswithguns
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I don't know why. but I never..
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#33 AdamPA1006
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My ex who cheated on my had really low self esteem, and when a guy gave her attention she was all for it. She couldnt believe that guys wanted to hook up with her
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#34 noscope-ak47
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My ex who cheated on my had really low self esteem, and when a guy gave her attention she was all for it. She couldnt believe that guys wanted to hook up with herAdamPA1006
Your only as faithful as your options if your fat or ugly chances are you will jump at the chance to cheat when it presents itself. Even good looking people love attention and if their mate is slipping up they will look else where.

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#35 GazaAli
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[QUOTE="AdamPA1006"]My ex who cheated on my had really low self esteem, and when a guy gave her attention she was all for it. She couldnt believe that guys wanted to hook up with hernoscope-ak47

Your only as faithful as your options if your fat or ugly chances are you will jump at the chance to cheat when it presents itself. Even good looking people love attention and if their mate is slipping up they will look else where.

how insightful :roll:
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#36 almasdeathchild
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[QUOTE="almasdeathchild"]

i used to and i always got marked*once a player always a player*but i found someone and it's not the case

and it sucks and i regret it.

but sometimes people don't get enough out of one relationship

though my view still stands sex is just sex.doesn't mean i love you.

The_Gaming_Baby

What was going through your head when you were cheating? Did you feel guilty after? Did your girlfriend ever find out?

ive cheated 4 times hated it every time.i was deep with one and that *one that got away* tempted me and i felt guilt.badly.

not too long later well lets just say karma hit.

took a friend in

got a girl i wanted to marry

he takes her cheating behind my back

turns all my friends against me

became friendless for atleast 3 years.

so yeah.....

also for what was going through me head.a feminine sissy boy trying to act masculine had very bad results.

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#37 Lockedge
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Because they don't care enough for who they're currently dating to split with them before moving onto someone else. They're selfish beasts.
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#38 Fightingfan
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[QUOTE="Fightingfan"][QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

Even though its not, i'll bite:

Who am i personally cheating on at the moment when i knock one out?

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If you're in a relationship you're defecating to someone/something other then your wife. Which is why it's looked down upon in the church.

Look up the word defacate and rethink your post.

It's still used somewhat correctly, 'the act in eliminating solids from the body/To clear or dreg impurities'. I was trying to use it as a form of 'release'.
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#39 heartless4ever
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Lack of attention, not getting laid enough, etc. The list goes on.

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#40 Darksonic666
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I guess those kinds of people aren't truly in love.

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#41 invisibletearsx
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A guy once told me: " Because I thought I could get away with it "

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#42 PlayBoi_92
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Why do people casually cheat on their partner? I don't mean a full blown affair, but when someone simply kisses another person or maybe even sleeps with someone else.

The_Gaming_Baby
ur an idiot, its better to cheat sleeping or kissing than have a full blown affair.
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#44 hartsickdiscipl
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Because they lack respect for their partner and the relationship. No matter what other reasons they may think they have, that is the real issue.

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#45 hartsickdiscipl
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[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

I don't know.

But i find adultery in any form absolutely fvcking abhorrent.

Don't think i could live with myself if i did that.

Fightingfan

Masturbation is a form of adultery. You don't masturbate

No, it's not. Don't try to give some convoluted explanation as to how it is. It's just not. Adultery MUST include another person.

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#46 ThisIsTwoFace
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[QUOTE="Ilovegames1992"]

I don't know.

But i find adultery in any form absolutely fvcking abhorrent.

Don't think i could live with myself if i did that.

Fightingfan

Masturbation is a form of adultery. You don't masturbate

Lol. This is a sign that you get no action with Girls, thats straight BS.

Your typical OTAH Fapper right here.

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#47 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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Not every relationship is a pefect one. Sometimes people get bored of the same person. idk.

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Here is MY take and a short story on why I think some men and women have the urge to cheat in 2012, also please take it with a grain of salt. Think back cave man days, When men were hunting wild and deadly animals with sticks and stones to bring back food for the family.

Who knew if he was coming back from that trip. (saber tooth tiger probably ate him or he found some other pretty little woman) While he is gone here comes some other caveman from some other tribe in your area hunting for food as well or already has food.

The female is all about protecting and feeding her "cub" so she needs "security" and since she cant hunt saber tooth tigers and she does not know if her caveman is dead and coming back with food, she smashes red Berries and paints her lips red ( red hooker lipstick IN 2012 terms) to signal to the New caveman "hey I will mate with you but only if you give me what you "have"....FOOD which is security to her cub!

Think why most prostitutes wear bright red lip stick?

NOTE: this is what her cave man is doing while he is hunting also

Of course the caveman takes the bait makes a baby with her and gives her food and moves on to the next 3 tribes doing the same thing and THEN goes back home to feed his family and then ALWAYS comes back to see if she needs more "security" to feed his new cub.

When it comes down to it I think people cheat because it is somewhat instinct and almost primal. I dont think the human species would have made it very far if we only had monogamous affairs back in the day.

I believe some Women do it for security even though they can make their own money and can take care of them selfs in 2012 its just instinct to have more then one mate just in case your MATE finds someone else or he never comes home. The reason why men cheat is kind of like the story i just told, we are always on the prowl looking for that woman who needs Comfort or Security.

This is not the only reason why people cheat but just something I thought of.

IM ALSO NOT SAYING ALL PEOPLE CHEAT OR ARE LIKE THIS AND PLEASE DONT GET OFFENDED, ITS JUST A THOUGHT AND OPINION AND I WAS BORED AS YOU CAN TELL AND THIS IS NOT TO BE TAKEN SERIOUS.

Replace food with money and replace hunting with working for 2012 understanding lol.

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#49 deactivated-5a79221380856
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Well, according to what I've read, men cheat because they are sexually attracted to another woman or because there is a great income disparity between him and his partner. Women cheat because they're unhappy in their relationship and they want something more without ending the current relationship. Or so that's how I read what I read.
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#50 The_Gaming_Baby
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[QUOTE="The_Gaming_Baby"]

Why do people casually cheat on their partner? I don't mean a full blown affair, but when someone simply kisses another person or maybe even sleeps with someone else.

PlayBoi_92
ur an idiot, its better to cheat sleeping or kissing than have a full blown affair.

Wait, why am I an idiot? I didn't even state an opinion, I just asked a question