Should I ask This Girl to be My Girlfriend?

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#1 x8VXU6
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OK, is it just me or do I post the most threads about girl problems :cry: but I kinda like it :D

Alrite here is the story. So last week at lunch this girl came up to me and said her friend wanted to talk to me, I was like ok tell her to come over here where Im at. When she came over she was fine with a big butt(Yes Im black 8) ), so I got her number and she went back to her other table. OK yesterday I texted her and we was talking about nothing really until she asked if I had a goyfriend and I said no then I ask if she had a boyfriend and she said no. Then she said she was scared to call me because she was shy, anyways she called me 20 minutes later saying she is to old to be shy(she is in the 12th and Im in the 10th grade) but we was talking about dumb stuff really just having a good time laughing on the phone. So do you think I should ask her out or wait a little longer because I kinda like her but yeah what do you think

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#2 xTheExploited
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If you like her then go for it before someone else does.
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#3 bigblunt537
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Probably not. Sounds like you spoke to her on the phone once and ya had a good time. Talk to her a couple of more times before you make a move maybe even take her out at least once.

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#4 jpph
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10th grade? how old does that make you? you must explain to us europeans

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#5 rawsavon
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Too soon...
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#6 FragStains
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Based on a quick scan of your file here, it looks like you should ask every girl to be your girlfriend. Play the odds and hope one says yes.
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#7 Snipes_2
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10th grade? how old does that make you? you must explain to us europeans

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I think he's around 15 or 16.
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#8 Snipes_2
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I wouldn't ask her to be your girlfriend. Not yet at least.

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#9 Witchsight
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Usually hanging out comes before asking someone to be your girlfriend. Actually, buy her a ring first.
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#10 kbk1989
Member since 2004 • 109 Posts

Probably 15, 16. If you like her I would say go for it. However if you have other interests in someone else then I would wait and see what happens, if you develop more feelings for this one etc. Good luck bro :D.

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#11 deactivated-5c37d3adcd094
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No. Become her friend first. That way, you don't have to buy her things or pretend what she says is remotely interesting (much).
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#12 Solid_Tango
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If you like her go for it dude :)
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#13 kidsmelly
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Its high school, you should ask every single girl that seems interested out. You might get lucky.

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#14 jpph
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[QUOTE="jpph"]

10th grade? how old does that make you? you must explain to us europeans

Snipes_2

I think he's around 15 or 16.

ah, thanks for that.

no tc you shouldnt ask her to be your gf, you don't know her yet. go on a few dates first?

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#15 Baskervore
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You should definitely go for it, but be reasonable about it. First, ask her to go out on a very light casual time out (which can just barely be called a date) a few times. Then ask for exclusivity once you're both really into each other.
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#16 Fuhgeddabouditt
Member since 2010 • 5468 Posts

hey, you dont have to be black to like girls that actually have "shape. ;)" As for the rest of what you said, you should ask her out, no need on continuing.

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#17 Michelle4003
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you're in the 10th grade and she's in the 12th grade? aren't u too young for her? sounds a little strange, that wouldn't happen in my school
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#18 elblanquito_81
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I think you should have sex with her first before asking her to be your girl. You know, just take a test-drive first.

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#19 x8VXU6
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you're in the 10th grade and she's in the 12th grade? aren't u too young for her? sounds a little strange, that wouldn't happen in my schoolMichelle4003
not really Im 17 and she is 18 I started school a year late thats why Im in the 10th and the the 11th

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#20 DEVILinIRON
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You should ask her to be MY girlfriend...
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#21 Fire_Ants
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Don't do it. Girls have this magical ability to sap you of your hard earned cash.
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#22 CrisisFrmTheSky
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Don't do it. Girls have this magical ability to sap you of your hard earned cash.Fire_Ants

I must say I was let down. I was expecting else that was hard to be sapped upon.

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#23 spawnassasin
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yeah

but first id make her walk the guanlet
make her prove she wants you
if she cant pass it then i would waste my time with her8)

[spoiler] :P [/spoiler]

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#24 AngrySpider
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Based on a quick scan of your file here, it looks like you should ask every girl to be your girlfriend. Play the odds and hope one says yes.FragStains

It's what I do and it worked for me...once.

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#25 Michelle4003
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[QUOTE="Michelle4003"]you're in the 10th grade and she's in the 12th grade? aren't u too young for her? sounds a little strange, that wouldn't happen in my schoolx8VXU6

not really Im 17 and she is 18 I started school a year late thats why Im in the 10th and the the 11th

then ask her on a date first, get to know her first
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#26 x8VXU6
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[QUOTE="x8VXU6"]

[QUOTE="Michelle4003"]you're in the 10th grade and she's in the 12th grade? aren't u too young for her? sounds a little strange, that wouldn't happen in my schoolMichelle4003

not really Im 17 and she is 18 I started school a year late thats why Im in the 10th and the the 11th

then ask her on a date first, get to know her first

dates cost money and if Im spending money than she is my girlfriend

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#27 kidsmelly
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dates cost money and if Im spending money than she is my girlfriend

x8VXU6

No

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#28 Fire_Ants
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[QUOTE="Fire_Ants"]Don't do it. Girls have this magical ability to sap you of your hard earned cash.CrisisFrmTheSky

I must say I was let down. I was expecting else that was hard to be sapped upon.

There's also that...but it's on the verge of being illegal for his lady friend (if she is 18 yet)
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#29 metallica_fan42
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Sure it wouldn't hurt.
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#30 ArmoredAshes
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Hang out in person. How both of you act there is more important than how you talk on the phone.

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#31 TheNewEraIcon
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Being Black dosen't matter lol I'm Serbian and I like women that have curves. Anyways I'd say you may as well go for it, if there's anything i've learned it's if you wait too long the chance will slip

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#32 x8VXU6
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Being Black dosen't matter lol I'm Serbian and I like women that have curves. Anyways I'd say you may as well go for it, if there's anything i've learned it's if you wait too long the chance will slip

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yea your rite I guess I need to go for it

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#33 tofu-lion91
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Ah Gamespot :lol: If she spoke to you once it must mean she loves you and wants to get married but don't have sex or she'll get pregnant and DIE :o
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#34 Vandalvideo
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[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"]Ah Gamespot :lol: If she spoke to you once it must mean she loves you and wants to get married but don't have sex or she'll get pregnant and DIE :o

Welcome to How Men Think 101. Maybe you women shouldn't be so flirty.
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#35 kidsmelly
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Ah Gamespot :lol: If she spoke to you once it must mean she loves you and wants to get married but don't have sex or she'll get pregnant and DIE :otofu-lion91

Very sound advice. However she well not get pregnant as long as he puts a condom over his face.

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#36 Wolls
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[QUOTE="Vandalvideo"][QUOTE="tofu-lion91"]Ah Gamespot :lol: If she spoke to you once it must mean she loves you and wants to get married but don't have sex or she'll get pregnant and DIE :o

Welcome to How Men Think 101. Maybe you women shouldn't be so flirty.

Lol thats one thing she aint :P
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#37 tofu-lion91
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Welcome to How Men Think 101. Maybe you women shouldn't be so flirty. Vandalvideo

;)

Well I saw someone on here once say that this girl he knows hugs people she isn't close friends with / in a relationship which makes her a hussy :lol: So I think my "Don't get pregnant and die" advice is pretty sound on these boards

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#38 muller39
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Tenth grade is a little soon in my opinion but however I think you should ask her just to hang out outside of school first.

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#39 XilePrincess
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Go for it. There's not really a reason not to.
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#40 Michelle4003
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[QUOTE="kidsmelly"]

[QUOTE="x8VXU6"] dates cost money and if Im spending money than she is my girlfriend

No

so just hang out with her at school untill you know her better and then ask her..because right now u barely know her..asking her would make you look desperate
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#41 x8VXU6
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Ah Gamespot :lol: If she spoke to you once it must mean she loves you and wants to get married but don't have sex or she'll get pregnant and DIE :otofu-lion91
OCH!!!!!!!............my pride hurts :cry:

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#42 jrnhanie0310
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i say go for it

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#43 gago-gago
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No, get with her girl friend instead.

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#44 Jaks_Publicity
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Never, ever, ever ask a woman to be your girlfriend. Just ask for a date and let it progress to relationship status on its own.
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#45 Gaming-Planet
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DO it! With a nice ass like that you will regret it if you don't.

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#46 sexy_fool69
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Never, ever, ever ask a woman to be your girlfriend. Just ask for a date and let it progress to relationship status on its own.Jaks_Publicity
When I saw your name I read it as Jakes_Puberty. I just thought I would let the whole world know.
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#47 ghoklebutter
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I wouldn't do it.
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#48 ghoklebutter
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[QUOTE="Jaks_Publicity"]Never, ever, ever ask a woman to be your girlfriend. Just ask for a date and let it progress to relationship status on its own.sexy_fool69
When I saw your name I read it as Jakes_Puberty. I just thought I would let the whole world know.

Lol buurnn :lol:
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#49 TSNAKE617
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I'd talk to her a little bit more.

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#50 Jaks_Publicity
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[QUOTE="Jaks_Publicity"]Never, ever, ever ask a woman to be your girlfriend. Just ask for a date and let it progress to relationship status on its own.sexy_fool69
When I saw your name I read it as Jakes_Puberty. I just thought I would let the whole world know.

I'm trying to find a way to say "cool story, bro" without coming off as uncreative.