Should a 21 year old be dating a 16 year old?

My cousin is 21, going on 22 in August. He is going out with a girl that just turned 16 in January!

I keep telling him it's wrong but he says age is just a number and no age difference will come between him and his true love.

My cousin is 21, going on 22 in August. He is going out with a girl that just turned 16 in January!

I keep telling him it's wrong but he says age is just a number and no age difference will come between him and his true love.

xTw1st4x

my mate 19 is "being innapropriate" a chick thats 14 now thats wrong because shes not devoloped 0_o ahem..

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My cousin is 21, going on 22 in August. He is going out with a girl that just turned 16 in January!

I keep telling him it's wrong but he says age is just a number and no age difference will come between him and his true love.

hurley_house

my mate 19 is banging a chick thats 14 now thats wrong because shes not devoloped 0_o

Well, she's at the legal age (For, you know)... It's probably alright.TheLordRagnarok

Not necessarily true. Most states in the US say you must be atleast 18 years old to have sex without the consent of parents. The age varies from state to state, i think you can find a map that shows it on google.

[QUOTE="TheLordRagnarok"]Well, she's at the legal age (For, you know)... It's probably alright.Tolwan

Not necessarily true. Most states in the US say you must be atleast 18 years old to have sex without the consent of parents. The age varies from state to state, i think you can find a map that shows it on google.

Oh, my bad, it's 16 in Australia... US law must be different.

My cousin is 21, going on 22 in August. He is going out with a girl that just turned 16 in January!

I keep telling him it's wrong but he says age is just a number and no age difference will come between him and his true love.

xTw1st4x

5 years difference is alright but not at that age she is too young when shes 18 or 20 then its alright.

Actually its fine. As long as they don't have any kind of physical sex with eachother, its perfectly fine.

no age difference will come between him and true love

but the law and statuory rape will

Actually its fine. As long as they don't have any kind of physical sex with eachother, its perfectly fine.

Cedmln

I'm 52 and I'm going out with a 15 year old.EmilioDigsIt

Nothing wrong with that >.>.

[QUOTE="Cedmln"]

Actually its fine. As long as they don't have any kind of physical sex with eachother, its perfectly fine.

linkthewindow

Bill's case was different than what i'm trying to say, lol.

What i'm trying to say is that if someone is over the age of consent (I mean any age you're considered an adult) it is fine to date or have a relationship with a minor as long as they do not have sex of any type, such as oral, anal vagi... you get eth picture. Kissing and cuddling is fine. Just don't molest the minor. lol

Actually its fine. As long as they don't have any kind of physical sex with eachother, its perfectly fine.

Cedmln

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Actually its fine. As long as they don't have any kind of physical sex with eachother, its perfectly fine.

Bloodbath_87

lol why is that "rape"? Its only rape when the girl doesnt want to have sex

[QUOTE="Bloodbath_87"][QUOTE="Cedmln"]

Actually its fine. As long as they don't have any kind of physical sex with eachother, its perfectly fine.

killerfist

lol why is that "rape"? Its only rape when the girl doesnt want to have sex

That is simply not true.

[QUOTE="xTw1st4x"]

My cousin is 21, going on 22 in August. He is going out with a girl that just turned 16 in January!

I keep telling him it's wrong but he says age is just a number and no age difference will come between him and his true love.

hurley_house

my mate 19 is "being innapropriate" a chick thats 14 now thats wrong because shes not devoloped 0_o ahem..

Your mate should be locked up, can he not get chicks his age?

My cousin is 21, going on 22 in August. He is going out with a girl that just turned 16 in January!

I keep telling him it's wrong but he says age is just a number and no age difference will come between him and his true love.

xTw1st4x

yep it's fine

[QUOTE="killerfist"][QUOTE="Bloodbath_87"][QUOTE="Cedmln"]

Actually its fine. As long as they don't have any kind of physical sex with eachother, its perfectly fine.

gobo212

lol why is that "rape"? Its only rape when the girl doesnt want to have sex

That is simply not true.

[QUOTE="gobo212"][QUOTE="killerfist"][QUOTE="Bloodbath_87"][QUOTE="Cedmln"]

Actually its fine. As long as they don't have any kind of physical sex with eachother, its perfectly fine.

killerfist

lol why is that "rape"? Its only rape when the girl doesnt want to have sex

That is simply not true.

I thought most countries had age of consent laws... Or am I mistaken?

[QUOTE="killerfist"][QUOTE="gobo212"][QUOTE="killerfist"][QUOTE="Bloodbath_87"][QUOTE="Cedmln"]

Actually its fine. As long as they don't have any kind of physical sex with eachother, its perfectly fine.

gobo212

lol why is that "rape"? Its only rape when the girl doesnt want to have sex

That is simply not true.

I thought most countries had age of consent laws... Or am I mistaken?

In Holland its 16 I believe, but my point is the "rape" definition. over here its called rape when someone has sexual intercourse (of any kind) against her/his will

[QUOTE="gobo212"][QUOTE="killerfist"][QUOTE="gobo212"][QUOTE="killerfist"][QUOTE="Bloodbath_87"][QUOTE="Cedmln"]

Actually its fine. As long as they don't have any kind of physical sex with eachother, its perfectly fine.

killerfist

lol why is that "rape"? Its only rape when the girl doesnt want to have sex

That is simply not true.

I thought most countries had age of consent laws... Or am I mistaken?

In Holland its 16 I believe, but my point is the "rape" definition. over here its called rape when someone has sexual intercourse (of any kind) against her/his will

You don't call it rape if someone under the age of consent has sex with someone older? What do you call it then?

You don't call it rape if someone under the age of consent has sex with someone older? What do you call it then?

gobo212

over here someone at age 16 is considered mature enough to know whats best for them in terms of sex. its fine as long as both parties are up for it and are doing it in free will.

[QUOTE="gobo212"][QUOTE="killerfist"][QUOTE="gobo212"][QUOTE="killerfist"][QUOTE="gobo212"][QUOTE="killerfist"][QUOTE="Bloodbath_87"][QUOTE="Cedmln"]

Actually its fine. As long as they don't have any kind of physical sex with eachother, its perfectly fine.

killerfist

lol why is that "rape"? Its only rape when the girl doesnt want to have sex

That is simply not true.

I thought most countries had age of consent laws... Or am I mistaken?

In Holland its 16 I believe, but my point is the "rape" definition. over here its called rape when someone has sexual intercourse (of any kind) against her/his will

You don't call it rape if someone under the age of consent has sex with someone older? What do you call it then?

over here someone at age 16 is considered mature enough to know whats best for them in terms of sex. its fine as long as both parties are up for it and are doing it in free will.

So a 14 year old having "relations" with a 20 year old isn't called statutory rape? Is it called anything? Can the 20 year old go to jail for this in your country?

So a 14 year old having "relations" with a 20 year old isn't called statutory rape? Is it called anything? Can the 20 year old go to jail for this in your country?

gobo212

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So a 14 year old having "relations" with a 20 year old isn't called statutory rape? Is it called anything? Can the 20 year old go to jail for this in your country?

linkthewindow

So you mean there isn't a specific term for it (as far as you know) but the 20 year old (in my example) could still go to jail?

I would say no, just because there's a vast difference in life experience, mentality, etc. between your average 16-year-old and your average 21-year-old. Hell, I'm only 19 and I'd have serious doubts about dating a 16-year-old. But hey, if they're actually in a relationship for good reasons and he isn't just using her for sex...who knows. It could work out, stranger things have happened.

Reminds me of my brother-in-law's cousin. She just turned 16 and her mother's signing for her to get married to some 21-year-old guy...now THAT's screwed up.

[QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="gobo212"]

So a 14 year old having "relations" with a 20 year old isn't called statutory rape? Is it called anything? Can the 20 year old go to jail for this in your country?

gobo212

So you mean there isn't a specific term for it (as far as you know) but the 20 year old (in my example) could still go to jail?

[QUOTE="gobo212"][QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="gobo212"]

So a 14 year old having "relations" with a 20 year old isn't called statutory rape? Is it called anything? Can the 20 year old go to jail for this in your country?

linkthewindow

So you mean there isn't a specific term for it (as far as you know) but the 20 year old (in my example) could still go to jail?

So it seems that its the same in the states but we simply have a specific term for it.

[QUOTE="gobo212"][QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="gobo212"]

So a 14 year old having "relations" with a 20 year old isn't called statutory rape? Is it called anything? Can the 20 year old go to jail for this in your country?

linkthewindow

So you mean there isn't a specific term for it (as far as you know) but the 20 year old (in my example) could still go to jail?

Here in Aus if they have sex then its called statutory rape. I don't think there is any law that says they can't have a relationship.

[QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="gobo212"][QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="gobo212"]

So a 14 year old having "relations" with a 20 year old isn't called statutory rape? Is it called anything? Can the 20 year old go to jail for this in your country?

gobo212

So you mean there isn't a specific term for it (as far as you know) but the 20 year old (in my example) could still go to jail?

So it seems that its the same in the states but we simply have a specific term for it.

The Criminal Code does not now criminalize consensual sexual activity with or between persons 14 or over, unless it takes place in a relationship of trust or dependency, in which case sexual activity with persons over 14 but under 18 can constitute an offence, notwithstanding their consent. Even consensual activity with those under 14 but over 12 may not be an offence if the accused is under 16 and less than two years older than the complainant. The exception, of course, is anal intercourse, to which unmarried persons under 18 cannot legally consent.

Basicly, if she wants it, you can give it to her, but if she decides not, at any time. Your screwed.

The Criminal Code does not now criminalize consensual sexual activity with or between persons 14 or over, unless it takes place in a relationship of trust or dependency, in which case sexual activity with persons over 14 but under 18 can constitute an offence, notwithstanding their consent. Even consensual activity with those under 14 but over 12 may not be an offence if the accused is under 16 and less than two years older than the complainant. The exception, of course, is anal intercourse, to which unmarried persons under 18 cannot legally consent.

Basicly, if she wants it, you can give it to her, but if she decides not, at any time. Your screwed.

dlindenb2000

[QUOTE="dlindenb2000"]

The Criminal Code does not now criminalize consensual sexual activity with or between persons 14 or over, unless it takes place in a relationship of trust or dependency, in which case sexual activity with persons over 14 but under 18 can constitute an offence, notwithstanding their consent. Even consensual activity with those under 14 but over 12 may not be an offence if the accused is under 16 and less than two years older than the complainant. The exception, of course, is anal intercourse, to which unmarried persons under 18 cannot legally consent.

Basicly, if she wants it, you can give it to her, but if she decides not, at any time. Your screwed.

linkthewindow

[QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="dlindenb2000"]

The Criminal Code does not now criminalize consensual sexual activity with or between persons 14 or over, unless it takes place in a relationship of trust or dependency, in which case sexual activity with persons over 14 but under 18 can constitute an offence, notwithstanding their consent. Even consensual activity with those under 14 but over 12 may not be an offence if the accused is under 16 and less than two years older than the complainant. The exception, of course, is anal intercourse, to which unmarried persons under 18 cannot legally consent.

Basicly, if she wants it, you can give it to her, but if she decides not, at any time. Your screwed.

dlindenb2000

[QUOTE="dlindenb2000"][QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="dlindenb2000"]

The Criminal Code does not now criminalize consensual sexual activity with or between persons 14 or over, unless it takes place in a relationship of trust or dependency, in which case sexual activity with persons over 14 but under 18 can constitute an offence, notwithstanding their consent. Even consensual activity with those under 14 but over 12 may not be an offence if the accused is under 16 and less than two years older than the complainant. The exception, of course, is anal intercourse, to which unmarried persons under 18 cannot legally consent.

Basicly, if she wants it, you can give it to her, but if she decides not, at any time. Your screwed.

linkthewindow

In the US it actually varies from state to state I believe.

EDIT: Darn I was beat to the punch.

[QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="dlindenb2000"][QUOTE="linkthewindow"][QUOTE="dlindenb2000"]

The Criminal Code does not now criminalize consensual sexual activity with or between persons 14 or over, unless it takes place in a relationship of trust or dependency, in which case sexual activity with persons over 14 but under 18 can constitute an offence, notwithstanding their consent. Even consensual activity with those under 14 but over 12 may not be an offence if the accused is under 16 and less than two years older than the complainant. The exception, of course, is anal intercourse, to which unmarried persons under 18 cannot legally consent.

Basicly, if she wants it, you can give it to her, but if she decides not, at any time. Your screwed.

gobo212

In the US it actually varies from state to state I believe.

EDIT: Nevermind, seems like I was wrong. The AoC law was shoehorned into the recent C-2 Bill about gun control, that got passed last month. Forgot about that, my copies of the crimiminal code havn't been updated yet.