Kinda weird question for me. Physically, I've been attracted to women that range anywhere from 18 to their late fifties, so there's a pretty big range there. Most people tend to gravitate towards the people they spend time with, and I spend most of my time around people in their late teens, early twenties because I'm still an undergrad, so that makes me skew younger. However, I find it increasingly hard to connect with people who are significantly younger than me, so I tend to prefer women who are within about five years of me on an emotional level, around 25-35.
I don't know where you guys live but here people usually let themselves go after college if not before. I'm sure attractive 30 or 40 somethings exist it's just they're super rare here. Even rarer are the people that were unattractive in their 20s and then got super fit later in life.
Let themselves go, i.e. their metabolism has kicked into a lower gear like it does for all humans and now they're gaining weight despite eating and exercising the same amount because getting older is hard.
I think there's slightly more to it than that.
Yep. They could have some sort of glandular problem that didn't kick in until adulthood, they could be one some medication that's affecting their weight (like birth control), they could be depressed, they could be genetically predisposed to getting heavier as they get older, they could have gotten pregnant. There are literally hundreds of things that are completely out of their control that could affect their weight, just because they're heavier doesn't mean they've "let themselves go."
I can't tell if you're earnest or messing with me.
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