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#1 xNJN
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Guys.. I really like this girl, and we're basically dating now.. But we're afraid to tell anyone. We have no intentions of sex, just a good old fashioned relationship!... He dad would probably kill me, which sucks because with my exes, I used to hang out with their dads. I dunno what to do OT...
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#2 Boba_Fett_3710
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Get her pregnant and move into low income housing. I hear that's what kids are doing these days.
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#3 auron_16
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Guys.. I really like this girl, and we're basically dating now.. But we're afraid to tell anyone. We have no intentions of sex, just a good old fashioned relationship!... He dad would probably kill me, which sucks because with my exes, I used to hang out with their dads. I dunno what to do OT... xNJN
END IT NOW!!!!!!!!! or it'll end even uglier later. your the older one, you should know better.
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#4 Setsa
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5 years isn't the worst I've seen. A gr.9 at my high school is currently dating a 24 year old.... So, take some comfort in knowing you don't have the biggest age gap between yourself and your partner :P
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#7 RiseAgainst12
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to big an age difference mate, doesnt that technically make you a pedophile...
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#9 Curlyfrii87
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Just make sure her parents are okay with this! Thats your best shot IMO. :?
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#11 CBR600-RR
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I find that rather disturbing. She's not legal.
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#12 Boba_Fett_3710
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I couldn't be with a woman that was not fully developed...but that's just me.
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#13 DeeJayInphinity
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Like I said before, that's low dude. If you feel she's ready for it, go for it but don't do anything illegal.
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#14 THE_DRUGGIE
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Give her a copy of Ken Griffey Jr. Baseball for the N64.

But you shouldn't be messing around with people under the legal age.

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#15 Adoboy327
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Come on man you should be mature enough to know this isn't really a good idea. There are plenty of things that can go wrong. If anything stay in the "friend zone."
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#17 Setsa
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[QUOTE="auron_16"][QUOTE="xNJN"]Guys.. I really like this girl, and we're basically dating now.. But we're afraid to tell anyone. We have no intentions of sex, just a good old fashioned relationship!... He dad would probably kill me, which sucks because with my exes, I used to hang out with their dads. I dunno what to do OT... xNJN
END IT NOW!!!!!!!!! or it'll end even uglier later. your the older one, you should know better.

know better what? what is better to know?

You're an adult, she isn't :o
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#18 AAllxxjjnn
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[QUOTE="RiseAgainst12"]to big an age difference mate, doesnt that technically make you a pedophile...xNJN
no sex involved.. mate!

Yeh i really doubt there will be no sex involved.
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#20 Dark_Knight6
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I'd say that's too large of an age gap.

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#21 AirGuitarist87
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To me, that's wrong. You can drink, drive (not at the same time, and under UK law), have a full time job and apply for a mortgage. She can't even buy cigarettes yet.
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#22 KLAX42
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Well, technically that's a felony...

I won't tell anybody though.

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#24 Curlyfrii87
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[QUOTE="Curlyfrii87"]Just make sure her parents are okay with this! Thats your best shot IMO. :?xNJN
"I can't let you do that Starfox" xD nah.. they'd flip.. -_-*

Well then, you may just be out of luck... cuz keeping it secret will just bring up a whole new set of problems! ;)

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#25 Boba_Fett_3710
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[QUOTE="AAllxxjjnn"] Yeh i really doubt there will be no sex involved.

Damn, so many filthy zingers but do I really want to get modded for it?
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#26 deactivated-5df4e79c309ad
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Guys.. I really like this girl, and we're basically dating now.. But we're afraid to tell anyone. We have no intentions of sex, just a good old fashioned relationship!... He dad would probably kill me, which sucks because with my exes, I used to hang out with their dads. I dunno what to do OT... xNJN
If there is no sex, then I see nothing wrong with it. People should judge you on your conduct, not age differences.
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#27 deactivated-59da85d821feb
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Give her a copy of Ken Griffey Jr. Baseball for the N64.

But you shouldn't be messing around with people under the legal age.

THE_DRUGGIE
Haha yeah, do that. And you need butter if you plan to do anything.... ;)
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#28 Setsa
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[QUOTE="Setsa"][QUOTE="xNJN"] know better what? what is better to know? xNJN
You're an adult, she isn't :o

Yea, so? I have patience...

When someone is still maturing, they tend to have a different idea of what a relationship entails. It's good that you're willing to wait, but an age gap like that means you will be waiting quite a while, and it also means that you'll probably be marrying later in life if things work out :P Also, at the age of 14, most girls aren't really that committed to a stable relationship, meaning that things may not go as you please :( Just giving my 2 cents though.
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#29 fmacraze
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You're older, be the mature one and stop dating her. Just be friends or something. --Unrelated-- It's snowing outside =D
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#30 THE_DRUGGIE
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[QUOTE="THE_DRUGGIE"]

Give her a copy of Ken Griffey Jr. Baseball for the N64.

But you shouldn't be messing around with people under the legal age.

comeonthehoops

Haha yeah, do that. And you need butter if you plan to do anything.... ;)

But that'll cause a burnt situation. :o

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#31 Boba_Fett_3710
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[QUOTE="xNJN"]Guys.. I really like this girl, and we're basically dating now.. But we're afraid to tell anyone. We have no intentions of sex, just a good old fashioned relationship!... He dad would probably kill me, which sucks because with my exes, I used to hang out with their dads. I dunno what to do OT... Jemdude
If there is no sex, then I see nothing wrong with it.

A relationship without sex is like a cake without frosting. It's still awesome but you know it could be so much better.
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#32 deactivated-5901ac91d8e33
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Why are you attracted to a kid? Get someone your own age instead.
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#34 R0cky_Racc00n
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Seriously, you have to find someone your own age. Even if she's smart, you need a woman much more grown and mature than that. It's impossible for a 14 year old to be mature enough for a 19 year old. Come back to her in maybe 3 years at the least.
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#35 Bourbons3
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5 years isn't too bad. But when the youngest person in question is 14, then you're walking on dangerous groun.
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#36 auron_16
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[QUOTE="auron_16"][QUOTE="xNJN"]Guys.. I really like this girl, and we're basically dating now.. But we're afraid to tell anyone. We have no intentions of sex, just a good old fashioned relationship!... He dad would probably kill me, which sucks because with my exes, I used to hang out with their dads. I dunno what to do OT... xNJN
END IT NOW!!!!!!!!! or it'll end even uglier later. your the older one, you should know better.

know better what? what is better to know?

than to date someone that young! is it that hard to find a girl your own age? i'm not trying to be mean. there are plenty of fish in the sea, man.
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#38 II_Seraphim_II
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Hope you like orange jump suits :?
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#39 chester706
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End it now.
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#40 Curlyfrii87
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I've had sex before.. I have an imagination.. If I get THAT horny I'll just imagine if..xNJN

Well, now that you've said that...... End It!

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#41 KOTORkicker
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That's great. Anything else you'd like to share?
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#42 Funky_Llama
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You'll be 24 before you pass the Standard Creepiness Factor. Algebra... actually useful. Holy ****.
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#43 dan-rofl-copter
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i would personally say end it if her dad found out, or the police
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#44 domatron23
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Make sure you always refer to the the age difference test before you do this stuff mate.

Take your age divide it by two and then add seven years to get the lowest socially acceptable age for you to date. So your one would be (19/2) + 7 = 16.5

Yup you're over two years under buddy. You'll have to wait until you're twenty four to date her.

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#46 deactivated-5df4e79c309ad
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[QUOTE="Jemdude"][QUOTE="xNJN"]Guys.. I really like this girl, and we're basically dating now.. But we're afraid to tell anyone. We have no intentions of sex, just a good old fashioned relationship!... He dad would probably kill me, which sucks because with my exes, I used to hang out with their dads. I dunno what to do OT... xNJN
If there is no sex, then I see nothing wrong with it. People should judge you on your conduct, not age differences.

Finally! Someone along the lines of what I was thinking! :) thanks

You're welcome. Besides, if things work out, you can marry her in 4 years time.
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#47 Jamiemydearx3
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Guys.. I really like this girl, and we're basically dating now.. But we're afraid to tell anyone. We have no intentions of sex, just a good old fashioned relationship!... He dad would probably kill me, which sucks because with my exes, I used to hang out with their dads. I dunno what to do OT... xNJN
Just be good friends then.
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#48 N8A
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Get her pregnant and move into low income housing. I hear that's what kids are doing these days.Boba_Fett_3710
This sounds reasonable.
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#49 R0cky_Racc00n
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I've had sex before.. I have an imagination.. If I get THAT horny I'll just imagine if..xNJN
You'll use your imagination and it will be too much to keep inside and then the next thing you know you're convincing her for sex.
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#50 mindstorm
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umm... I highly recommend at the very least waiting until she has graduate high school. Be friends until then.