If it's racist to not want to date someone because of their race...

It's not racist, but I notice threads like these seem to focus on black women. If your not into them that's your prerogative but I honestly think this thread just derailed into a thread with rationalisations of why black women aren't preferred by some guys. The fact that no other races are even mentioned admittedly rubs me the wrong way a bit.

theycallmeRP

[QUOTE="cd_rom"]Depends. Scenario 1: "I won't date a black girl because I simply do not find them very attractive." No. Scenario 2: "I won't date a black girl because she my steal my stuff.". Yes.Genetic_Code

Some black people steal stuff, but that has nothing to do with their race. It's because most poor people are black unfortunately.

On topic: I guess it's kind of racist to not date people because of racial physical traits, but that sexism thing is untrue.

Off topic: What race are Hispanics and people from the Middle East?

No, it's not racist.

[QUOTE="theycallmeRP"]

It's not racist, but I notice threads like these seem to focus on black women. If your not into them that's your prerogative but I honestly think this thread just derailed into a thread with rationalisations of why black women aren't preferred by some guys. The fact that no other races are even mentioned admittedly rubs me the wrong way a bit.

DigitalExile

All I know is, my sister is a gamer and visits gaming sites. And honestly I'm glad she doesn't have an account here to read threads like these that seem to pop up from time to time. It may be old-school, but I think the old motto "if you don't have anything nice to say..." should be used a little more often.

[QUOTE="MgamerBD"]No its not racist. But you are missing out in my opinion. Each and every race has their own special little perk. Its like pokemon except the battle is sex. *Looks at mistressminako post* Smh...don't let it get to you girl...MistressMinako

[QUOTE="theycallmeRP"]

It's not racist, but I notice threads like these seem to focus on black women. If your not into them that's your prerogative but I honestly think this thread just derailed into a thread with rationalisations of why black women aren't preferred by some guys. The fact that no other races are even mentioned admittedly rubs me the wrong way a bit.

DigitalExile

what kind of questions are these?

because the freaking gay person is the same sex, they are male so how the f*** someone would be sexist if they f****** be disgusted to even imagine the act of a penis in the....oh forget it, Im really shocked this new trend of questions actually exists.

It's not racist, but I notice threads like these seem to focus on black women. If your not into them that's your prerogative but I honestly think this thread just derailed into a thread with rationalisations of why black women aren't preferred by some guys. The fact that no other races are even mentioned admittedly rubs me the wrong way a bit.

theycallmeRP

Dont worry about it, this place is as removed from a representation of the real world, in fact Mixed race people are the fastest growing minority in the US and UK if my research is right

It's not racist.

Nope totally a preference. What do you say to those people like myself who prefer to date outside their race? Are they racist towards themselves or their own race? Hardly.bluelf

Well first off, we have to lockdown the definition of racist. Racism is commonly misused these days.

• I don't want to date [insert race here] because I'm not attracted to her race. Not racist
• I don't want to date [insert race here] because my race is superior. Racist

A girl actually called me a sexist for turning her down. Even if i wasn't gay I still would have turned her down, I prefer my partners to have at least 1 working brain cell left.

Well first off, we have to lockdown the definition of racist. Racism is commonly misused these days.

• I don't want to date [insert race here] because I'm not attracted to her race. Not racist
• I don't want to date [insert race here] because my race is superior. Racist

DroidPhysX

I just can't see how a persons tastes especially for men can exclude a entire race of people.. There are beautiful women in every race that most guys can agree on.. On average that may be the case overall but I honestly would never put it that way..

[QUOTE="DroidPhysX"]

Well first off, we have to lockdown the definition of racist. Racism is commonly misused these days.

• I don't want to date [insert race here] because I'm not attracted to her race. Not racist
• I don't want to date [insert race here] because my race is superior. Racist

sSubZerOo

I just can't see how a persons tastes especially for men can exclude a entire race of people.. There are beautiful women in every race that most guys can agree on.. On average that may be the case overall but I honestly would never put it that way..

how come when race issues are discussed people are always using black people as an example? its like, we're the only different race out their, that bugs me a little. Anyway, TC, I'm a guy and to help out my species i need to find a FEMALE mate to procreate with, I can't have a child with another guy so it doesn't make me sexist. Also, i think its dumb when people say their not attractive to "insert race". I mean to tell me you haven't see one pretty girl from that race? I call BS, and you shouldn't look at the skin of a person but who she is as a person.

how come when race issues are discussed people are always using black people as an example? its like, we're the only different race out their, that bugs me a little. Anyway, TC, I'm a guy and to help out my species i need to find a FEMALE mate to procreate with, I can't have a child with another guy so it doesn't make me sexist. Also, i think its dumb when people say their not attractive to "insert race". I mean to tell me you haven't see one pretty girl from that race? I call BS, and you shouldn't look at the skin of a person but who she is as a person.

Chris_Williams

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[QUOTE="DroidPhysX"]

Well first off, we have to lockdown the definition of racist. Racism is commonly misused these days.

• I don't want to date [insert race here] because I'm not attracted to her race. Not racist
• I don't want to date [insert race here] because my race is superior. Racist

DroidPhysX

I just can't see how a persons tastes especially for men can exclude a entire race of people.. There are beautiful women in every race that most guys can agree on.. On average that may be the case overall but I honestly would never put it that way..

I don't see how you could exclude a entire race.. There are physical features you may not find attractive thats more common in a certain race.. The problem with this is that all races have a IMMENSE range of different looks and physical attributes..

[QUOTE="Chris_Williams"]

how come when race issues are discussed people are always using black people as an example? its like, we're the only different race out their, that bugs me a little. Anyway, TC, I'm a guy and to help out my species i need to find a FEMALE mate to procreate with, I can't have a child with another guy so it doesn't make me sexist. Also, i think its dumb when people say their not attractive to "insert race". I mean to tell me you haven't see one pretty girl from that race? I call BS, and you shouldn't look at the skin of a person but who she is as a person.

DroidPhysX

[QUOTE="DroidPhysX"][QUOTE="Chris_Williams"]

how come when race issues are discussed people are always using black people as an example? its like, we're the only different race out their, that bugs me a little. Anyway, TC, I'm a guy and to help out my species i need to find a FEMALE mate to procreate with, I can't have a child with another guy so it doesn't make me sexist. Also, i think its dumb when people say their not attractive to "insert race". I mean to tell me you haven't see one pretty girl from that race? I call BS, and you shouldn't look at the skin of a person but who she is as a person.

Chris_Williams

Especially when human beings show a shockingly wide range of physical differences within their own race to begin with.

Depends. Scenario 1: "I won't date a black girl because I simply do not find them very attractive." No. Scenario 2: "I won't date a black girl because she my steal my stuff.". Yes.cd_rom

In some sense it's racist yes. Because out of all the black women in the world you could not find even one that is attractive in some way.

All I know is black women are the best

Absolutely yes! If a girl is hot an u choose not because of her race you're definitely racist. Now maybe u think one race doesn't have as many hotties it's a different thing, but all races have at leasr some hot girls. Unless u're a racist there is only one issue and issue only! Is she hot or not?charlesdarwin55

[QUOTE="charlesdarwin55"]Absolutely yes! If a girl is hot an u choose not because of her race you're definitely racist. Now maybe u think one race doesn't have as many hotties it's a different thing, but all races have at leasr some hot girls. Unless u're a racist there is only one issue and issue only! Is she hot or not?Overlord93

Of course it isn't racist, that's just like saying it's not right if you won't go out with someone who is really ugly in your opinion. Attraction is different for everybody, you will find a certain look more appealing - if that's a small facial feature or something as big as a different race that doesn't matter.

[QUOTE="Overlord93"][QUOTE="charlesdarwin55"]Absolutely yes! If a girl is hot an u choose not because of her race you're definitely racist. Now maybe u think one race doesn't have as many hotties it's a different thing, but all races have at leasr some hot girls. Unless u're a racist there is only one issue and issue only! Is she hot or not?charlesdarwin55

not really it's perference

but if you do it out of stereotype then thats another story

personally, im black but i like all types of women

[QUOTE="charlesdarwin55"][QUOTE="Overlord93"] every heard the phrase "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" nobody is "hot". They are just viewed that way by others. Some people will naturally not find people of other races attractive.Overlord93

[QUOTE="Overlord93"][QUOTE="charlesdarwin55"] I seriously doubt that. There's so much variety in every race, I mean if u don't like black girls in general Then it's solely for tgeir skin color which can be lighter than a tanned white person. Excluding an entire race is 100% racistZaibach

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[QUOTE="Overlord93"] Were not talking about not dating an entire race though are we, we're talking about not dating one particular person becuase of their race.Overlord93

[QUOTE="Overlord93"][QUOTE="Zaibach"]sounds kinda racist, preference suggests you've atleast experienced being with that person from that race

Zaibach

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[QUOTE="Overlord93"] No it isn't. I'm not discriminating if I choose not to go out with a girl I consider unnattractive so how is this any different? double standards.Overlord93

I dont see the connection to skin pigmentation or ethnicity

[QUOTE="Overlord93"][QUOTE="Zaibach"]It is racist if you find her attractiveness synonymous with her race.

Zaibach

I dont see the connection to skin pigmentation or ethnicity

Not racist and or sexist. Just a preference.OneShot112

I agree with this.

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[QUOTE="Overlord93"] So lets say I like girls with big 'eyes' because I think they're cute, thats how my mind is programmed and that is what I like not out of choice but out of nature. So if a particular race has smaller less defined 'eyes' and I am thus less attracted to them, I'm a racist?Overlord93

I dont see the connection to skin pigmentation or ethnicity

[QUOTE="Overlord93"][QUOTE="Zaibach"]I dont see the connection to skin pigmentation or ethnicity

charlesdarwin55

I'm talking about 1 person, because of their race. Is that so hard to understand?

Lets say I like girls with smaller eyes in this example:

• I like girl A because she is from a race with small eyes
• And girl B doesn't have small eyes, this is due to her race.

I therefor find girl B less attractive as a result of her race. I feel like I am repeating myself.

I am naturally attracted to women of all different races. I am not attracted to men of any race. No, I'm not sexist. Personal choices in regard to relationships and intimacy have nothing to do with general fair treatment of other people. You're only sexist and/or racist of you allow your personal preferences to influence the general treatment of others.

hartsickdiscipl

[QUOTE="charlesdarwin55"][QUOTE="Overlord93"]Ethnicity defines a variety of things including bone and facial struction as well as skin pigmentation. Overlord93

I'm talking about 1 person, because of their race. Is that so hard to understand?

Lets say I like girls with smaller eyes in this example:

• I like girl A because she is from a race with small eyes
• And girl B doesn't have small eyes, this is due to her race.

I therefor find girl B less attractive as a result of her race. I feel like I

[QUOTE="Overlord93"]

[QUOTE="charlesdarwin55"] Not really, the individual difference is bigger. Let's say u like big eyes. Sure asians generally asians have smaller eyes than europeans but I can guarantee there are asians with ginormous eyes and europeans with tiny eyes. Who would u choose (in this example). A: u choose the asian and thus u would date that race or B u r racist.charlesdarwin55

I'm talking about 1 person, because of their race. Is that so hard to understand?

Lets say I like girls with smaller eyes in this example:

• I like girl A because she is from a race with small eyes
• And girl B doesn't have small eyes, this is due to her race.

I therefor find girl B less attractive as a result of her race. I feel like I

It stated about choosing a girl over another because of a physical feature that was controlled by her race. This shouldn't be hard to understand. :?

[QUOTE="charlesdarwin55"][QUOTE="Overlord93"]I'm not talking about not finding an entire race attractive/unattractive

I'm talking about 1 person, because of their race. Is that so hard to understand?

Lets say I like girls with smaller eyes in this example:

• I like girl A because she is from a race with small eyes
• And girl B doesn't have small eyes, this is due to her race.

I therefor find girl B less attractive as a result of her race. I feel like I

Overlord93

It stated about choosing a girl over another because of a physical feature that was controlled by her race. This shouldn't be hard to understand. :?

Just answer the question. If A is from a race with generally small eyes but this individual has big enough eyes for you(since these kimds of thing varies also within races) would you be ok with dating her?charlesdarwin55

a girl has a feature(ascociated with/a result of) her race

• I find her unattractive because of that feature

I am therefor choosing not to date her as a result of her race

If a girl of same race has a different feature (thus that feature is not one generally associated with her race) - Then that is a completely different argument, and since we are talking about choosing a girl due to her physical appearance then yes, if she has the physical appearance I find attractive, of course I'm going to"date her" in this scenario!

Absolutely yes! If u choose not because of her race you're definitely racist.

*"a girl is hot an" -removed for irrelevancecharlesdarwin55

I am responding to this (still :roll: )

Have I not proved that this is wrong? (via text in purple)