Help me choose a girlfriend!

Ok I have a very difficult decision I'm placing on myself about my girlfriend. First a little backstory:

I've been dating my girlfriend for 6 months and she moved away(45 mintues away) I talk to every so often during the week and I see her every other weekend. Now she has a job. She doesn't have a car or means to come see me. Plus her mom is a little psycho about our relationship. I am thinking of putting us on hold until she can drive and be released from the clutches of her mom.

In the meantime, at my job, I see a girl everyday who is very attractive and very in to me. But she knows I have a girlfriend. She lives in town, but is in the same situation as my girlfriend(mom and car) I am having a difficult time because I'm loyal to my girlfriend, but I never see her and rarely talk to her! while this girl I see everyday! I really need help with this, any suggestions?

Dude if you had to ask this question then you know the answer already but havent noticed it.dracos9000

True.

Girl I see everydayCurrent Girlfriend!premier111

Girl you see everyday!

Dude, don't come here for help like this. 99% of the people will give you meaningless answers. Go to your real friends who might actually know those girls.cool_baller

This is truth...you may find that most of your replys are form Jackasses...but isn't that what OT is for? Jackass replys?

[QUOTE="cool_baller"]Dude, don't come here for help like this. 99% of the people will give you meaningless answers. Go to your real friends who might actually know those girls.kylekatarn10

This is truth...you may find that most of your replys are form Jackasses...but isn't that what OT is for? Jackass replys?

im just trying to get replies, this chooisng thing is messing with my mind:(

I see cleavage :oops:shaza91

lol he actually did supply the pics, anyways, neither one is significantly better looking than the other, but the first picture is obviously shopped a bit. I dont think it changes anything, really. all it does is make me doubt your story...shawxn

The first picture is a pic i got off her senior picture website, it sucks cause it's only half rez, but professionaly done!

[QUOTE="shaza91"]I see cleavage :oops:cool_baller

HOW SO? she does have a large bust..

[QUOTE="kylekatarn10"]

[QUOTE="cool_baller"]Dude, don't come here for help like this. 99% of the people will give you meaningless answers. Go to your real friends who might actually know those girls.premier111

This is truth...you may find that most of your replys are form Jackasses...but isn't that what OT is for? Jackass replys?

im just trying to get replies, this chooisng thing is messing with my mind:(

I understand, but I really don't think you should be unfaithful to your current girlfriend...

[QUOTE="premier111"][QUOTE="kylekatarn10"]

[QUOTE="cool_baller"]Dude, don't come here for help like this. 99% of the people will give you meaningless answers. Go to your real friends who might actually know those girls.kylekatarn10

This is truth...you may find that most of your replys are form Jackasses...but isn't that what OT is for? Jackass replys?

im just trying to get replies, this chooisng thing is messing with my mind:(

I understand, but I really don't think you should be unfaithful to your current girlfriend...

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I'm not, it's just I dont think this long-distance thing is working out well anymore, and there are other opportuneities...

This is SO weird. Kikouken

How so? girls messin with me... maybe just date Kikouken and call it quits?:)

[QUOTE="cool_baller"][QUOTE="shaza91"]I see cleavage :oops:premier111

HOW SO? she does have a large bust..

I think you just solved your problem...

well they both almost look the same... odd.

Well since your having second thoughts with your current relationship that means you dont have strong feelings for her so i dont think your current relationship will last.

well they both almost look the same... odd.

Well since your having doughts with your current relatioship that means you dont have strong feelings for her so i dont think your current relatioship will last.

L8erSquare

LOL! i thought so too! maybe cause they are white blondes giving the same facial expression, but I never thought about that....OF course I know I don't have strong feelings, or else I wouldnt already be doubting it, I just want to know if its okay to do this, it sucks no matter what outcome, unless both go out with me ;) jk

it's me or what? I found this kind of topics are much interesting :lol:

btw, can't really help you the "choose a girlfriend", it's complicated

[QUOTE="L8erSquare"]

well they both almost look the same... odd.

Well since your having second thoughts with your current relationship that means you dont have strong feelings for her so i dont think your current relationship will last.

premier111

LOL! i thought so too! maybe cause they are white blondes giving the same facial expression, but I never thought about that....OF course I know I don't have strong feelings, or else I wouldnt already be doubting it, I just want to know if its okay to do this, it sucks no matter what outcome, unless both go out with me ;) jk

Well i personally dont like long distance relationships, they are hard... but your still young move on, i just hope the new girl wont remind you of your ex :(

but then again what do i know, im just some random guy on the net :( ... but thats what i would do in your situation.

The fact that your in high school means that you should take the local girl. Long distance doesn't worko_sausage

Agreed.

The fact that your in high school means that you should take the local girl. Long distance doesn't worko_sausage

FYI im in college, the two girls are seniors, and yes im only 18. so are they. I DO have strong feelings for my girlfriend, just they have been shaken up and I dont know if i should let it crumble or hold it up?

Dude, don't come here for help like this. 99% of the people will give you meaningless answers. Go to your real friends who might actually know those girls.cool_baller

What if he doiesn't have any real friends?

Eh start a harem.dracos9000

? what is that? first thought in my mind: whorehouse! lol

[QUOTE="o_sausage"]The fact that your in high school means that you should take the local girl. Long distance doesn't workpremier111

FYI im in college, the two girls are seniors, and yes im only 18. so are they. I DO have strong feelings for my girlfriend, just they have been shaken up and I dont know if i should let it crumble or hold it up?

GO WITH THE OTHER GIRL!!!!!

[QUOTE="cool_baller"]Dude, don't come here for help like this. 99% of the people will give you meaningless answers. Go to your real friends who might actually know those girls.MrGeezer

What if he doiesn't have any real friends?

I do, but they dont give a s!@# about my girls, if I asked them it would be "f the girl that sees you everyday, and not tell your girlfriend" they suck.

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[QUOTE="o_sausage"]The fact that your in high school means that you should take the local girl. Long distance doesn't workxxDustmanxx

FYI im in college, the two girls are seniors, and yes im only 18. so are they. I DO have strong feelings for my girlfriend, just they have been shaken up and I dont know if i should let it crumble or hold it up?

GO WITH THE OTHER GIRL!!!!!

18 and a senior in collage? ... still no car :( after college it will be hard to find girls. So pick wisely.

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

[QUOTE="cool_baller"]Dude, don't come here for help like this. 99% of the people will give you meaningless answers. Go to your real friends who might actually know those girls.premier111

What if he doiesn't have any real friends?

I do, but they dont give a s!@# about my girls, if I asked them it would be "f the girl that sees you everyday, and not tell your girlfriend" they suck.

Ouch, im glad i dont have friends like that :|

[QUOTE="Kikouken"]This is SO weird. premier111

How so? girls messin with me... maybe just date Kikouken and call it quits?:)

*Ditches you*

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

[QUOTE="cool_baller"]Dude, don't come here for help like this. 99% of the people will give you meaningless answers. Go to your real friends who might actually know those girls.premier111

What if he doiesn't have any real friends?

I do, but they dont give a s!@# about my girls, if I asked them it would be "f the girl that sees you everyday, and not tell your girlfriend" they suck.

So why are you friends with them then? Well I just saw the pictures and because I am extremely shallow I say stay with your current one as she is 5x better looking than the one you see everyday.

[QUOTE="premier111"][QUOTE="MrGeezer"]

[QUOTE="cool_baller"]Dude, don't come here for help like this. 99% of the people will give you meaningless answers. Go to your real friends who might actually know those girls.L8erSquare

What if he doiesn't have any real friends?

I do, but they dont give a s!@# about my girls, if I asked them it would be "f the girl that sees you everyday, and not tell your girlfriend" they suck.

Ouch, im glad i dont have friends like that :|

Yeah they changed senior year, I only hang out with them now to play halo 3 and guitar hero..still cant find people to hang with at college, but I do only go there for class...

[QUOTE="premier111"]

[QUOTE="Kikouken"]This is SO weird. Kikouken

How so? girls messin with me... maybe just date Kikouken and call it quits?:)

*Ditches you*

Dang, I suck.....Im single now though, WHOOHOO no more worries, I can just sleep around now!

IS your current girlfriend loyal, do you trust her? Is you "friend" trust worthy? have yall done anything? if so, she knows your with someone, still is into you... well you get it.

which one needs you? which one do you think about the most? which one has been there for you? I think you know. go to her. go to her now!!!

IS your current girlfriend loyal, do you trust her? Is you "friend" trust worthy? have yall done anything? if so, she knows your with someone, still is into you... well you get it.

which one needs you? which one do you think about the most? which one has been there for you? I think you know. go to her. go to her now!!!

markthebum

You sound blindly in love.DO NOT LISTEN TO THIS GUY!!!!He has no idea what he is saying!

Pick the girl in your town man EASY acces :wink:Gh0st_Of_0nyx

LISTEN TO THIS PERSON!!!!!

IS your current girlfriend loyal, do you trust her? Is you "friend" trust worthy? have yall done anything? if so, she knows your with someone, still is into you... well you get it.

which one needs you? which one do you think about the most? which one has been there for you? I think you know. go to her. go to her now!!!

markthebum

1. She's loyal and trustworhty but has same problem of long distance guys are here thing

2. Friend is trustworthy, and we did stuff before I met my girlfriend, nothing since

3. They both need me, I'm the only guy my girlfriend trusts(dad included), and the other girl is my best friend, even though she's a girl, and loves to have me around to talk to and make her day better(said so herself)

4. i used to think about my girlfriend the most, but since she moved and I see a different girl everyday, you can guess who i think of.

5. They have both been there, but my girlfriend cannot anymore...