[QUOTE="greenskittles"]
Jesus christ, you're 17, it's just a phase. The whole social awkwardness stage has happened to me and a tons of people and I've pretty much gotten over it. There are a million ways to fix this kind of issue, really.
Let me ask you something, do you have problems talking to a cashier even?
SoSadLife
No, I would like to think not. But thats exactly how I would react with anyone, emotionless. I do feel uncomfortable.
He could seek help from family and relatives. He also said he had REAL friends. Who better to ask advice from than friends and/or family?lancea34
Not really, I really don't like to speak about this irl because I constantly have this feeling that people (Even parents and friends) are judging on what actions I do. Hope this makes sense.
Emotionless? I'm confused. So when talking to a cashier you have a blank face and speak in a monotone voice? Listen mate, here is something I want you to do. Rest assured I have felt uncomfortable speaking to people behind even a counter but it can be overcome.
Cashiers, first you have to understand the fact that most people working are trying to help you make a decision and be nice to you (actually 95% of people are already like that). But this is their job so it won't be so hard. Just go up to a person, in a shopping centre who is working by him or herself at a stand or something and start a talking about recommendations for a gift. Ask questions like "what would be a good gift for my 35 year old auntie" what do you recommend here?, continue on asking about these products, ask if they have some themselves. Then go on to make some small talk like how long they've worked their, whether or not they are from around here etc. Just some questions man and try not to reply with a "oh cool" or "ah" cause that gets you nowhere, keep proddding the person (without going too personal, unless you want to pick up some chick)
This works with everyone but like I said if you want to start small and since there is almost no risk in seeing them again you should try this method. Just go for a walk in a shopping centre or something. Heck this works for random people at the bus stop , just pretend you don't know directions to something and start asking about them, small talk like the traffic or school. If you can practice this, it will work in almost all situations, you will probably suck at first (go in expecting that and you won't care as much) but after a few attempts you will be like "normal" again. Seriously, do this.
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