Are you going to get married?

I used to think it was a man-made-prison (Seinfeld reference if anyone watches the show :)) I could never imagine myself wanting to be with one person the rest of my life. But in the past few months of my girlfriend and I dating (about two years). I really believe I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I don't think I would want to go through life without her.

So I've gone from one extreme to the other basically because I found the right one.

Do you find marriage to be man-made-prisons? Or can you not wait to spend your life with the person you love?

"Am I going to?" and "Do I want to?" are two different questions. Of course I'd like to; marriage is a gateway to everything I've ever wanted. I recently attended my cousin's wedding and it changed my outlook on what it means to dedicate your life to someone. Words can't even begin to describe how beautiful marriage is.

It's not like I'll ever get married, though. I'm nearly certain of it.

It's not high on my list of priorities, but if the right woman came along I wouldn't be averse to it.

"Am I going to?" and "Do I want to?" are two different questions. Of course I'd like to; marriage is a gateway to everything I've ever wanted. I recently attended my cousin's wedding and it changed my outlook on what it means to dedicate your life to someone. Words can't even begin to describe how beautiful marriage is.

It's not like I'll ever get married, though. I'm nearly certain of it.

dracula_16

Took the words out of my brain. :o

(Question is more for those who aren't religious - but anyone can still answer)

How do you feel about getting married even though marriage is traditionally tied to religion?

I don't want to get married in a church even though in reality that won't change much.

It's not high on my list of priorities, but if the right woman came along I wouldn't be averse to it.

GabuEx

(Question is more for those who aren't religious - but anyone can still answer)

How do you feel about getting married even though marriage is traditionally tied to religion?

I don't want to get married in a church even though in reality that won't change much.

Cwagmire21

(Question is more for those who aren't religious - but anyone can still answer)

How do you feel about getting married even though marriage is traditionally tied to religion?

I don't want to get married in a church even though in reality that won't change much.

Cwagmire21

am fraids us lowly nerds are bound for a life of destitute, woe is us! Least we got our games to keep us company. Siofen

I have an idea that I want to get married and have toddlers all over the place, I just don't know when. Maybe I'll be 40 before I get married.. who knows *shrug*Deihjan

Sounds like a lot responsability. *nose bleed*

I used to think it was a man-made-prison (Seinfeld reference if anyone watches the show :)) I could never imagine myself wanting to be with one person the rest of my life. But in the past few months of my girlfriend and I dating (about two years). I really believe I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I don't think I would want to go through life without her.

So I've gone from one extreme to the other basically because I found the right one.

Do you find marriage to be man-made-prisons? Or can you not wait to spend your life with the person you love?

Cwagmire21

thats how I see myself.

I am not going to force it, and Ive delt with the pressure from my folks for a few years now, so I think I can hold out lol.

The way I see it, the right girl will come along.

[QUOTE="Deihjan"]I have an idea that I want to get married and have toddlers all over the place, I just don't know when. Maybe I'll be 40 before I get married.. who knows *shrug*Meeeko

Sounds like a lot responsability. *nose bleed*

[QUOTE="Meeeko"]

[QUOTE="Deihjan"]I have an idea that I want to get married and have toddlers all over the place, I just don't know when. Maybe I'll be 40 before I get married.. who knows *shrug*Deihjan

Sounds like a lot responsability. *nose bleed*

ROFL thats exactly what I imagined.

mmhm june 27lilburtonboy748

The want for legal marriage jsut shows how much the 2 distrust eachother. They are trying to get a legally binding contract for their relationship :|

Pretty sick stuff if you ask me.

[QUOTE="lilburtonboy748"]mmhm june 27Deihjan

The want for legal marriage jsut shows how much the 2 distrust eachother. They are trying to get a legally binding contract for their relationship :|

Pretty sick stuff if you ask me.

flclempire

thank you, sir, for explaining how I feel on this subject. I couldn't think of a way to say it but you took it right out of my mouth.

I prefer staying with a lovely lady because of trust and love. Not societal bondage.

[QUOTE="Deihjan"][QUOTE="lilburtonboy748"]mmhm june 27lilburtonboy748

The want for legal marriage jsut shows how much the 2 distrust eachother. They are trying to get a legally binding contract for their relationship :|

Pretty sick stuff if you ask me.

flclempire

No, I believe you're thinking of prenuptial agreements. :)

bondageMeeeko

[QUOTE="flclempire"]

The want for legal marriage jsut shows how much the 2 distrust eachother. They are trying to get a legally binding contract for their relationship :|

Pretty sick stuff if you ask me.

Meeeko

thank you, sir, for explaining how I feel on this subject. I couldn't think of a way to say it but you took it right out of my mouth.

I prefer staying with a lovely lady because of trust and love. Not societal bondage.

[QUOTE="Meeeko"]bondageDeihjan

Subliminal message, perhaps.

[QUOTE="Meeeko"][QUOTE="flclempire"]

The want for legal marriage jsut shows how much the 2 distrust eachother. They are trying to get a legally binding contract for their relationship :|

Pretty sick stuff if you ask me.

foxhound_fox

thank you, sir, for explaining how I feel on this subject. I couldn't think of a way to say it but you took it right out of my mouth.

I prefer staying with a lovely lady because of trust and love. Not societal bondage.

A man made prison... lets see..... meals cooked for you, lots of yard work, a sex life..... yep!jasperrussell

Lol!

[QUOTE="foxhound_fox"][QUOTE="Meeeko"]

thank you, sir, for explaining how I feel on this subject. I couldn't think of a way to say it but you took it right out of my mouth.

I prefer staying with a lovely lady because of trust and love. Not societal bondage.

lilburtonboy748

Very materialistic, no?

You can still share and not have to be bound by a silly legal agreement.

Very materialistic, no?

You can still share and not have to be bound by a silly legal agreement.

Meeeko

[QUOTE="Meeeko"]Very materialistic, no?

You can still share and not have to be bound by a silly legal agreement.

foxhound_fox

You have a point. In my mind though I feel that people mainly only do it for money or other tripe reasons. This could possibly be broad generalizations made by my imaginative mind.

Another thing about marriage that seems foul to me. Is the whole, have to spend a billion dollars on the ceremony deal.

I don't know it just doesn't feel right...