Never married, don't even have a girlfriend. I'm not against the idea, but having only myself to provide and care for is much easier on the wallet. I've also seen (or heard of) a lot of marriages going south. I'm always discouraged when I hear about couples getting divorced. Seems like if you really love someone maybe you shouldn't marry them.
Both should be working if you ask me. Living expenses should not double by being two, however income could double.
I'd like to be able to provide for both of us so that she wouldn't have to work if she didn't want to. Like, if she wanted to be a stay-at-home mom for example, I'd be cool with that. Of course if she did want to work that'd be great too since there would be two checks coming in and she'd have her own spending money.
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