[QUOTE="Murderstyle75"][QUOTE="Mcspanky37"]I'm really curious how someone can have "male" or "female" thoughts outside of attraction. Can someone explain how a guy determines if he was supposed to be a woman, and how it's different from simply being gay?guynamedbilly
That would depend. Would a man consider laying with another man as a man? Not to speak for Mcspanky, but my thoughts on that were mainly focused on kids. How can someone who hasn't reached puberty determine which gender they should be? There are plenty of straight males that played with dolls as a kid because of a variety of reasons like having sisters as your siblings. How is a kid able to say "I enjoy female things so I should be a female?" As for the topic overall, if it doesn't harm me and makes them happy, they why would I care? Our current society is focused on free expression, so why should this one particular thing be prohibited? Tax dollars.
Why do stupid people always think they're an expert on every subject?
MakeMeaSammitch
No see the issues here is this is what the same doctors that these people "belief help them" have come up with long ago. They won't admit it because it will cause controversy but there are plenty of books and articles by 10-40 year professionals all saying this. I am not just saying this out of nowhere.
"See the thing people need to realize is that it's all mind games the brain is tricking these people with."
Your brain makes your reality, regardless of whether or not it is in fact real, is real to you. You can't re-wire the brain to fix the "problem" (assuming the people would want this "problem" fixed.), so what treatment would be best? Force them to live as they don't see themselves, or allow them to be who they are. And Gender != Sex.
Inconsistancy
What are you talking about? Addicts can eventually get through their addiction. The difference is nothing actually is making them thin this but themselves to a point where it's stuck in their head. Like saying to yourself "that man might kill me" over and over and eventually you are now a nervous reck that always carries a shot gun in your car. Even after a news report that man died from cancer last year.
I'm really curious how someone can have "male" or "female" thoughts outside of attraction. Can someone explain how a guy determines if he was supposed to be a woman, and how it's different from simply being gay?Mcspanky37
You can't. It's mind games. They believed something that would eventually continue to be though in their mind. That's when they should go see someone or tell someone. Because at the end they will still be the same with an imaginary "covere" where the brain will think that it is no longer an issue. If one really felt like they needed to be female. A lot more would have been attempted to be removed than 99% of those people do. Same with Women wanting to be male.
A lot of people and I know some of you are here. Support the decision of one to change themselves to the gender physically that they "believe" to be a gender that they really are. The main number 1 excuse when all else failed is let them be themselves so they can be most comfortable. But how is supporting someone to be something they are not and still will be after the Op anyway because it's impossible, telling them to be themselves? You are telling them to damage themselves and put a cover over top while everything is still the same. I think you are encouraging the person in a dangerous habit. Kind of like convincing people to commit suicide. See the thing people need to realize is that it's all mind games the brain is tricking these people with. Because once you go through all the fluff, you are still the same but your brain THINKS that you are not. It's why a lot of the men-to-women don't remove certain things. it's all mind games. You should be supporting them seeing a therapist!
No one actually chooses to be in these religions. Your parents influence your decisions early in life. Or a state of which you belong to (where it is pretty much considered family to a person anyway.) Most people never actually choose to be christian but through the years had the idea planted in their heads when they were children. A lot of people don't even get the choice and that influences what they will do in life for those implanted beliefs as well. A parent should not decide the fate of their children or do incredibly stupid things like naming their child: moses, christian, mesiah(in the news recently), islam, Muhammad, etc. to the point where they almost have to stick to one forcibly.
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