[QUOTE="Dawq902"][QUOTE="jpph"]

well im pretty sure she likes me, not just drunkenly.but i feel if i was more assertive then she would really like me.

what intimidates me is that she is gorgeous, like drop dead. im not ugly i don't think, but i really don't feel up to her standard.

jpph

ok so you have experience, i need tips!! also it's intimidating that I'm a virgin, she's not, and she's also over a year older. I only have 2 months left of school, and i really really don't want her to be the girl that got away

Okay, yeah, this kinda changes everything. Look man I've had a lot of hot girls in my day and by no means am I an ugly guy but def. not the hottest. DON'T BE INSECURE! GIRLS HATE INSECURITY, A HUGE TURN OFF FOR THEM! Look if she isn't a virgin and you just wanna mess around with her I'm willing to bet you def. could at least get to 3rd base (not saying just cuz her virginity is gone she's a slut, this is just usually how it works). Now if you want her to be your gf you really need to step up ESPECIALLY because you're younger. To show her that you like her AT LEAST kiss her. I'm thinking worst case scenario she'll think it's cute. As for you being a virgin, don't worry about it man. Everyone was at one point or another. If she doesn't know, don't tell her. If she does it's probably not that big of a deal for her, it might even make her want you more. You do want her as your girlfriend and not just a hookup or friends with benifits right? The real question is do you want to lose your virginity to her? When I was 15 I dated a 21 year old, at first my age bothered her but as she got to know me more and I acted more like a man she respected me and treated me as if I was 21 with her. P.S. I lost my virginity to this girl. I also didn't tell her till months later that I was in fact a virgin before I slept with her and she didn't mind and said she couldn't even tell. So again, don't let that bother you man.

In order to properly answer this I need more information:

Does she have a history of messing around?

Do you feel like she likes you in that way?

Is she touchy feely with you?

A lot of times girls can be hard to read man. I think you should've tried something, especially since both of you were buzzed but that doesn't mean you can't fix it. Next time you're with her put yourself out there a little more and see if she's into it. Even if you just put your arm around her... Also remember just because she doesn't smile really big when you have your arm arond her doesn't mean she doesn't like it. A lot of girls just like to play hard to get. So as long as she's not upset or weirded out by it, it's a good thing. Feel her out more - make your move. Either way push/flirt as hard as you can and note her reaction. If she hasn't made a move and you really want to you def. have to take initiative.

P.S. - I haven't hit up the forums since 2002 and this is my first post back. *laughs and wonders if there's still anyone on here from 8 yrs. ago*